Would you let hubby attend a bachelor party?  

Yes, I would tell him to go. If you love him and trust him then you love him and trust him no matter where he is. This strip club thing is tradition and a guy's idea of a wild night out. I would let my husband go and recently my best friend's husband went to one for his nephew. He said that he was pretty embarassed by the attention of the mostly naked woman and it didn't do a thing for him.

Nope.. I ain't having it... Besides, I don't think that he would go so far as to do something dumb like this... No disrespect, but I don't have this going on in my marriage.. I am not insecure, we just don't roll like this.. Me or him..

No way in h3ll!!!! The two of us talked about this before we got married, and neither of us had interest in such lewd forms of entertainment such as strippers and batchellor, batchellorette parties. We only have eyes for eachother.

I'm like you, I don't like strip clubs myself. That being said, if it was my husband, I would probably encourage him to go and "have fun, just not too much". You are right though, he probably does deserve a night of fun, especially if he really only gets out a couple of times a year. Good for you in trusting him, and just tell him that! :O) No need for him to sacrifice the fun if you are willing to let him go.

I agree that married men and those who are in a relationship have no business in a strip club. You might just want to let him know waht you think. I also figure it's best if he is aware of your disagreement with that even without telling him not to go because he may think it's just okay with you if he does that and he'll just go to a strip club anytime he pleases with that thought in his mind.

I would tell him to go. It isn't like it they are going to do anything just have fun and see women dancing around. We had to make some of the guys go to one last year for a bachelor party cause they thought we would be made too. They had fun and got home before us girls did*L*

my diance doesnt want one or would go to one . he said he would rather go to a ball game. if he wanted i guess i would let him go .

I personally detest stripclubs as they demean women
so would have a hard time say yes to my husband back
when he was alive. I trusted him but I did not like
the idea of him ogling these naked women at all.I do
not think that is anyplace for a married man to go.

I would let mine go i trust him . its just with the wrong group of people men can be jack a's he even told me he wouldnt go to one. Also for his party he said he would rather go to a ball game

I think much of this depends on your husbands friends. My husband has two sets of friends. He has his married, family man friends and his single friends.

I know all of his friends pretty well, and most of them I like very much. A few of his single friends are not what I consider the best influence. But what it really boils down to is, do I trust my husband...or really do you trust yours?

I think the most you can do is express your feelings about strip clubs and how it would make you feel if he went. And then if could make the decision to go or not. You can only hope that he values you and cares much about your feelings.

Marriage is hard, for men and women. But for women it seems like we are always the ones saying no and this only makes it harder for us. A lucky few of us have husbands who are understanding and its these rare men who can give up things like strip clubs for the better of their marriage.