sugarlen

@sugarlen (138)

Philippines • Age 70

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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My husband is one of a kind...I couldn't ask for more.

lotet81 @lotet81 (9) • Philippines 4 Dec 09

There are always ups and downs in a relationship. But the ability to handle the pressures in life lies on how broad your understanding is towards everything. My husband and I have been married for almost two years and are...

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sugarlen very well said... that's the right attitude... our husbands are also the angels sent by God to help us and guide us in all our undertakings... only a few married women feel this way nowadays... hope you always the best...

6 Dec 09

Why do women want to change men?

chinthit @chinthit (70) • United States 15 Nov 09

Here is a question for you ladies (men can answer too, of course): Why is it that women always seem to want to change men? Too many times, not just in my relationships, but other friends have told me, that women want to change...

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sugarlen you are right you can never change a man you just have to accept him as he is. if you love a person you should love him unconditionally. no ifs no buts... hope you'll find that person

17 Nov 09

What if you and your spouse work at the same place?

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 12 Nov 09

What is your though of you and your spouse working in the same office/division, do you think someone should break and get out or do you think it results in a better work output frm your end?

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sugarlen it is really nice if both of you are working in the same workplace cause there are so many advantages... like you can see each other more often... you will know your day to day activities... you save on gas cause you can travel from home to office together......

15 Nov 09

Do you think that your present partner is a perfect match for you?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 13 Nov 09

I mean your love or life partner. It is quite common that most of us will find the partner perfect during the initial period of the relationship. It will be more meaningful if those whose relationship is at least 5 years old...

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sugarlen i think there is really no perfect relationship. What matters most is how the two of you value each other and find ways and means to keep the relationship from going. But of course, love encompasses all. If you love the person you will take him/her as he/she...

15 Nov 09

An EX wanted to get me back!!! but his married already.... OHHHH Nooooo..

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 14 Nov 09

My ex just call me this day. He is asking me about us. What had happen to our relationship before and Why I leave him? I told him that I send him a letter for our break up stating all what I want to tell him. It is because of a...

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sugarlen Even if you have control now or before doesn't matter. What's the use of meeting him when he is married. You have to be practical in life and face realities. Move on so you won't be confused in the future. Good luck! and God bless!

15 Nov 09

Do you believe in love at first sight

1anurag1 @1anurag1 (3576) • India 20 Sep 09

do you feel somehing when you see some one and with eyes , what you feel , do you believe it is love. do you believe in love at first sight

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sugarlen i still believe that there is physical attraction in one way or another that you fell at an instance and as you go on with your relationship love develops.

13 Nov 09

Is it okay to be a mistress?

yan_blue8 @yan_blue8 (1437) • Philippines 31 Oct 09

Hi fellow myLotters! Just want to share with you a story of my friend. She is into a relationship wherein she is a mistress for 5 months now. When her partner is courting her, she never knew that he is already married for 9 years....

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sugarlen it has never been good to be a mistress after all. so as early as possible you have to cut it right away. we always reason out that it is just simply falling in love but worth is it to fall in love when someone is already taken. useless efforts after all....

2 Nov 09

Still have communication with your Ex?

sexyposh @sexyposh (575) • Philippines 18 Oct 09

Are you still in good term with your ex? If this question popped me, I'd say I am no longe having communication with my exs. Its not that I am bitter or something, it just so happend that it ended there after we broke up. But if...

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sugarlen it may be nice to talk to your ex but what is the use of talking to him when you are already in a relationship. you have to forgive, forget and let go. if God wills that you are meant for each other God will pave the way. however, if he is in a relationship as...

2 Nov 09

Do distance relationship work?

mrnischalgurung @mrnischalgurung (424) • India 22 Oct 09

I have been in distance relationship and that has never worked. Quarrels, misunderstanding, miscommunication,out of touch and insecurity occurs. Its really difficult to communication and keep touch and also its not secure. so do u...

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sugarlen Trust is of outmost importance in a distant relationship. It may be hard but that's the only way to keep your relationship from going.

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How often do you get together with your siblings?

Always smiling @allknowing (154166) • India 30 Oct 09

One married there is a tendency to drift and one gets involve only with their nucleus family.How often do you interact with your siblings if all of you are married and have your own family. We hardly meet nor are we concerned...

