I am afraid of posting a discussion on mylot  |
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 Something terrible happened to me here on mylot. Yesterday i started a discussion on named " Our income from mylot is going to reduce....will you leave mylot???"
I got very good responses. Most mylotters said that they won't leave mylot because of money. They find it fun discussing here. I was quiet happy that many mylotters share my thoughts. The comments were very enjoying for me.
But suddenly that changed. Some mylotters are blaming me for posting that discussion that i am spreading false rumor. Only my title of that discussion was like false rumor. But the details were not.
I don't know how they judged me that i am spreading false rumor or misleading others. In the details section i asked other mylotters opinion about what they think. I did not mislead them.
Some responses took it to the wrong direction. Now I am afraid to post another discussion that interests others.
So i am asking you mylotters should i stop starting a new discussion or ignore those negative responses?
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 darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | Thanks Amanda. You are really nice. | |
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 dianel (4074) | 4 weeks ago |  I would not worry about it. There are many people here and they all are going to have an opinion. Some you may like others you may not thats just the way it is, keep posting, never give up.
Diane
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2.  floridachick (180) | 4 weeks ago |  well there's nothing you can do about negative responses, everyone has there own opinion. every discussion started here at mylot could go either way depending how people see it. if they were using violent words or bashing you personally then report them. even if you respond to a discussion someone might not like what you have to say and comment on it. that's what mylot is for to discuss, good or bad, positive or negative.
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| darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | I can not report them who responds to my discussion. It would be unfair. For me it would mean i am disrespecting them.
Don't you think so? | |
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| floridachick (180) | 4 weeks ago | how is that disrespecting them? it's more like them disrespecting you, we are allowed to give our opinions but personal attacks are uncalled for an against mylot policy, if they are attacking you personally then you have a right to report them. | |
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| darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | Actually i am too soft to do that. hehe | |
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 patricia4225 (169) | 4 weeks ago |  Well I would not stop posting but it was a bit misleading.Always get the facts strainght beforehand. Did they tell you them selves that the pay was going down? As I read the title I would assume that my lot had informed you the pay was going down. But after reading response I gather it is just a perception.
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| 3. swirlz (904) | 4 weeks ago |  I've looked that discussion up and I have to admit it didn't even sound the least bit hypothetical. If it wasn't a fact that mylot was really closing, then you should have made it clear in your discussion that it wasn't, and that it was only for the purpose of discussion. But not even once it mentioned the words, "what if". You made it sound like it's actually happening. So without facts backing up your claim, you're definitely spreading false rumor.
But this shouldn't stop you from starting new discussions. Just be careful next time. And I think you owe everyone an apology.
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| thebohemianheart (255) | 4 weeks ago |  Darksorrow, I think it may have been a language barrier thing. Sometimes, those of us who don't speak English as our first language don't realize how things sound to those of us who do. Does that make sense? If you pose your discussion as a question to the general public and say "what if" or "if" or even "let's say", this thing happened, what would you do? then people would not take it that you were spreading rumors or just flat out call you a liar.
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| whiteheather39 (9917) | 4 weeks ago |  swirlz I agree with you 100% it did not sound the least bit hypothetical.
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| darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | Thanks for the suggestion thebohemianheart. All i wanted was to make an interesting title. | |
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| 4. Jody20 (420) | 4 weeks ago |  I don't think you should stop posting. I read your discussion named "Our income from mylot is going to reduce...." 5 minutes ago, and think that you made a very good point there. I don't think it's misleading at all. So keep posting.
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| darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | Thanks jody for understanding me. | |
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| 5. nahidbd (323) | 4 weeks ago | Don't afraid friend. We are with you. I don't think people should blame you for this kind of discussions. We are here to express our thought.I think some people doesn't like hearing the truth. | |
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| darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | Actually it was not a truth. It was only my thought that i wanted to share with other mylotters.
Ar ekta kotha ekta sobi lagan valo lagbe | |
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| nahidbd (323) | 4 weeks ago | I am very lazy.I will soon post a "chobi". | |
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| 6. sharay (776) | 4 weeks ago |  Your topic was okay, but then you must have been a little careful, instead of putting "Our income from mylot is going to reduce....will you leave mylot???" which sounds as if mylot is going to reduce our income which is indeed a false alarm, you could have put it this way, ""If our income from mylot is going to reduce....will you leave mylot???"", just could have added an if there...your topic defntly could be easily misinterpreted, but anyway, that does not mean you have to posting anymore discussions, take it just as a learning process, thats all, everyone makes mistakes, now rectify the mistakes and post quality discussions on mylot...please dont lose your heart for this simple reason
come on, cheer up now
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| darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | Thanks sharay for your suggestion. But when i was a kid here i got suggestions that to choose titles that attracts the interest of others. I did it as one of those suggestions.
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| swirlz (904) | 4 weeks ago | I see. I think it worked. And it's really okay. But the discussion only supported that line. Yes, there may be the word "may" but it wasn't clear enough. I think the biggest mistake is the first sentence. Your title is "Our income from mylot is going to reduce...will you leave mylot?" It's okay since you're just trying to catch people's attention. But the first sentence of your paragraph is "Yes, you read it right. " It should have been something like "That may be true" or "What if that was to happen?" By saying "You read it right" was like saying that your title is a fact. | |
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| 7. spalladino (2671) | 4 weeks ago |  Misunderstandings happen from time to time when we start discussions and when we respond to them so don't let it get you down. It happens to all of us eventually. As far as negative responses, sometimes a negative response will make you think about something in a way that you didn't before so they're not always bad.
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| darksorrow (679) | 4 weeks ago | Yeah now i think you are right | |
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| 8. wwerules51 (306) | 4 weeks ago | Post a new discussion but make sure it is not a topic which can not cause a argument. Good Luck:) | |
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