Back to School

@p1kef1sh (45681)
January 24, 2011 9:58am CST
Schooldays are supposedly the best days of our lives. Not for me. I hated almost everything about school. But nearly 40 years after I left there are times when I would go back tomorrow. Would you want to go back to school or are your after school days the happiest days of your life?
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
24 Jan 11
I enjoyed school itself but was always teased so it was a miserable time for me. That lasted through high school and I was so happy to be done with it that I even refused to attend my graduation ceremony. I'm sorry I deprived my parents of seeing that but I did not want to set foot on the property again. I had even moved to a new school in my last year but it was still awful. I did enjoy learning, though. Even if my school days were happy I would not want to go back. I enjoy my life right now too much. Of course, if I knew then what I know now my school days would have been quite different and probably pretty great.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
Bernard Shaw said that "Youth is wasted on the young" but he might have said "Education is wasted..." instead! In truth there are some days when I think that it would be nice but it would have to be on my terms. I don't recollect that being the case last time I went to school!
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@BarBaraPrz (45498)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
24 Jan 11
Hey dragon! I refused to attend my highschool graduation ceremony, too.
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• United States
24 Jan 11
I would totally go back to school....and I would do better the second time around. I didnt do bad the first time but I basically made my way through it....vs really trying to do well. After school I didnt want to go to college either, and I didnt, I said I just wanted to get a job and be a working woman.....well 20 yrs later, I wish I had gone to college....now full time mom in an economy that is severely lacking and living paycheck to paycheck makes you think twice about school and I know my kids will be more active in thinking about college. Happy Mylotting.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
It's not too late for you though. More and more colleges are offering distance courses. Here in the UK we have a wonderful prganisation called the Open University that lets you study to Masters Degree level without leaving home!
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• United States
24 Jan 11
I have actually considered trying to go to school online... being a full time mom and having a newborn that is only 3 months it would be hard for me to get out of the house...and we are a 1 car family now ...s it is an option. now just to figure out what classes I would be interested in....LOL
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@GreenMoo (11834)
24 Jan 11
I'm actually back at school now! I just started a course today, and it might not be quite like being back at school (it's residential so I can't escape at 3.30!), but it's certainly stretching my brain. I haven't really got feelings one way or another about my school days. I didn't hate them, but then I'm not harking back to them either. I was certainly bored with the whole thing by the time I finished school, and desperate to get out into the world.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
What course are you doing? I couldn't wait to leave school and get into the world of work.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
Goodness me. I know nothing about permaculture really. Clearly it's more than just growing better tomatoes! So are you in the UK?
@GreenMoo (11834)
25 Jan 11
Sustainable Land Use incorporating a Permaculture Design course. The teacher is Patrick Whitefield, which is very exciting.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
24 Jan 11
Good timing! My kids went back to school yesterday for their first day of the 2011 year! New teachers, class rooms and class mates. Very exciting stuff indeed! After six weeks with the kids at home, it was amazing how peaceful and quiet the house was during the day. I had forgotten the serenity of it all! I have mixed feelings about school. It was a very awkward time for me. Bullies, girls, peer group pressure, lack of confidence, but I remember having a lot more freedom as a child than any other time of my life. I enjoyed that. I think I enjoy now more than my school years. Being a parent and a more confident person makes a big difference from how I used to be as a child going to school.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
There is s freedom about being a child that you don't realize that you have until you are older. I think that I am reverting to childhood now. I never really wanted to go back to school but I do wish that I had made more of the opportunities whilst I was there.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
25 Jan 11
I actually went back to being a full time student when I was 23 to to a short six month course. It was fantastic to be learning something new. These days I wish I had stayed at school right until the end instead of leaving a couple of years early. At the time, as a 15 year old, I just wanted to start earning money. But if I had stuck it out, I could have gotten myself a high paying career doing something that was a bit more rewarding than working on cars!
