Are you doing better than you were 2 or 4 years ago...

@ParaTed2k (22940)
Sheboygan, Wisconsin
December 14, 2010 3:13pm CST
I hate that question! It assumes that the government is responsible for making your life better. If you're doing better, some elected official must be doing a good job. on the other hand, if you're doing worse than before, it must be an elected officials fault. Guess what folks, no government official can make you successful or a failure. No government official gets to decide if you are happy or not.
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@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
15 Dec 10
You are very wrong on that one. The quality of your financial success or not,is directly related on how your government manage the economy of the country. I heard from one of our former Prime Minister two weeks ago that the standard of living in the US had increased by a mere 2% since 1992. During the same period, Australia standard of living had increased by 30%. He was also saying that capitalism was coming to an end. Apparently the wealth of a country will be determined by the size of its population, as everyone will share the wealth, rather than being in the hands of a few. And that put China in the box seat to become the world super power by 2020 or before. Their economy is still running at a 10% increase a year.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
15 Dec 10
Except for China's economy never really grew until they embraced capitalism in the cities. Here in the US our economy did fine until the government put unreasonable demands on the financial and real estate industries. The government policies created bubbles that finally burst. But that is all moot to this discussion. Anyone who places the responsibility of their personal happiness and well being on government (or anyone else) allows that government to decide if they will be happy or not. Sorry, but I refuse to worship any government official to that extent.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
15 Dec 10
I like how you mince words. Is that industrialization based on government or communally owned businesses or privately owned? Privately owned.. that is called capitalism. Your formula is correct though, but for employment to promote growth you have to produce goods and services that create more opportunity to produce goods and services. If everyone is just moving the same money around, there is employment, but no growth or expansion.
• Australia
15 Dec 10
The formula is quite simple. All you have to do is create employment. When people have a salary, they pay tax and spend money, which create more employment. China did not embrace capitalism. The turn around for China was to embrace industrialisation. They are creating jobs for a population which was dirt poor while living of the land.
• United States
18 Dec 10
I agree with you. People need to realize that the government can't give them anything. All government can do is take it from someone else and redistribute it to others, and those who have and have their assets taken from them still know that the have nots who are willing to take from the haves will never measure up because they're not willing to improve on their situation. The have nots are only willing to take. They're not willing to give of their efforts or talents. They're not even willing to do for themselves.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
19 Dec 10
So true, but too many consider the government their only hope.
• United States
22 Dec 10
Those who are putting their hope in the government need to pay attention to what's happening in Europe.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Dec 10
parated2k you still have not changed one bit. okay then what do ypu say to all the people who are out of work because of the rotten economy that slime ball George Stupid Bush left for a new president to try to make changes. My son has looked diligently for work but for every job opening here in orange county California there are two hundred people at least looking for that same job. do you tell all of these people its their fault they were laid off because companies are cutting back their work force?Sorry I do not go along with your thinking.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
15 Dec 10
Hatley, go ahead and waste time and energy playing the blame game all you want. However, when you are done, you are no better off than you were if you didn't waste that time. Did I say anything about judging anyone who is or isn't working? Did I say anything about your son or people in the same situation? No! All I said is that the question itself implies that our well being and happiness is somehow the government's responsibility. But you seem to buy into the idea that it IS the government's responsibility. I wish you well with that thinking. I simply don't put my life in the hands of others the way you seem to.
@Taskr36 (13963)
• United States
15 Dec 10
What exactly did Bush, all by himself, do that put your son out of work? What exactly can Obama do that will give your son a job? I know California, as the stronghold of left wing lunacy, is the most poorly run state in the country. Even so, blaming politicians for your own misfortune isn't helping your son's situation. FYI, I know how hard it is to get a job when you're unemployed. There were literally over 100 applicants for the job I now have and over 20 of them were internal. I got this job because I was overqualified and willing to settle without complaint. Sometimes you take what you can get. If your son really needs money, I suggest he start washing cars. It's the easiest way to make money with the most minimal overhead. He'll meet a lot of people and might even meet someone who could offer him a job if he makes good conversation. That's always been my fallback if nothing else is available.
