claylewisthirdy started a new discussion called this is me in me.
2 months ago
I don't call myself liberated as others think I am. I just love challenges. Like the my fashion sense, it takes guts to wear stuff that does not conform to the norms our conservative people. I was collecting boyfriends when I was younger. It's not that I'm a flirt, I just want to have options. I'm open to changes and criticisms and respect people for whatever they want to be, as long as they wo...

claylewisthirdy started a new discussion called fell in and out in fell in love.
2 months ago
I fell in love for a couple of times already. Most of it, broke my heart into pieces. And still I get up and moved on. First time was like painful, the next barely and the next after next it was bearable. It was like I felt numb and learned to accept that people just come and go in our lives. And we just like wait till the right man comes along and hope and pray that they will stay for good.

claylewisthirdy started a new discussion called being a mother in motherhood.
2 months ago
When I was younger than today..I've always dreamed of being the best mom in the world. Motherhood is one of the most wonderful thing that ever happened to me. It made me love my mother more. It made me more mature and responsible as a person. I learned a lot of how to be a good mom. Patient, loving, understanding and hardworking. I was so down when I miscarried my last and third baby. Though I ...

claylewisthirdy started a new discussion called pregnancy out of wedlock in been pregnant.
2 months ago
The first time I got pregnant with my boyfriend,I got mixed emotions. I felt happy at the same time nervous. Happy because at last I'm going to have a baby and nervous because we are not married. I am just worried what my parents and others would say for being pregnant out of wedlock. But that did not stop me from pushing through my pregnancy. I choose to be like this, I should be responsible f...

claylewisthirdy started a new discussion called am I crazy? in depression.
2 months ago
Because of the heartaches and all,I felt like, I'm going crazy sometimes. Depression sometimes eats up my system and I'm easily irritated. I burst up with just a small conflict that if I just want to,can be resolve without a fight. Whenever I want to do something and I can't do it right away, I feel angry and gets so upset that I could throw a sack of rice to anyone who gets in my way. So, what...

claylewisthirdy responded to a discussion called husband and another woman in woman.
2 months ago
Have you asked yourself what you have done for having such a heartbreak from the person you promised to live and love in sickness and in health till death do you part? Sometimes we may have done things in routine that we forgot to put some spices and news thing along the way to a lasting relationship. We forget to say simple I love yous or appreciating our life partners in their small ways of m...

claylewisthirdy responded to a discussion called Do you talk about your exes? in relationships.
2 months ago
Talking about our exes doesn't mean we still love them. we usually talk about them when we are with other girls comparing notes about men and thier likes. Also when something reminds us of them like music, characteristics, voices and a lot of things. Though it's not good to talk about it infront of your men, but it's nothing really serious...( as for me though ). I even have friends who talks a...

claylewisthirdy responded to a discussion called What do you think is better, to expect the worst or to think positively? in life.
2 months ago
Well for me, choosing both will be good because if you are positive to whatever you plan for the future and it turns out you get the worst of it, at least you won't be that disappointed cause it's like you expecting it and you are positive that every bad stuff that happens their is always good after it.

claylewisthirdy added a new interest under Hobbies that I enjoy.
2 months ago
claylewisthirdy enjoys life.

claylewisthirdy received a best response in the discussion husband and another woman by indahfth.
2 months ago
Have you asked yourself what you have done for having such a heartbreak from the person you promised to live and love in sickness and in health till death do you part? Sometimes we may have done things in routine that we forgot to put some spices and news thing along the way to a lasting relationship. We forget to say simple I love yous or appreciating our life partners in their small ways of m...