25 Jan 11
I was never overly popular when i was at school. I was not that good at the subjects that i had and only had a handful of friends. I always got bored really when i was at school. This all changed when i went to college, i guess i was transformed into someone else, lol, i became the exact opposite, i learned more, concentrated more, had more friends, was a lot more popular and i wasn't shy in anyway. Now me being the person i am now i would love to go back to school, there were some good times there and when i was there i noticed how good of an athlete i was then, school brought that out of me so it has it's good points.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
We all have something in us that we do well at. It just has to be coaxed out of us.
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25 Jan 11
I agree fully with you. I guess that i learned later when i was at college. But still enjoy my sport part of my school days, for that i would liuke to go back to school.
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24 Jan 11
Yes i would definitely like to go back to my school and have fun with my friends.I enjoyed a lot with my friends during those days when i had no worries about life. Thank you.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
That's the down side of growing up.
@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
26 Jan 11
I have always hated people saying that school days were or should be the best of your life. I always think that either they were the bullies who made it unbearable for other people or the lucky ones who went through school easily! I did enjoy the learning and some of the subjects but, on the whole, as much as I enjoy learning and would willingly continue my education, there is no way I would wish to relive my schooldays again!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Jan 11
I think that the idea of learning is attarctive, but I agree; there's no way that I would want to re-live my schooldays either.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
25 Jan 11
I wouldn't say they are the happiest days but there are times when I enjoyed school. Up until primary school, I liked the school for the studies (yeah, yeah ..was a nerd)and then we moved to India for a year and I hated the routine and the pressure on academics but I made wonderful friends (who I am still in contact with). High school in Kuwait, I really enjoyed...but due to the Gulf war, I went to 3 schools in a year!)
@SViswan (12051)
• India
26 Jan 11
If you ask me, there needs to be a balance. I've never been to a school which was totally laid back....but heard of a few such schools in my area (who try to cater to the students who have returned from Western countries). The first thing that a teacher needs to instil in a student is the love for learning...make the subject interesting and then take it on from there. Regular projects are fun for the kids and they learn in the process. I do consider daily homework which burdens the student with another 2-3 hours of work after school hours is not (in my opinion) of any use.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
I wish that English schools were more pressurised. Some of them are so laid back that they are virtually horizontal! But I wouldn't want to be a teacher!
• United States
24 Jan 11
Back to school - No Way! Back to college - In a Heartbeat!
• United States
24 Jan 11
Both!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
For education or the fun?
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
25 Jan 11
Hi Pike, I liked school fine enough but much to my parents despair...not for the right reasons. I guess when I was really young, I loved it but I'm talking highschool. My dad and many others in my family were teachers so you can only imagine the pressure I was under. I actually loved to go to school to skip it and have fun with my friends. I had so so much fun and I really was sad when it was all over and for that reason. Would I go back again? I don't know. I had this one daughter that was my mom's curse on me. That girl skipped so much school that she had my record beat. In fact, I think I spent more time at the school because of her than I did when I was in school myself. I didn't like it so much.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
25 Jan 11
NO PIKE!!! As it was they took me ...not her...to court for her truancy. And to boot, the court tried to charge my 6000.00 for her truancy!! All that and I was missing time at work to attend the court date! You have no idea how involved I was in trying to get this girl to school. She wasn't as sneaky as I was with her skipping by any means. I didn't get caught until I'd skipped so much that many of my teachers thought I was a new student. I work nights and I was getting up and dragging her little butt to school and bringing her into the school. It was teachers who would let her go to the bathroom from class and she'd slip out instead. I had daily e-mail and phone contact with all of her teachers and had asked them to call me if she did not show up to a class. I would be right out there looking for her...I knew her hangouts and ironically and to her dismay...many of them were the same as mine were at her age. Anyway I argued in court and threatened to turn the tables. My daughter often came home high and drunk. If something happened to her after she had been signed in to their care...who is liable? The 6000.00 charges got dropped and she had to do community service and had a court order to attend school and keep her grades at a passing level. She challenged them and they bumped up the community service and supervision. She ended up with a curfew which they checked on and could not hang out with certain kids etc. It was a nightmare of a time but like most kids, she finally grew up and is an awesome person now...glad I let her live because there were times that I really didn't want to.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
LOL. Perhaps that is how the parents of persistant truants should be treated. Made to attend school instead of their children. I bet that attendance would increase rapidly!
