What if......?????

Rajib when are you coming to Italy??? You must plan to stay here for longer than one hour because talking with you will be so interesting I'm certain! You must also give some warning so that I can make sure there is a room for you to stay in at the hotel here where I work and I could organise time off to show you something interesting here. I have not met any myLotters in person yet but I do have contact with several offline now, including by phone. I have met users from other sites already though and it is great when I meet them in person. Interacting with users here over time means they are no longer just a username on a web page but real people and the only thing missing is meeting up offline. So when are you coming???

Hi Rajiib. Now what would I do if you were to come to my country? Well firstly I would be shocked and once I ascertained that it was really you, I would welcome you to my home, take you out to dinner so you wouldn’t have to succumb to my cooking (lol) and show around the sites of our lovely city. I would hope to spend a lot of time talking to you and getting to know you face to face. I hope you enjoy your visit to Malaysia; you will meet Zandi how exciting! I wish I were you! (lol)

Wow! So many people have so nice things to say that I don’t really know if I should go ahead and post my real feelings! Anyway since I had already framed my response, I’d better get on with it…I would be skeptical of welcoming a stranger or going to meet him/her. I am being rather rudely practical here but we don’t really know each other anymore than we know an alien from mars…I see this pix of you in your avatar…how am I to know that this is what you look like? I’ve only your word to take for it! Don’t get me wrong but many months back…when I was about an year old at mylot, I had formed a special friendship with a member here…he is quite aged and used to advise me on a lot of issues (incl. personal female issues)…I never minded coz he was aged and so I thought experienced enough to talk on all matters. He then introduced me to another mylotter as his wife. This went on for quite some time and I was totally taken in…one day, he said that he was coming to Kolkata on some work and wanted to meet my family and bless my son! I was like super excited (though my husband was not) and preparations were going on (like his date and time of coming etc). Luckily for me, this was in general post (not PM) and a very very judicious friend PMed me some info and a lot of discrepancies in this person’s posts and replies. It seems that this person has this habit of befriending young ladies here and can go to any lengths as he is allowed! His wife too is a hoax, but he himself in another name! I think something must have happened or somebody reported him to mylot and I have not seen that person or his ‘wife’ here on mylot ever since.

I would say "That's great! Let's have dinner!" Keep us updated..I love to hear about myLotters meeting up. I think it's great and would be a lot of fun. Have a great trip.

I would be too busy trying to figure out how you obtained my telephone number to react to your visit.

Hi, wish I was back home to recieve you! I'll be very happy to meet a friend from MyLot! I'm sure no shock for me as I always meet new friends. So have you planned well where you exactly want to visit in Malaysia? Have you been to Malaysia before? Have good time there, I'm going home on November!

Oh that would be exciting . But ill be a bit nervous and its hard for me to trust .Please dont mind.You asked for a opinion right?

Since I'm specifically mentioned here, I am more than willing to welcome you or any mylotters who wishers to visit my country. For your information Rajib, I live in Kota kinabalu and not in Kuala Lumpur (capital town). I know many people know of Malaysia and will think of Kuala Lumpur but I am in the state of Sabah, a 2 hours flight from Kuala Lumpur. Tell me the exact date of your coming so I can make arrangement to see you at the airport as I have relocated my residence and will take 3 hours drive to the airport.

So, after malaysia, where to next? Philippines??? there are actually lots of mylotters here from philippines. So, in case you might decide one day, let us know..we'd flock by the airport and met you up with a band. lols! happy trip to malaysia krajibg!!!

I'd say, how do you like your steak and pick me up some bar-b-que sauce on the way over........LOL You'd be more than welcome and I'd consider it a treat and pleasure to meet you!

Where do you want to meet? :-)

I would say meet me at the mall and we will hang out. I would bring my daughter, grand son and daughter and they would show you all around. I am not that up on things. We could show you our beautiful capitol city. My kids are halarious and your sides would be in pain from laughing by the end of the day. Then we would take you to one of our favorite mexican restaurants. Yum! You would be full and happy at the end of the day. Smiling friends is what we like to see.

Oh yeah. That would be so good. Include Philippines in your itineraries and I would so happy to see you in person. Yeah sure....

Hey!! Thats a great thought..Its hard to meet some some whom you come to know online.I will be very happy to hear that.....

If I got such a call, I would come get you at the airport or wherever you were and take you to lunch or dinner. If you had time, I would show you around a bit and we would select a postcard to send to your home so you would have a memento of your visit. If you needed a place to stay overnight, you would be welcomed in my home. I've met some of my online friends from other boards and the experience was always enjoyable.

I have not yet met anyone from myLot yet, except for one of my referrals whom I have known for over 10 years now. I would love to welcome and entertain some of the awesome people I've met here into my home. I can't offer much, but I can offer some great peace and quiet, great conversations and good company, not to mention a comfy place to rest your head at night. We have some really neat sites to see around here that I haven't been to yet and it will probably take someone coming to visit before I do. One place is called Luray Caverns. We live in the mountains and Luray Caverns are considered quite a nice tourist attraction, complete with stalagmites and stalactites. It's a place I've wanted to see since I was a child and here I am, living only a few miles from it and still haven't been there! I guess I NEED someone to visit. LOL I would also love to be able to travel one of these days and meet some of the people I've met here whom I consider as friends. Hopefully, I'll be able to do that one of these days. I hope you enjoy your trip to Malaysia! That is one place I would love to visit, along with Australia, England, Germany and Ireland. Be safe!

Hehe I wish you won't come yet to the Phils. not that soon maybe later cause still I don't have a car to fetch you or assist you in going around...I wish when a friend visit our country I can somehow let him feel comfortable.

Hello my friend krajibg Ji, Well, She is a great lady. I would also prefer to visit her, in case i am not inconvienent to her. But if you want to visit me, you have to come to Indian Silcon valley. May God bless You and have a great time.

Hi krajibg, I'd welcome them and suggest we meet at my favourite cafenion in the fishing village and share a Greek coffee whilst introducing them to all the local characters so they'd then receive a friendly welcome where ever they roam in the village. They'd probably end up with the cafenion habit, watching the world go by, gossiping about everyone who walks by, and watching the fishermen head out to sea in their boats.

I would laugh...umm...because who would want to come to my part of the United States? xD Nah, but I'd welcome you, of course. :) Give some advice, point out some attractions that you might think of visiting, etc. ^_^ I would hope, too, that a fellow mylotter would do the same if I were going to visit their country!