What does it take to have a rich life?

having had a rich life - determining having a rich life
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
May 13, 2011 10:32am CST
I was watching a movie on TV the other night, and there was this guy on his death bed. The people around him seemed to think that he has had a rich life. But how do you define a ‘rich life’? Would a person, born in luxury, who’s able to experience all the finer things in life, including travel and wealth, be considered having had a rich life near his end? Or would somebody who’s gone through a lot of hardship, including poverty, physical and substance abuse, yet able to survive it all, would be the one who’s had a rich life? In the end, whose life is richer? And if you think that the one who’s had all the hardships has had a ‘richer’ life, then from what standard do you draw this conclusion? Is he really better off now that he’s near his deathbed?
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@jackgone (50)
• China
14 May 11
defining a person who is rich or not not matters how much money he owns.May be you don not have enough much,but you still lead a happy life.Imaging you have a stable work,a warm wife,a lovely child.everyday you need to do is working.After working,you can get the warm of your family.It enlarges many happiness.although this life is usual,but in my eyes I am a "rich" man.some guys has much money,everyday there life is to earn more money or to think other trouble,their life is to complex.They may get ill in the sprite or mental.thanks.wish you had a rich life.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
Hello jackgone. I don't think money really has anything to do with it. If one is contended with the life he leads, then certainly he could consider himself as having a rich life. Thanks for dropping by.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
14 May 11
but if you can see more and more tears coming up from the poor family compare to the rich family - what is the reasons their tears - lack of maney, food and shelters, so how you can define that? see you around
@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
13 May 11
I think a rich life would be a happy one.. bottom line. Whatever made you happy made you rich.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
I guess when you're on the deathbed, it would be much easier to decide if you've had a happy life. And then therefore easier to decide if you had a 'rich' life. Thanks katsmeow. Love certainly could be a way to judge a 'rich' life. I never even thought of it when I was posting this discussion. But it has been made clear to me that this is certainly a good criteria. Thanks XJane.
14 May 11
I think the love you leave behind is the yardstick for having lived a 'rich' life. Whose life you touched and made better. Whose heart you helped to heal. Whose mind you gave peace. Whose soul you helped on the journey to the next world. Blessings XJane
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
19 May 11
To me a rich life is the one you have...with it's ups and downs...the job you love[ or don't love] the people around you...family... friends...co-workers...the one's you meet in the street[and possibly never see again]for just a hello or a brief chat about the weather or this and that! the memories one collect along the way...the places you visited...my father's tales sitting around the fire in a winter night...my mum's telling the story of Snow White and people she met...or heard of her mum and dad. Giving birth and know what is like to look after another human been! I would say what make my life richer? every thing I have done so far...it have enriched my life by collecting memories I can pass to my children[ like my parents did]now I can pass this to my grandchildren...like the beautiful lullaby's my mum used to sing to us! of course there is much more but to name them it would take the rest of my life time because I'm not done yet! And all this? well I did not have to spend any money to have a rich life!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
19 May 11
Some may think it simplistic, but I actually agree with you. It is a matter of having your mind set, that collecting these memories is a way of enriching one's life. And to be content with all the experiences when you're finally near the end. Thanks for the response.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
14 May 11
I feel like this discussion is inevitably leading to the "money doesn't buy happiness" cliche.. Or health, I suppose! I think there are several definitions for the word "rich". So it depends on what one you're referring to. Obviously, the man who is LOADED leads a more "rich" (as in money) life than the man who is a beggar on the streets. Then again, we can't really make any assumptions of the QUALITY of someone's life based on how much money they have.. So yeah, I couldn't tell ya. HA.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
17 May 11
There is no hard and fast rule that defines riches.However,the thought of not how much one has but what one makes of what one has could help in deciding how rich or otherwise one is.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
14 May 11
Yeah also I've seen some people living in a lavish and luxury life, I've see their life but I don;t know what is the real feeling when you become rich and what life you have... I hope I can experience it later or in the future... how about you? Can you dream it also? Or you satisfy your present situation? see you around
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
Hello visavis. Living a life in lavish or in luxury does not necessarily mean having a rich lfe. Me too, I have yet to experience that kind of life, but I don't think my life would be any 'richer' if I become financial wealthy. Thanks.
• United States
14 May 11
Both are rich. A life can be rich even though it is tough and hard.Every life Can be rich and full.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
I guess so. It is a matter of perspective. A tough and hard life can be considered a rich one, specially if one has overcome it. Thanks Sarah.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
13 May 11
i am just working on an article on how to live on one income and how you live a rich life in finding meaning in experiences not in the collecting of stuff.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
I think this is one of the reason I posted this discussion. That it is a matter of perspective. That income can sometimes have nothing to do with it. That you can make a 'rich life in finding meaning in experiences'. Thanks for the response.
