trinee

@trinee (514)

Trinidad And Tobago • Age 50

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Do you wear slippers when you're in your bedroom?

larish @larish (2191) • Philippines 15 May 09

I always wear my slippers on but my husband prefers to have barefoot while inside our bedroom. He told me that it relaxes him and jokingly tells me the he is preserving his slippers because he don't want to worn it out. I...

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trinee Yup.. I wear slippers in my bedroom all the time. Like to keep my feet clean as much as possible.

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Feeling very isolated

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 8 Jul 09

I am feeling very isolated at the moment.I have a son who runs off and kicks off for no reason.He throws chairs tables etc for no reason in school and is the same at home.I am always on edge just incase he starts up where ever we...

children

happiness

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trinee Hi Jugs, I hope you are doing okay today. I know you have a lot to deal with but hang in there and know you are not alone. We may not always understand what you are dealing with but we are here to talk to and be there in whatever way we can. I actually just...

9 Jul 09

I'm going to eat fruit for lunch today

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 8 Jul 09

It is Mango season and we have so many of them at home. So I have decided to try and re energize my sluggish digestive system and I am going to have fruit for breakfast with one slice of bread and lots of fruit for lunch....

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trinee Hey Cynthiann, what kind of mangoes do you have over there. I am having rice and peas today with chicken for lunch. I have been storing some Julie, starch and some other kind of grafted mango in my bedroom because I don't trust those folks at home to leave...

9 Jul 09

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Saying Goodbye to The King of Pop..This is It!

Opal26 @Opal26 (17679) • United States 7 Jul 09

I don't care if anyone responds or not, I have to do this! I started the FIRST discussion when Michael Jackson died! And I have to end it! I watched the Memorial Service and it was gut wrenching, at least to me! If you care to...

gut wrenching

nice things to say

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trinee Opal you too sweet and funny LOL I watched the memorial while juggling work and trust me, work chose to be very busy on that day! Boo.. nonetheless it was a beautiful ceremony and I have to say that those who stood out for me were Stevie Wonder, Brooke...

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I turned on the Tap in bed last night.

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 2 Jul 09

That's what my father called it when I started to cry as a child. He's say, "Cynthie's turned on the tap again". Well I turned on the tap in bed last night when I realised that it was the last night that I would be cuddling my...

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trinee When you become attached to kids it's hard to let them go. I know how you feel girl even though I don't have kids but the attachment can be really strong. You will always have those memories and I know you will see and spend time with them again. Be blessed.

5 Jul 09

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Don't You Know Who I Am?, she said

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 4 Jul 09

Life can change in a flash. I just walked around the grounds to make sure that all is well before I left. A young lady came to me and said that it was obvious that there was not enough pool furniture. (New pool furniture is on...

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trinee Haha. Well you put her in her place my friend. I know the types you speak about. They are here in Trinidad too. I wonder if it is because they are on a small island, they think that they are larger than life? Wonder what happens when they go out into the wider...

5 Jul 09

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For Those That Love Music~A Tribute Tonight To Michael Jackson and More...

Opal26 @Opal26 (17679) • United States 28 Jun 09

Tonight there will be a Special on BET, which is the Black Entertainment Channel. It is an Award cermony which was scheduled for tonight to honor those in the Music, Sports, Acting and Other Industries. This ceremony was...

atmosphere

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honoring michael jackson

tributes

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trinee Hey Opal. Saw a little bit of it when Janet was on stage. It was heart wrenching. You could feel the love she still and will always have for her brother. I want to watch it again; see the whole thing. Michael Jackson had loyal fans. There are those of us who...

29 Jun 09

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Diet

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 27 Jun 09

My husband is on a diet and i find it very funny that he can eat a salad then he eats a curry and then he had half a cake.Just to mention that was just one meal for him that took an hour to eat,that is two days meals to me and...

diet

food

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trinee Jugs, break it to him.. he is not on a diet LOL Men and women do have a different metabolism and in addition at night the metabolic rate slows down so eating all that food and then sitting down to watch TV may not be a good idea.

28 Jun 09

Schools

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 22 Jun 09

Do you think that now adays children seem to have more time off school than we did when we went to school.They seem to have lots of teacher training days and it seems they have more holidays than we used to? Did we get all these...

children

schools

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trinee Yes Jugs, they do have a lot more time off school. Here on my island there are teachers' holidays, teacher training and there is even Principal's day LOL. Too much time off for kids I think.

