people buy things they do not need

@stk40m (1119)
Koeln, Germany
October 29, 2012 5:28pm CST
I've been reading and hearing these words very often in the last few months. Reflecting on myself and what I have bought in the past which turned out to be useless or which I used only a couple of times and then lost my interest in I came to the same conclusion. We are virtually bombarded with ads and products. How is it possible to resist then? It's really like if you are told over and over again that you need a certain product you actually start to believe that you need it. Isn't that some sort of indoctrination? If we buy stuff we do not need it is a waste of money, a waste of energy (for the manufacturing of the product) and a waste of resources. Whom does it serve other than the company who sells the product? What about the environment? What do you think about this issue and are there products that you buy but don't need and if so which ones?
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@echoforever (5180)
• United States
30 Oct 12
People will always buy the things they don't need. They seem appealing to us and then we waste our money o nit thinking we want it. Its our nature because we have money to spend. Its better to invest it on something we need but instead we will follow our impulses. We also make these pointless things at a cost to our environment, you are right.
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
Yeah, money certainly is big issue when it comes to buying stuff we don't need. Sometimes the more money people have the less they know where to spend it
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
money is a devilish thing you know, once we have it we must get rid of it... but hey wait, there's actually something to it... maybe it's the subconscious fear that it could lose its value. We cannot eat money, we cannot use it as a tool, all we can do with it is either burn it or throw it out of the window. So we think we better spend it before it loses it's ''magic''
• United States
30 Oct 12
I too have seen this corralation. We are strange beings indeed. The money will burn a hole in our pocket, we think, so we must spend it right away.
@marguicha (215441)
• Chile
30 Oct 12
Many people buy a lot more things than what they need and a lot more than what they can afford. I have seen on TV shows about hoarders and they live like pigs while having the house full of products that have even the tags on and have never been used. This has to be blamed on the way society is and the current values. Everything is centered on having instead of being. So, if someone has anxiety problems and insecurity, they turn on things instead of looking inside themselves of seeking help. Probably hoarders need those things to feel safe. But we must change the value we put on things and then we will turn our eyes to other human beings for help.
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
good points you mention there. I think it's similar to buying things for just putting them onto a shelf or into a display cabinet that nobody is going to touch but only to look at. Some people need the recognition of others or they have a need to show off or to show what they have. A museum which puts things on display for teaching people is a different issue though Thanks for your comment!
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@marguicha (215441)
• Chile
30 Oct 12
Many years ago, some people bought nice books to put on a shelf and they never read them. Now this is extended to every material thing as people are not thinking of beauty but centering on the verb "to have".
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
oh, now that you mention it. I have bought lots of books in the recent years. They are also standing on the shelf but I read them and still read them. Maybe that prevents me from extending to other material things Perhaps that's the key anyway: reading and learning and finally comprehending
@silentwill (1685)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
We're all guilty of this. This new in thing will catch our eye but since we might not be able to afford it yet, we save for it and the longer we wait to own it the greater we crave for it. Then we finally save enough to buy it, rush to the store and go home very happy. We have fun with it, sleep with it beside us, show it to our friends. And then the novelty wears off. And soon enough we find it collecting dust. I'm sure everyone is familiar with a scene like that.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
yep, that sounds indeed familiar. Sometimes it is just the act of buying itself that makes people buy an item. Waiting for the item makes it even more ''attractive''. But once we have it it won't last long until we lose interest in it or it wears off as you say. Thanks for your input!
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• Philippines
31 Oct 12
Some things which years ago used to be just wants have now become part of our needs. Things like cellphones are indespensable now and have become as essential as someone's wallet.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Oct 12
I do well to buy what i need & use. Don't know why anyone would spend money om something they don't need or want use. Guess they have more money than sense, lol.
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
yeah, that's also what I think. If you have the money you don't have to worry if the stuff you buy is actually useful or not. So people become careless in regard to waste.
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@namiya (1713)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
I have committed these act too. When someone endorses something which worked for her and recommends that I try it too but turn out once bought that it's not for me. Greatest factor however before was my fondness for "promotional sale" by known department stores or supermarkets hoping to save by availing the store-wide discounts offered only to realize upon arriving home that there are purchases that we can do away without. Hence, I now avoid this promotion unless there is something I really need to buy.
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@namiya (1713)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
agree but temptation works on a cunning way often times picking on "hot items" as bait to weaken resolution and defenses so the best way to do when there is a sale is: don't go if there's no need .
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
yep, discounters have a certain attraction on me as well. The price labels reading ''50% off'' or so are almost irresistable especially if you like the product. Then I have to force myself to not buy it if I realize that I don't really need it. I think the best way to deal with this issue is to go into a shop with an item list that only contains the stuff you definitely need and a big red remark reading ''Don't buy anything else''
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• India
30 Oct 12
I think most of us do it now and then as it is difficult to judge the value of all the products at all the time in a correct manner. But like a person for me it is not very bothering because I need a lot of things and therefore I always try to prioritize my needs and then decide whether I should buy it or not? But it is also true that sometimes just for the sake of fun I indulge myself in buying something which is not really high on the priority list.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
yes, a priority list helps you to decide what to buy and what not to buy. Thx for your comment!