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sugarlen It is really nice to be getting in touch with your siblings often, however, since they also have families of their own it is but practical to allow them to learn realities of life in their own practical ways.. in that manner they will manage to cope with the...

2 Nov 09

Can You really Forgive Your Spouse After She/He hurts You???

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 31 Aug 09

Long time ago my husband ever hurt me by telling some lies. At that time, we argued hard since for me telling lies had torn my trust for him. In return, he said sorry and asked my forgiveness. At that moment I forgave him, but...

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sugarlen Would you believe if I say that "what you do not know won't hurt you." Anyway, if you really love a person you will have to forgive and forget.

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Can Negativity Be Classed As An Illness?

Brian @wolfie34 (26770) • United Kingdom 16 Aug 09

What makes a person negative? I am not talking about a few negative thoughts here and there, I am talking about a permanent state of negativity when everything is viewed as being negative. Is negativity just a part of...

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sugarlen It is how we intend to overcome our negative feelings that matters. Negative feelings will not bring you anywhere except down. It may be an illness but illness can be cured same as negativism.

12 Sep 09

Do U think hieght matter in a relationship................????

johndevis1234 @johndevis1234 (169) • India 17 Aug 09

hii.....i have in a confusion. i am in a relationship for 1 month every thing is fine......but there is a slight problem..... i am 6 feet 3 inches tall...........but my partner is only 4 feet .it looked very awkward and i am...

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sugarlen Is height really a problem? In my opinion, what matters most in a relationship is how you make each other happy.

12 Sep 09

Hatred, what a bad feeling to keep

dpauli @dpauli (407) • Indonesia 2 Sep 09

Hate makes us feeling so bad. Our life is limited by that feeling. I read also that hate can be a bad influence to one's health. It can brings many kind of illness to someone have it. Moreover if that makes one want to do...

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sugarlen Have you ever heard of emotional freedom technique. it is eliminating the negative emotions in our life. take out all the stems of the big tree so that life will turn out as beautiful as it should be...

12 Sep 09

is changing ur religion a crime?

mohitseth @mohitseth (568) • India 2 Sep 09

my friend asked me to change my religion from hinduism to cristianity. is changing religiona crime?

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sugarlen How can it ever be a crime? It is your choice as what religion to take. Whatever you believe in, as long as you focus your life on God, then I don't think religion matters after all.. but as a Catholic it is still better to die as a Catholic..

12 Sep 09

Church or Civil Wedding: Which is more "stronger" in holding the relation?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 6 Sep 09

Hello mylotters, getting married would not be an easy decision in your life. As what I understood this is the other half of your life that would be at risk. Why? Because if your marriage would not be successful the situation and...

church wedding

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sugarlen We Catholics believe that a church wedding is much better than any kind of marriage. With God's blessings, the tough married life will be easier to bear.

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Do you believe in demonic possession?

dvmurphy @dvmurphy (326) • United States 8 Sep 09

What are the signs of possession? Are they always noticable? Can bipolar or multipersonality disorder actually be misdiagnosed when it could be a form of possession or drugs? My daughter is 24 and the doctors say she is both...

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multiple personalities

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sugarlen My daughter is also bipolar but I have not seen her experienced the things your daughter underwent through. Medicines will be of great help to survive this case.

12 Sep 09

I just lost my 17 year old cousin...

breepeace @breepeace (3014) • Canada 8 Sep 09

On August 29th, my cousin sat down on her bed, read a passage of the bible, and then shot herself through the head with her dad's handgun. She was 17 years old, beautiful, intelligent, creative, gifted and well loved. I...

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sugarlen We all have dark periods in our lives. Life is how we take it and living is how we bear it. Let's always think positive so that positive vibes come our way and pray hard that God will always protect us. Everything will come to pass as long as you have faith in...

12 Sep 09

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Confused with relationships.......

dbutheking @dbutheking (2347) • India 8 Sep 09

Hi friends, Last week i attended my sister's marriage. Lots of relatives came to the marriage. I know most of the relatives, but i don't know some of the relatives. I know them bit i don't know how i was related to them. One...

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sugarlen So as not to get confused, all you have to say is you are related... whether first, second, third degree... that is life... try to join the geni tree so that it will be easier to understand relationships more... have a great day!

12 Sep 09

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