rubired

@rubired (78)

United States • Age 37

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Have You Ever Gone Back To A Place You Remember From Your Childhood?

sksongwriter @sksongwriter (200) • United States 16 Oct 08

Here's my story. I am in Richond, Virginia this week for management training. Richmond is about an hour and a half from Washington D.C. When I was 11, my parents moved to Washington for a year so that my dad could do...

rome

tennessee

when in rome

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rubired I just had one of those feelings a couple of days ago. I went to sit outside at night for a while. I hadn't done that in quite a while. I was looking around. There was nobody in sight. The moon was full, and there were beautiful white clouds passing by....

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Whar are your thoughts about jealousy?

mojcica @mojcica (1511) • Slovenia 3 Oct 08

I am not jealous person by nature. I don't get all freaked out when my boyfriend is speaking to a female. I don't mind him commeting on women passing by...hack I'm even helping him lol But there are a few things that bother...

jealousy

love

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rubired I can relate to you in that way. I'm not jealous (and I also comment on other girls when sees them:D) But when there's that snobby girl who even tries to touch him, it kinda gets me jealous. But I've been trying to think of it another way: These girls can...

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What do you do when he says "I love you" too soon.

AmyBethYes @AmyBethYes (96) • United States 3 Oct 08

It's happened multiple times in my case. There's the strange ones that one day after you meet them are calling you at three in the morning to say they miss and love you...then there's the ones who wait at least a week before...

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rubired This guy told me that too. I, uhm, just smiled back, hugged him (to let him know I appreciate it, but to get the point that I'm not "there" yet.), and continued on with another subject. Hope he didn't feel rejected or bad in any way :P

16 Oct 08

Do you smile often ?

bugbaby @bugbaby (1787) • Indonesia 16 Oct 08

Not to often or people will think I have problems! I smile when its appropriate and it is often, it keeps me confident for one and makes others smile as well.

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rubired When I'm alone, and I catch myself frowning, I try to smile and keep it on. For some reason, when I'm frowning, it just gets me really unenergized and dull. But when I smile, it makes me feel happier and more hyper. And when I'm out, I try to do the...

16 Oct 08

Bigger is better

Katinka @Katinka (61) • South Africa 16 Oct 08

Do you prefer a small mug or a really big mug? I drink a lot of coffee throughout the day. Sometimes I even drink 2 or 3 cups of coffee in a row!! Recently a friend gave me a 500ml coffee mug, and I love it!! I use it in the...

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rubired I wouldn't care back then. But my mom got me in the habit of drinking a good amount of coffee :P She also drinks that much coffee. And she still says it's not big enough! Huge mugs fascinate her. If she sees an even bigger one, I know she'll buy it!

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"One Chooses to Be Happy or Sad in Circumstance" Would you agree at all?

Helios @Helios (85) • United States 16 Oct 08

This line would imply that no matter what has happened to us, ultimately we are responsible for our state of mind, whether happy or not. Sometimes I believe this but I do not believe it to be universal. Surely ones outlook...

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rubired I agree. Many people decide to make themselves miserable, when they can always smile, and improve the situation. Yes, there are times when we can't change things, and we feel helpless. Like a love loss, or death. But we have to say to ourselves,"This will...

16 Oct 08

something that encouraged you when you are in hardship

lovezero @lovezero (40) • China 15 Oct 08

Days before,I was terribly tired and dipressed in my romance.I even began to doubt about my affection.Then,I made myself concentrate on reading one of my favorite books,and one sentence encouraged and re-energized me a lot.The...

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rubired I listen to some music. But I mostly think about people who were/are in worse situations than I and made it out alive and stronger. Those are the one's who encourage me :)

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do you get shy when someone stares at you?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 13 May 07

I, myself, is a very shy person. It's been a part of my personality ever since I was a kid. I think it's natural! I know a lot of us also feel the same way when someone stares at us especially when they stare from head to...

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rubired You see, people see this two different ways: Positive or negative. Many who have confidence in themselves would be thinking,"Wow, this guy/gal is staring at me. He must really think I'm hot :)" Or you can think negative:"Ugh, look at how he/she's...