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@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
I don't really buy stuff that ends up taking space in a drawer or closet, never to be used. Because before I do purchase something, I need to check first if I can afford to buy it. Most of the stuff that I have are gifts since I rarely buy anything for myself. I do buy clothes, but not until I have outgrown them or the clothes that I have are really old. It's my brother who is like this. He is somewhat of a hoarder and tends to buy a lot of stuff he doesn't really need. His clothes are spilling out of closets and small boxes. And when I tell him that I will be donating some, he refuses because some of the clothes are new and this is true. He keeps buying and buying and never really gets to wear all of them. It's such a waste of money.
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
clothes are a big issue, that's true. Everyone needs them but many people buy more than necessary. Maybe your brother wants to have a wider choice to select from. I hope in the future he will follow your way of dealing with clothes
@GemmaR (8517)
30 Oct 12
I think that this is something that I am always going to struggle with. I love earning money, but one of the things that I am supposed to be doing is saving things for my future, but more often than not I will just spend it as soon as I get it and then this means that I am short on the amount that I need to be able to save up. I will be more strict with my earnings in the future, because I know that I am always going to struggle until I stop doing this. I should make a list of the things that I do need, and then just stick to that list.
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
yep, all to often our hunter-gatherer instinct ''breaks through''. We have to ''grow out of our infancy'' (quote from Star Trek Cpt. Picard but true) to realize what we really need in life and what we don't need.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
30 Oct 12
ya that is because of the peer pressure i believe in order to prove themself to the outer world and judge them,they do this sort of things
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
haven't thought about that one. Yeah, peer pressure certainly makes people buy a certain brand even if that brand is much more expensive than the no-name product which may be just as good but less expensive.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
30 Oct 12
Hi, usually i think a lot before buying anything, about how can i use that , and upto what extent,even with dresses. Mostly i waste my money on clothes, because even after thinking about what to buy and what not to,i end up buying and after wearing i don't like it on me ,whether the color the fitting etc. I am working on it, and still have to .
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
it's good that you do a lot of thinking before you buy an item. Sometimes it's impossible though to know beforehand if the product will be useful or not. In order to find out we have no other choice than to buy it. The seller may be obligated to return though in which case we have an advantage Thank you for your comment!
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@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
30 Oct 12
I was guilty of this a couple of times. Usually, anything that I bought on impulse would seem like a good buy at first but when I got home, I would realize that I cannot use it at all or it isn't as good as it sounds or looks when it was on the shop. Gradually I taught myself to value m hard earned money more than he promise of these stores and their products. At every point whenever I shop or just browse through, I ask myself, do I really need this? One time I bought this an ab trimmer. I sure got so amazed by the way the salesperson market it. I was only able to use it a few times and now it's just eating dust in the garage because it turns out to be a more complicated to use.
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
that is a very good idea to do a self-test by asking yourself if you really need the product you are going to buy. And yeah, products are presented in a fashion that makes it hard for the customer to resist. Thank you for your comment
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@Magz1989 (271)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
Well, its a competitive world anyway and its for the buyer to choose wisely if they need them. Products must be endorse no matter what in the name of business and investments though sometimes you have believe (as Consumer) that product will benefit you but the truth it doesn't or only a little. The more propaganda it have, the more people will be attract and the more demand, the more boomer the business. That's why we consumer must be wise for we are the target of those propaganda. We must know what are those our needs and what those just a waste. Well, products serve the economy to growth , also the company that made it. And furthermore, to know exactly what you need is validate your self, your home and your family on what they need to avoid wastage. Be a wise consumer....you must benefit what you have paid for.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
good points. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
• Norway
30 Oct 12
Well. Things we "need" today are things we considered junk and a waste of time and money for only 10 - 15 years ago. Ipads, tablets and smartphones. Just toys. Useless crap that only makes us anti-social and lazy. Same with netflix and all this other stuff we all subscribe to but barely use.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
to be honest, I don't even know what Ipods, IPhones and all the other stuff is as I don't use it. I guess it's from a company called Apple? Anyways, I only see them kids with ear-phones running across the streets while the music is so loud that I can hear it, too I could imagine though that those little computers with additional functions are useful to some people, e.g. researchers or scientists that are out in the wild. That is certainly more handy than carrying a laptop all along. But on the whole I agree. Those things are more like toys than tools for most people.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
30 Oct 12
Honestly I do not buy a lot of things I do not need or really want due to the fact that I'm not super rich and am trying to save money however I supposed if I had more money I could see being a little more careless and catering to every whim. Also i think that many people are under the false impression that possessions will make them happy or get them more popularity.
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@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
yep, that is true. I know a couple of people who show me their expensive stuff each time I visit them. Sometimes I cannot help thinking they just buy those things to show off and not because they actually need it. Thanks for your comment!