@dodo19 (47133)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
15 Dec 10
Well, at times, it can be difficult to say. But overall, you could probably say that 2010 wasn't the best year for me, despite the fact that I think that things could always get worse. I was having a difficult time getting a summer job, as I am still a student. When I did get one, it really wasn't paying much. Despite having graduated and looking for a job since March, my husband hasn't had the luck of finding a job. So, needless to say that the last few months have been a little rough. But we're hoping that it's going to change soon.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
15 Dec 10
Getting to the question in the OP, are you waiting for the government to make things better for you, or are you doing what you can for that?
@josga2008 (320)
• Canada
15 Dec 10
In general I would say yes I am doing better today than I was 2 or 4 years ago. The main reason is that I have learned to deal with stress. I still have a lot going on in my life, but I have learned to deal with the stress that results. As a result, I can cope with it better and better complete projects on time.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
16 Dec 10
Thanks for sharing, but can you read more than just the title before you respond?
@khanzee (123)
• Pakistan
15 Dec 10
Every person make his fate, but as far as this question is concerned, whether i am better than i was before, i think i am happy and enjoying my life, and all thing goes well. All is well.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
16 Dec 10
Thanks for sharing, but can you read more than just the title before you respond?
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
19 Dec 10
Actually, I do owe you an apology. Your's was on topic and you did read the article. I'm sorry.
@balasri (26537)
• India
15 Dec 10
Definitely.I have started an HR Consultancy a couple of years back.To my delight the graph is gradually crawling towards north.
@Taskr36 (13963)
• United States
15 Dec 10
No, I'm not doing better than I was 2 or even 4 years ago. Much like the other poster said, this has been a rebuilding year. There are many things that combined to create my current situation. Some were the result of politicians, others were my fault. I'm underemployed, but I have a job with pretty good benefits and it's in my field so the experience will benefit me. Frankly, blame is irrelevant. "I" am the one who is working to improve my situation. I'm not pissing and moaning about what Obama needs to do to get me a better job or what he, or ANY politician should give me since I'm struggling. I'm just working my butt off to improve my situation because I refuse wait for a nanny state fix my problems for me, even if the government might be partially to blame for my current circumstances.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
15 Dec 10
Awesome attitude!!!
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
14 Dec 10
2010 has actually been a decent year for me. It has been sort-of a rebuilding year for me financially. While I am nowhere close to where I need to be financially right now, some good progress has been made, so I guess I can't really complain. Hopefully, 2011 will bring more changes for the better...
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
15 Dec 10
Good progress is great in and of itself. Way to go!!!
• Pamplona, Spain
15 Dec 10
Hiya Parated, Can´t complain a bit better than other Years and it was about time too for a while. Now it´s back to the other times again scratching for cash (grin). We are doing well through our own efforts and not because of our Prime Minister. Other People are doing much better and only through their own efforts too. I hope this President does not have to decide whether I am happy or not. I was much happier before all that and still am.
@millertime (1394)
• United States
19 Dec 10
I know where you're coming from on this. We, as a free people, should be the sole determining factor in our own success or failure. Unfortunately for us, our federal government or I should say the progressive/liberal faction in our government seems to think otherwise. They seem to believe in the communist ideal of equal misery for all and they do have the power to decide how much of our money they are going to try and confiscate in the form of taxes. Ultimately though, we still do have the power. We can vote the enemies of freedom out of office.
• United States
14 Dec 10
I have experienced the worst financial year of my life this 2010. As I became unemployed for the first time ever in my life. I do not blame my government for my unemployment, as there were issues with my bosses at my job. However I am not able to find a job as most employers turn me away stating I am way over qualified, so who can I blame..?? Still puzzled with this one myself.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
15 Dec 10
The best thing is to not worry about who to blame. Keep looking for opportunities and you'll find one that suits you sooner or later. In the mean time, look for one that only kind of suits you and be ready for something better. If you want some ideas, feel free to Private Message me and we can talk.
• Tokelau
15 Dec 10
i actually hate that question from interviews when they ask where you see yourself in 5 years ^^' got it's annoying actually, i was better 4 years ago.. i felt like economy wasn't this down, now we struggle to get simple things..
@yumcookie (146)
• United States
15 Dec 10
It is rather annoying to hear people constantly complain about the government not doing anything or it being the governments fault when something bad does happen. People need to own up to the fact that they aren't trying hard enough to get a job. I understand that the economy sucks but they need to try to find ways to make a living. Even if it is just a minimum wage job, its something right?
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Dec 10
Better in some ways, not in others. None of which things have anything to do with the government. Although there are certainly situations that could potentially happen where I could blame the government, ie a Nazi Germany like regime taking over...