15 Oct 08

Do you look younger or older than your age? Do you know why?

hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 14 Oct 08

Earlier today someone asked me weather I was a high school student! Believe it or not, I am actually a postgraduated student. Lots of Chinese look younger than their ages. U wanna know why? I will tell u the truth! It is not only...

good for u

look younger

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rubired I remember when I was about thirteen, this police officer thought I was 17-20 :P And till this day, people still think I'm older. It's probably because I'm much taller than others of my age. I'm 5'8-9". Or...maybe not :P. My way of acting maybe. I...

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Honestly, what do you think of nerds?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 14 Oct 08

Let's define the word Nerd through an online dictionary. http://www.thefreedictionary.com/nerd - a dull or an unattractive person. - single-minded and studious. - boring and anti-socials. - some people even call...

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rubired No, there's nothing wrong with nerds. Society label nerds as, what you described, dull and/or boring. And that's not true. I've seen many nerds who are very attractive and charming. And I actually think nerds are kinda cute :D

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how tall or u

shorty08322 @shorty08322 (1270) • United States 14 Oct 08

what is your hight

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rubired I'm 5'8-9. And I still feel short at times :P.

14 Oct 08

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How many languages can you speak?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 14 Oct 08

Besides my native language Maltese, I can speak English fluently and Italian. I have also learned Arabic and French too but I can only understand too little of them. I cannot speak nor French nor Arabic. How many languages can you...

arabic

languages

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rubired I can only speak Spanish and English. Hopefully I learn how to speak French soon. And Italian. But I'm content and happy that I know more than one. I know it must be hard to learn a different language. I grew up with both, so it's pretty easy. I...

14 Oct 08

Have you ever.........

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 13 Oct 08

Dumpster dived? Or picked up items that were curbside? What's your opinion on people that do? And what's your opinion on people that instead of donating toss useful things out?

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rubired My mom sees useful things in dumpsters or right next to it, and takes it :D. Not only for her use, but if she knows many people who will probably need it (which she does), she'll save it, and whenever she sees them, she'll give it to them. And we NEVER throw...

14 Oct 08

How do you discipline your children or how would you?

psspurgeon1 @psspurgeon1 (1109) • United States 13 Oct 08

I was just wondering how you all parent your kids... I have a six year old and two year old and I use time out for my 6yo but the 2yo is a bit young. She is getting to be a terrible twos and I'm not sure what to do with her. She...

children

discipline

discipline for children

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rubired I've heard so many people say,"I'm going to give my child everything that my parents didn't give me". But I am truly against that. I don't believe giving them everything will make them value things in life. That's the main thing I want to teach...

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Do you ever give books away?

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (170693) • United States 10 Oct 08

I always have bought books as gifts, for my children, my siblings, and my grandchildren, now. I have an opportunity to give books away right now to some teens who are in a group home waiting for foster placement. It feels so good....

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rubired You know, I never really thought of giving books to places where people actually wanted/needed them. I usually just give them to thrift stores. I might as well let a child or someone else who actually wants to read but doesn't have money to buy a book and...

13 Oct 08

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most stress free thing?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 4 Oct 08

i know that we all have stress in our life at one point or the other and i like to take my mind off of my stress just as everyone else does, and i was just wondering about all of you, with me i will listen to music or either go...

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rubired Hmm, well, I would have to say two of the things that takes the most stress out would be music and writing. Whenever I just have to take something out, I write. And when I'm just feeling stressed and down, I listen to some music.

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I can hardly believe what schools are doing now!

dragon54u @dragon54u (31605) • United States 5 Oct 08

My 15 yr old great nephew does NOT know how to write cursive! They don't teach it in school except as applied to a signature. He prints EVERYTHING! This is disturbing to me. Working carefully on good cursive handwriting...

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rubired A support you 100% on this. This is the same question I've been asking myself. I learned cursive when I was in second grade. My younger brother is in third grade, and he hasn't learned it! I hate the face that they're starting to take that off...

5 Oct 08

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How do you control your anger?

limcyjain @limcyjain (3516) • India 2 Oct 08

One does get angry at times and during this time if one does not control oneself and try to find an amicable solution to the problems the ultimate results are bad. One needs to keep one's emotions under control and study the...

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rubired Well it depends on the situation. Fighting doesn't necessarily mean hit. But screaming won't do any good either. I try to discuss it first. But if it still doesn't help, and someone is attacking me back with their words, I leave, ignore them, and start...

2 Oct 08