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
30 Oct 12
i have just been reading up on the minimalist lifestyle and am beginning to go that route. there are many who buy stuff that is not needed in order to look cool or for whatever reason. it is sad that people think they need more 'stuff' and like you said, it is harmful to the earth and ourselves.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
to live the 'minimalist' lifestyle does not necessarily mean that you will lack something. On the contrary living that way will actually broaden your horizon. You start assessing things and living beings at their true worth. There will be no lack of joy or pleasure and it may be good for health, too (if you resist eating sweets for example or even become a vegetarian like I am one). However, you will become more critical of what's going on around you. You will perhaps discover that things and people are not like they are supposed to be. Of course you can also (try to) live this way when you are rich but temptation will always be in reach and I don't know a single person (who's rich) that would choose the minimalist lifestyle over the decadent and luxurious lifestyle. In other words greed is stronger than need. But greed is what destroys this planet and its inhabitants. So we have to ''grow up''
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
30 Oct 12
People tend to buy things they don't need because they have the money available. Lots of people buy a book and it goes straight into their book case. Maybe the book is never read which I think is a shame. Frozen food on offer can end up in the freezer and it can be ages before it is born. Yes, we are shown adverts and lots of different products. On an advert the actor said he thought the company had many thing which he didn't need but they were so attractive he got them anyway. He invited people to become customers for the attractive looking and cheap products. He said the products are stylish and current in the modern day.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
you mention food. That's indeed a big issue in modern society. Not only its waste (which is enormous) is shameful but also the products that are used to store or hold it only have a short lifespan. Paper cups, plastic foil, tin foil, plastic cutlery etc are often totally unnecessary. I remember some efforts that were taken in the 90s in Germany where they proposed to sell liquid products as pure liquids from a machine. Customers would have to bring their beakers for storage with them. Unfortunately that method never made it from the development stage to the stores. You are not the first person in this discussion who says that the availability of money is responsible for waste. So I guess we can take that hypothesis to the bank
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Oct 12
hi stk yes I spent a bit on a clumsy hard to use rice cooker and since I did not even eat that much rice it s at unused. then when my son lost his job and the economy dropped to the toilet we ran out of money and were evicted. the topics of extra things paled against the stark realism we were homeless. we lost a lot of our belonging as we did not have enough money to buy a larger storage space and not enough for a larger truck so a lot of our belongings just had to be left. its been a few years now so no t quite so painful but still bittersweet and still in this tiresome retirement center.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
that's the hardest thing that can happen to people. If they are evicted. For this reason I have always thought that having to pay taxes for one's property is not justifiable. Every family should have a home and that should not depend on the social status or on money at all. But most governments in the world have no scruples to demand taxes for property. It's ridiculous but unfortunately it's true. I guess if someone wants to know if he needs a product or not you would be the right person to ask as you know the meaning of the word ''need'' very well and what it means to be ''in need''. All the best and thanks for your comment
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Another name for it might be brainwashing. I guess one might say that it keeps the economy moving. I've lived long enough that, for myself, I buy only what I need. Now, when it comes to buying for our grandchildren, that's a different story. Our youngest definitely frequently needs another toy to put into that already overflowing toy box.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
31 Oct 12
brainwashing, yeah, that's another way to put it Absolutely. Kids first need to learn what need is. It is important for them to have toys. Toys will later turn into tools.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
30 Oct 12
Almost everyone buys things that they don't need. If you own anything more than a few changes of clothes and the food you need for survival you have things you don't need. No one needs a TV, but most people find it hard to live without one. We could all stand to eliminate some of the clutter from our lives.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
31 Oct 12
No, all those other things are optional. Needs are things you must have in order to survive. Water is more important to the body than food; shelter is important, but you don't need to purchase a home to have protection from the elements and be able to survive. If we had to live without conveniences and even tools, we would find a way to do so. After all, our ancient ancestors once did just that.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Yes, and sticks and stones do not have to be purchased and in an area where there are natural shelters such as caves you could construct a home of sorts from whatever available resources, etc., etc. The point here was that we all have a lot of clutter in our lives that we could stand to do without. To survive in life you NEED water, food, at least one change of clothes, a way to protect your feet (obviously shoes is the best choice, but many in the world don't have them), and shelter from the elements. How you will go about getting those things will depend on where you live and what resources are available to you.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
Food, clothes and more importantly a home and some land of course. But some even don't have that. And if you think about it you will probably find lots of other things we indeed need for life, e.g. certain tools etc. Yeah, no one needs a TV or radio unless perhaps for information. For the weather forecast for example . Personally I rarely watch TV (watched much more in the past). Maybe 1 hour a week. Hanging on the net and on Mylot for most of the time instead Think of items that - as many in this discussion have put it nicely - will very soon just end up unused on a shelf or as a dust catcher. I guess those are things we really don't need but which we buy for whatever reason
30 Oct 12
The most embarrassing thing is the environmental impact, look at our oceans now, they are full of plastics and toxic garbage.. It is an education we take. In the past, Humans drunk natural water, why are we consuming mineral water now? I'm an engineer student in environment department and I know what is POLLUTION.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
30 Oct 12
yep, it pretty much comes down to the destruction of our environment (fauna et flora both in the oceans and on land). One person alone only wastes little but make that x billion people and it turns out to be a huge problem. So we all - i.e. every single person - need to restrain ourselves. One more, one less. As for mineral water... maybe they're trying to solve the CO2 problem this way