@GemmaR (8517)
13 May 11
For me, a rich life would be one in which I owned a nice house, was married to a lovely husband, and had a couple of children who had good manners and were doing well at school. I know my hopes and dreams aren't as exciting as other people's, but that's what I want, and that's all I've ever really wanted. I also do a lot of work for charity and I think that that makes my life a lot richer, too. More people should stick their necks out to do more work for charity, as it is an amazing way to stand up for what you believe it.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
I did just respond to one of your discussion about the 'one thing' you aimed for. And that is owning a nice house. I envy you in that regard that you have identified what would make your life 'rich'. That even though it is a bit difficult to buy and pay for your own house, at least you have something physical that you could work for. Thanks.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
13 May 11
Hard question and can depend on the personality of the person who is dying. I think that a rich person would be one who had learnt to be content with life. A person who was ambitious but not to the extent that his family suffered by his absence. a person who had learnt to laugh at his/her own foibles and also learned to be kind to others. A person who had no regrets or else (because many of us - me included have past regrets) but had learned to forgive himself. I could bore you by going on and on but am constrained by time. Blessings
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
Hi cynthiann. I think that is the one thing that I need to learn still. To know how to be content with life. I always feel that I am priviledged to be here, and I should always be working my a$$ off to provide for my family. I think that the day I could feel content that I've provided for my family, would be the day I decide that I've had a rich life. Thanks.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
13 May 11
I think that a "rich life" kinda depends on the person and what they have been striving for. Sometimes there comes a time when people realize that money sometimes does not equal rich. I am not thinking that the hardships are so much the things that makes ones life rich as much as I do what they do after them. I am thinking that being able to find what makes one happy and doing it is a rich life. Happy..yes..that is rich. If you think about it...even those that strive for money are doing so because they think it will make them happy.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
Nice way to put it Jen! I guess that people always are striving for the things that make them happy. And that at their deathbeds, when they've realized some of these happiness, only then could they judge the 'richness' of their lives. Thanks.
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
14 May 11
Give Love and Kindness to everyone you meet. Help those you can and encourage those you can't. If you do this, you will have a rich life. A truly rich life is in the Journey!!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
Hello bird123. I think you've added an important aspect to this discussion. The journey is definitely one in which to consider. Even if that journey has led one into a life of abuse and hardships. Thanks for the response.
• United States
13 May 11
I think of the term "rich" as describing an accumulation of things of value ... and NOT necessarily material things, but then again, some material things may well be considered valuable. I think of wealth as a myriad of things physical and emotional. Thus, I would say neither of these is "richer" nor "poorer" than the other ... each person's richness is determined by their own standards; and, our judgement of another's life value and worth is determined by our standards being placed upon them.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
Interesting comment abitosunshine. Although each would have a certain view of how their life went, it would certainly differ from other people looking on how they lived their lives. It is subjective. Thanks for the response.
• United States
13 May 11
I think that neither side is necessarily the richer side, but that it depends on the individual person. A person born into luxury who is able to see and experience all parts of the world and the finer points in life may have a richer life due to the way they take it in. If they stop and study every aspect of life and truly appreciate it, then they are rich. The same person can have all of that and see nothing or care very little and live a completely useless life, however. The same can be said with a person from poverty and hardship. They may appreciate more and work harder and harder with the greatest determination to get far in life. They may be rich by the time they are on their deathbeds by the amount of experience they've taken in, the people they've come across, and the cares they have shared. A person from the same lifestyle may also be completely negative and unwilling to move themselves ahead, however, and again, live a completely useless life. No riches whatsoever. It all depends on mentality.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 May 11
Great input EndlessNameless! I like that while some here have put in emphasis on love as the yardstick for being 'rich' in life, you've taken on the 'usefulness' of one's life as a determining factor on how to judge the life lived at the deathbed. Thanks!
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
13 May 11
Very interesting topic. I think that a rich life is one where you will have gained love and happiness from small things, and worked hard to reach your goals as like thatyou get satisfaction. Fundamentally you have to have loving people around you as love is key in life. Without it nothing is worthwhile - not money, not career, not success.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
14 May 11
Interesting point of view! I've never even thought of that! One could anchor one's life towards it. On how much love he/she has given or have gained. And at the deathbed, he or she would be be able to judge his or her life better. If he or she was able to live it 'richer'. Thanks for the response.