butterfly2009

@butterfly2009 (23)

United States • Age 33

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Why type of wedding you dream or you had?

alohagems100 @alohagems100 (565) • United States 12 Dec 09

Wedding is one of the most exciting part in our life. Some are very excited, some are not. Some prefers to have a civil wedding, church wedding, garden wedding, hawaiian wedding, etc. What are your thoughts about this topic?

wedding

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butterfly2009 Im engaged so I've been thinking about this topic a lot. I am torn between a church wedding and a garden wedding! Either way, it will be a small wedding with about 50 at most attending. I am leaning towards a church wedding so I dont have to worry about the...

26 Jan 10

My ex invites me to his wedding...

myramae19 @myramae19 (667) • Philippines 29 Dec 09

yesterday I have received an e-mail from my ex boyfriend, and he's inviting me to attend his wedding this coming feb., I replied immediately i said I can't afford the travel costs, but the truth is I just don't like to attend his...

invites

travel costs

wedding

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butterfly2009 I would just politely decline.

26 Jan 10

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Engagement Ring! If The Wedding is Called Off, Should the Ring be Returned??

artistry @artistry (4152) • United States 13 Jan 10

What should be done with an engagement ring, if the wedding is called off? Should the ring be returned to the gentleman, or should the lady be allowed to keep it, since the ring was given to her? What are your thoughts? Is there...

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butterfly2009 The ring should be given back, in my opinion!

26 Jan 10

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What time do you go to bed and what time do you get up?

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 25 Jan 10

what time do you go to sleep at night,and what time do you wake up in the morning?I go to sleep around 9:00 or 10:00 sometimes earlier and sometimes later.I go to sleep diffrent times.I try to wake up early to go to bed early,I...

bedtime

sleep

wake up

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butterfly2009 I try to go to sleep around 9 p.m and usually wake up at 4 a.m. Sometimes I go to sleep later because I can't fall asleep, and then sometimes I go back to sleep and end up getting too much sleep. I would love to get on a better sleeping schedule but that is so...

26 Jan 10

Green Tea!! Do you like it...??

tuyakiki @tuyakiki (3016) • India 25 Jan 10

Hi Mylotters!! Green tea is good for health. Previously,I used to be a coffee addict but now I am replacing it with green tea. I take it once a day.It keeps away sleep,so I often prefer taking it while I am on work.It has many...

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butterfly2009 I have never tried green tea. I dont like sweet or unsweetened tea though. Do they have a similar taste? Im going to add this to my list of things to try! Anyone have suggestions on how I can make tea more likeable?

26 Jan 10

What Did you Learn From you Mom?

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 25 Jan 10

What are the things that you learned from your mother that you put into practice with your own children or that you plan to put into practice with your children? For me, I learned that it is important to be patient with your...

learning from mom

patience

tone of voice

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butterfly2009 I have learned so much from my mom! She is honestly my best friend. She has taught me honesty, to always be true to myself, to help others in need, how to cook, and the list could go on. I can only hope to be a great mom like she is someday.

26 Jan 10

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Do you always obey your parents?

sanjeevsingh @sanjeevsingh (392) • India 25 Jan 10

You will ask me that what kind of question I am asking. But I am damp serious. Should we always obey our parents. I will say in most of the cases we should. Because the parents are those gift without which we have no identity. The...

obey your parents

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butterfly2009 I have always obeyed my parents growing up. I am 19 now and most of the time I still do obey them, but there are times when I just can't. I have my own opinions on things and can make my own decisions for myself. I am my own person and that is fine with my...

26 Jan 10

What would you do if you caught your husband with another girl?

SydneyHazelton @SydneyHazelton (4586) • Singapore 25 Jan 10

My husband was cheating on me and I knew about it. Recently he promised to get back to the family and I could see the changes that came over him. He text me more often, calls me and tells me his whereabouts. At the end of the day,...

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butterfly2009 I think you did the right thing, if I was in the situation I would probably do the same. I wouldnt want to make a big fuss of it in public because that gets you no where. Im not too sure if I could be as strong and walk out though. I would probably end up in...

26 Jan 10

Do you like to watch cartoons? Which is your favorite?

slovenc1 @slovenc1 (2089) • Slovenia 25 Jan 10

Recently I started to watch more cartoons. That's probably because most of new so called comedies aren't even worth watching. Cartoon characters are funny and cute and in cartoons you can make fun of real events. It started with...

cloudy with a chance of meatballs cartoons ice age

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butterfly2009 I dont really watch cartoons anymore. If I do its Family Guy or King of the Hill occasionally. I do watch some animated movies. Some are pretty cute! When I was younger I LOVED cartoons! Tom & Gerry and Rugrats were my 2 favorites.

26 Jan 10

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Do you pay all your bills first and eek out a living on whats left or...

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 25 Jan 10

Or pay some of your bills and ensure that you have excess for survival to the next pay day .Right now I am bill free (well untill the next wave of bills come next month) but PENNILESS.Somehow I feel more comfortble paying all my...

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butterfly2009 I usually pay whatever bills I can with the first paycheck and save enough for food, gas, and other needs. Then pay the rest with the second paycheck. It can be rough sometimes, but I seem to always manage.

26 Jan 10

"The Pregnancy Pact" Lifetime Original Movie - aired tonight!

maezee @maezee (41997) • United States 24 Jan 10

I was excited about this one because I absolutely LOVE most of Lifetime's Original Movies and ESPECIALLY the new ones - they're so good (mostly!) and much more open-minded than they used to be. This one touched on an issue of a...

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butterfly2009 Oh I missed it! I hope it comes on again soon? Anyone know if it does or not?

25 Jan 10

Are you an active person or are you lazy?How much lazy?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 24 Jan 10

Lazy in the sense that you work a desk, sit at computer and not much you love to do motion. Convenience in the sense that you love you more to buy a pizza or to Chinese food than you like to cook yourself something. Lazy in the...

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butterfly2009 I am lazy in the sense I sit at the desk most of the day. I try to be as active as possible, going running 2 days a week, and excercising when I get the chance.

25 Jan 10

Do you Work at Home? What do you do?

ramsey05 @ramsey05 (50) • United States 25 Jan 10

I love talking with others that make extra cash at home or do it for a full time job. I have been in the work at home field for the past few years and full time when my son was diagnosed with autism. I now write for a few places...

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butterfly2009 I would like to get started working from home. Any suggestions on some legit sites?

25 Jan 10

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I'm consistant, I posted the wrong discussion...again. Why do you own a dog?

Loverbear @Loverbear (4918) • United States 25 Jan 10

Well, I posted the cat discussion in dogs and the dog discussion in cats, confusion reins in my life!!! LOL. Why do you own a dog, what kind is it? I've got 3 dogs, two mini Dachshunds and a pit/lab mix. I've got them as a...

what kind of dog do you own

why do you own a dog

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butterfly2009 I have always had a dog, probably since I was 2. So naturally I have always been a huge dog lover. I only own 1 dog right now and he has been the best dog I've had. He is mixed, chihuahua and pomeranian. I've had him for 3 years.

25 Jan 10

Do you send a Private Message after adding/accepting a new friend?

Sreekala @Sreekala (34312) • India 22 Jan 10

Dear friends, Many times I have received private messages from newly added friends and I am very happy to read the PMs and I replied to all of them without fail. To be very honest I don’t have the habit of sending...

private message

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butterfly2009 Usually, I do. Mostly just wondering if we know each other or to say hi.

25 Jan 10