27 Jun 09

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Romance

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 22 Jun 09

Do you feel like the romance has gone out of your relationship.Was there much romance when you first got together with your partner?

lovers

romance

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trinee I don't think that the romance has gone out of my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and I still feel the passion there. It could be because we are still young in this relationship but I think between the both of we will we...

23 Jun 09

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People can be so unkind.

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Jun 09

I work as a Property Manger in a very upmarket property on the beach. As the summers are so hot, I let the gardners have a 2 hour lunch break so they can eat, relax or sleep if they want to. They then work an extra hour in the...

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trinee You are being paid to do a job and if you are getting it done why not let you do it your way? You know how the employees work and how they function best. Is it because they think that you are being too nice to your subordinates? When some people are in a...

23 Jun 09

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I woke up this morning feeling so depressed.

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Jun 09

I did not know why I was feeling so unhappy. Prayer did not assist me, perhaps because I was more focussd on myself. I got to work very early and instead of going straight into my offce, I collected a pair of secateurs (clippers)...

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trinee Hey cynthian, Sorry that you woke up feeling unhappy. It happens and yes you are right; sometimes we just don't know why. With women it could be hormonal changes or an imbalance. Generally it could just be a reaction to all the stress around us. I listen...

23 Jun 09

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so.......

friendship4lyfe @friendship4lyfe (520) • Saint Lucia 20 Jun 09

How many of you here read your bible everyday?Well sometimes i read everyday and then i stop because i feel better which is a bad thing.You should never stop reading your bible no matter what.Now i dont attend church which is even...

bible

pray

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trinee Thank you for bringing this topic to the forum. I too, used to read the bible a lot during trying times and then not so much when I felt things were better. The bibe is not for convenience, it is the word of God and through you learn of love or us and his...

20 Jun 09

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Friends requests on mylot

pingi68 @pingi68 (304) • Italy 18 Jun 09

I'm receiving lots of friends requests on mylot, that i normally accept. now i was counting how many friends i have, and there are 39! my question is: should you read all the post of yr friends? or just the ones you find...

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trinee You can't read everyone's discussion on your friends list. if it is a discussion I can comment on then yes.. not to mention if you respond to everyone and respond to those who are responding to yours, you will have little time to do anything else! You do as...

19 Jun 09

I think she has became INSANE!!!!???

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 18 Jun 09

Do you think she is having some psycho problems?? Here we go, I have a female friend, she got married with her husband for half year, she left her family and home country, followed her husband to another country, since then, she...

becoming insane

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trinee Sounds like she is not adapting well to her new environment. She needs to speak with her husband and let him know how she feels. If she and her husband don't know how to communicate properly then all he will be hearing is noise and complaints and all she will...

19 Jun 09

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Night here comes at 7 pm. What time does it get dark where you live?

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 16 Jun 09

In the summer time, growing up in the U.K. it would often stay light until after 9 pm in the summer time. I hated it asd I was put to bed whilst it was light. In the winter we get dark at 6pm where I live but in the summer we...

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trinee Around 6pm during the later part of the year but around this time of the year it starts to get dark around 6:30pm. We don't have daylight saving time here so we just go with whatever LOL

18 Jun 09

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I knew something was wrong with my daughter

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 17 Jun 09

Call it a mother's intuition or not but I was in bed last night and just knew something was wrong with my daughter. I called her and she was parked in a gas station on her way from Atlanta to N.C. and she was so ill with Flu. She...

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trinee It was definitely mother's intuition and I am happy that you responded because she really needed you to be there for her. It's something neither of you will forget. I had an experience with my Mom when I was at work years ago. I was standing at the door and...

18 Jun 09

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I love you because I need you or I need you because I love you

snugglepuff09 @snugglepuff09 (93) • Philippines 10 Jun 09

Hi there, mylotters! How would you like to share your opinions on this? What do you think is the best or most appropriate? Is it I love you because I need you or I need you because I love you?

relationship

relationships

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trinee I need you because I love you works for me. The other one sounds like you love the person because you need them.

10 Jun 09

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Spending time with your children

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 9 Jun 09

Do find it very hard to find time to spend with your children? The children now a days have to make their own entertain ment as parents can not fit in or afford to have time out with their children.What do you think?

children

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trinee I don't have any kids but I can understand that parents have a lot on their plates trying to make ends meet. However if I had kids I would put time aside even if a little to spend with them.

10 Jun 09

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