tonixxx

@tonixxx (358)

Age 40

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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I feel so inadequate!

nicholejade @nicholejade (2430) • Canada 27 May 09

My fiance and I have been talking alot about having kids. He is going to be 31 in October and I turned 26 in January. So we are not getting any younger. Anyway we have been discussing ever since we first got together we have never...

getting pregnant

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tonixxx Hello, I am undergoing IVF at present and understand completely what you mean about feeling worthless. In a particularly emotional outburst i informed my fiance that "I hve no purpose, i am completely useless, i cant even do what women were put on earth to...

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IVF Treatment

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 27 Aug 09

I am currently undergoing IVF, i am having Menopor injecttions and have been for 7 days, i had a scan last tuesday and my dose was upped, so i now have two injections. I am at the hospital again for a scan tommorow. I am...

Your choice...

carol_m @carol_m (709) • Philippines 28 Sep 07

A murderer is condemned to death. He has to choose among three rooms. The first is full of raging fires, the second is full of assassins with loaded guns, and the third is full of lions that haven't eaten in 3 years. Which room is...

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tonixxx The lions would be very hungry if they were still alive, i would say that was the safer option, they are all dead.

11 Mar 08

Solve this riddle

Rueca08 @Rueca08 (101) • Philippines 8 Feb 08

Can you solve this riddle? When I was going to St. Ives, I met a man with seven wives each wives has seven sacks each sacks has seven cats each cat has seven kittens how many were going to St. Ives? I won't tell the...

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tonixxx It was a lonely journey, just the one was going to St Ives. You met a man but it says nowhere that they were all going there too.

11 Mar 08

what will you do if you find out that you are being double timed ???

shailendraraj @shailendraraj (259) • India 8 Feb 08

Relationships are very important and faith and loyalty is of paramount importance... What will you do if you find out that your Girlfriend/Boyfriend is double timing you. What will be your reaction.. will you leave him/her???

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tonixxx I would leave without hesitation, i love my fiance but once the trust is gone there is no turning it around. Paranoia would set in and both our lives would be a misery. It would be for the best for both of us and the selfless thing to do.

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Autistic Spectrum Disorder

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 29 Dec 07

Do you have a relationship with, work with/care for anybody with autism. How does autism affect your life, how does autism manifest itself in the person you know, do you ask for help or work alone, are you helping a parent of an...

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Carers?

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 29 Dec 07

I work with the local council as a care officer looking after disabled children, are there any other carers for children with disabilities on here, if so do you get an amazing amount of satisfaction from your job as i do.

Engaged before your married

kids91911 @kids91911 (4363) • United States 28 Nov 06

Are you engaged? I am and how long to you think a person should be engaged before getting married. How long is to long and how short is to short?

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tonixxx I am engaged and i think that it depends on your individual circumstances. I have been engaged a year and have not planned a wedding, we have talked about it but are struggling with responsibility or doing what we want. I have a friend who has been engaged for...

29 Dec 07

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Do you like to spend time alone?

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 29 Dec 07

I really enjoy it now. My boyfriend left for 10 days due to International Business trip. I am happy with myself and my...

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tonixxx I enjoy to have some time for myself, i feel that if i was in the company of my partner 24/7 i would not have the chance to reflect on my life with him and things could possibly go stale. I sometimes enjoy having a bit of space so that i can worry about him,...

29 Dec 07

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Difficult decisions regarding a wedding!

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 28 Dec 07

My partner and i have been engaged for a year and are wanting to marry in the near future, our problem is where! We are stuck in a catch 22 situation, neither of us particularly want to marry in a big traditional wedding in...

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tonixxx Thank you, very philosophical, i especially like the metaphore with the ribbon.

29 Dec 07

Difficult decisions regarding a wedding!

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 28 Dec 07

My partner and i have been engaged for a year and are wanting to marry in the near future, our problem is where! We are stuck in a catch 22 situation, neither of us particularly want to marry in a big traditional wedding in...

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tonixxx I wouldn't know where to start but with a bit of reasearch it could work. Thank you

29 Dec 07

Difficult decisions regarding a wedding!

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 28 Dec 07

My partner and i have been engaged for a year and are wanting to marry in the near future, our problem is where! We are stuck in a catch 22 situation, neither of us particularly want to marry in a big traditional wedding in...

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tonixxx Thank you

29 Dec 07

Difficult decisions regarding a wedding!

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 28 Dec 07

My partner and i have been engaged for a year and are wanting to marry in the near future, our problem is where! We are stuck in a catch 22 situation, neither of us particularly want to marry in a big traditional wedding in...

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tonixxx Thank you

29 Dec 07

Difficult decisions regarding a wedding!

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 28 Dec 07

My partner and i have been engaged for a year and are wanting to marry in the near future, our problem is where! We are stuck in a catch 22 situation, neither of us particularly want to marry in a big traditional wedding in...

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tonixxx Thank you

29 Dec 07

Difficult decisions regarding a wedding!

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 28 Dec 07

My partner and i have been engaged for a year and are wanting to marry in the near future, our problem is where! We are stuck in a catch 22 situation, neither of us particularly want to marry in a big traditional wedding in...

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tonixxx Thank you

29 Dec 07

Difficult decisions regarding a wedding!

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 28 Dec 07

My partner and i have been engaged for a year and are wanting to marry in the near future, our problem is where! We are stuck in a catch 22 situation, neither of us particularly want to marry in a big traditional wedding in...

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tonixxx Thank you

29 Dec 07

Ghosts?? Do you believe?? Ever had an experience??

pimpsterque999 @pimpsterque999 (227) • United States 29 Dec 07

For a long time i used to be into ghosts, i would talk with them and see them it was something that was passed down from generations. I could utilize it for protection, answers, ideas, but then when i got pregnant i stopped cold...

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tonixxx I am not sure that this was a gohst but i will tell the story anyway. When i was 5 my mother left and my father having to keep a young family in food and clothes had to work long hours. My nanna used to cycle to our house for 5a.m every weekday and leave...

29 Dec 07