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
I got so burnt out my last semester at school that I could hardly bear the idea of going back for years and years. Now I would go as long as I could study only what I want and nothing else.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
Was it a hot summer that year? Or was it something else that burned you!!
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Last semester at college, and I wouldn't even have needed to be there, but the previous semester a class got canceled that I needed for graduation. Not enough students at pre-registration, and, despite the fact that enough showed up on the first day of class, it had already been canceled. So I ended up graduating later than expected, and I was just burnt out.
@liquorice (3887)
24 Jan 11
Great question. I think that's an inaccurate saying for many people. They weren't the best days of my life either, I much prefer how my life has been since I left school. The best days of my life so far have been going away to uni, travelling, being married and having my own family. I wouldn't really want to go back, as I wouldn't want to repeat those times, or feel as insecure and unhappy as I felt then. Although I wouldn't mind going back for a little while just so that I could stand up to certain people, lol! But on the other hand I think it would be a bit depressing if one's school days were the best days of their lives, because that means that once you leave school, it's all downhill from thereon!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Jan 11
LOL. My life has sbeen downhill, uphill and along the level. I just wish that I had more time to learn the things that I want to.
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@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jan 11
I would like to go back to school when I was in Junior High. No middle school back then. Wheel had been invented but just barely. I was extremely shy and would love to go back and go through those days again with less shyness and perhaps more energy and a better communication and respect for my teachers.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
28 Jan 11
I didn't enjoy my middle years either. In fact I only really enjoyed primary (elementary) school and that was because my best friend sat next to me and the teacher was lovely.
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jan 11
I set with my girlfriend in junior high. She and I were close for those years. We had alot of fun.
@hlgmdt (300)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
Hi! In my case, I would like to go back to school to obtain a higher degree. Well, like most of us I guess, I don't enjoy the stress of writing papers or reviewing for exams, but for certain professions, going back to school is a must. I have been in the academe, so in a way, I am 'forced' to go to school or else it would affect my job status. Now, competition in the academe is very tight, and it is a big advantage for the employees to get a higher degree.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
Good luck with that. I hope that you acheive your ambition.
@hlgmdt (300)
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
Thank you!
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
25 Jan 11
Yes I would go back to School as they say you miss it once you have left and even my 2 have said they would go back if they could lol
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
They also say never go back. But it is nice to reminisce occasionally. XXX
• India
25 Jan 11
I would never ever want to go back to my school days. Being a bespectacled, with braces, gawkiest introvert that I was, nobody was really friends with me OR should I say I never really knew how to make friends. Even the teachers ignored me or laughed at my clumsiness or never really took me seriously in anything at all. On the home front...those were the most intimidating and rough years of my life...I’ve never shared a great relation with my parents and I feel that the seeds of that dissonance was sown during those days. So not only my school... actually I’d never really want to go back to my childhood.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
I can imagine. But it sounds like you were alienated by your schooling which is shameful of the school.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
25 Jan 11
I was sooooo glad when i graduated from high school & i never wanted to go back. I didn't want to go to college either. I did go to beauty school & worked as a hairdresser all my life.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
Now I'm thinking "Legally Blonde"! LOL.
@manbir84 (134)
• India
26 Jan 11
Yes my friend schooldays are best part of the life although I also have not good time in school but still I rated that time best.Those days are tension free.More reasons that I like schooldays.I like to go back in those days but its nature and that is not possible so there is a waste of time to think in that way.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Jan 11
I agree that they are free of the stresses of adulthood, but they do have their own set of problems. At least you don't have to worry abouyt paying the rent or mortgage as a child.
• India
25 Jan 11
the school friends are my best friends now. and the best part was together breaking the school rules. Well one moment i ever enjoyed to the fullest in my life would be ,my school days i would want to go back there any moment
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
I broke a few rules too. But I'd better not say what!!! LOL.
@margeryann (1845)
• United States
25 Jan 11
I didn't like a lot of my school years either. I do miss some of the people from school and would like to communicate with them still but I wouldn't want to back to that time.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Jan 11
I think that there has to be a reason to go back.