Children are to be weened off formula and bottles at 1 year.

United States
January 6, 2009 6:42pm CST
This is what pediatricians recommend, that babies are taken off bottles and formula at their first birthday. Do you agree with this? Did you always take your kids off the bottle and formula when they were a year old, or did you stop nursing at that point? With my first 3 kids I began weening them off the bottle just before a year, and they were actually completely off the bottle and formula just before their first birthday. With the toddler I was a bit more lenient. Shortly after he turned a year I started mixing his formula with milk, then a few months later he just got milk in his bottle. It wasn't until he was about 18 months that I finally stopped giving him the bottle all together. Now my youngest is about to turn a year old, and I'm supposed to be at least thinking about weening him, but I'm not. He still doesn't eat much regular food, he mostly plays with it. I offer it to him everytime we eat, and he gets regular snacks through out the day. He's also not completely ready for sippy cups. I do offer them to him too, and he knows how to drink from them, but he usually will just play with it for a minute, then set it aside and ignore it. I just don't think he's ready to be taken off formula yet, or the bottle. Since he's not eating regular food much, and not drinking from his sippy cup much, I think I'm going to leave him on the bottle a bit longer, and continue to give him formula to make sure he's getting the proper nutrition. At least until he starts eating more regular food.
2 people like this
13 responses
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
7 Jan 09
yes, all my kids were weened by right around a year and drinking from a regular cup. I made the mistake with one of them of giving her a pacifier. Whatever you do, don't get caught up in that mistake. It was the hardest habit to break her of.
1 person likes this
• United States
7 Jan 09
My first had a pacifier for 6 months. He kept losing it and I kept buying him a new one, but one time he lost it and I said he was old enough to be broken of it, so I just didn't buy anymore. I don't remember it being too bad. I didn't start any of the other kids on them, learned my lesson after the first time.
1 person likes this
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
7 Jan 09
My son was off formula and off the bottle at 13 months. My daughter is a different story. She was off formula at 10 months, but she is almost 2 ans still has the occasional bottle. She gave up the pacifier willingly at 7 months old and the bottle is her only vice. If she is in a good mood at bedtime then no bottle, but sometimes she is just too cranky to deal with and I give in and give her a bottle. Usually it is just water, but having it calms her down enough to get her to fall asleep.
1 person likes this
• United States
7 Jan 09
That's how it ended up being with the toddler. At first he needed the bottle every night, and would even wake up during the night and want one. Then it got to the point where I could put him to bed without the bottle, and he finally started sleeping through the night, so he got the bottle less and less. Eventually when it dawned on me that he wasn't taking it every day, I just stopped all together.
1 person likes this
@ersmommy1 (12587)
• United States
7 Jan 09
My daughter started eating at 8 months. By the time she was 11 months she was off the bottle and on a cup. I don't know how things will go with my son. Since he isn't yet a month old, I guess I have some time. Every kid is different. As long as he is healthy, I wouldn't worry too much.
1 person likes this
• United States
7 Jan 09
My other kids all had healthier appetites than this one too. Actually my toddler had all his teeth before he turned a year, and was eating steak with us. I only kept him on the bottle out of laziness basically, but I was pregnant again, so you can't blame me much for that one, lol. This one just doesn't have as much of an appetite as the others did. He's not interested in most foods. That's what is worrying me at the moment about weening him. If he stops taking the bottle, would he get enough nutrition? I don't think so, and I'd rather be safe than sorry.
1 person likes this
@shymurl (2765)
• United States
7 Jan 09
Every child like every person is different. I have three children and can see how different they are. All my children were off the formula when they were eleven months. all my children were off the bottle by the time they were thirteen months. potty training was different. my first was trained by the time he was a little over two. my daughter was potty trained by the time she was two and my other son was potty trained when he was about a year and a half. If you feel your baby is not ready then he's probably not. go with your instinct.
1 person likes this
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
7 Jan 09
I am a firm believer that a Mother knows their child best. If you do not feel that your child is ready to be off the formula, than leave him on it a little while longer. I am sure it is not causing him any harm at all. I took all of my kids' bottles away frm them the day they turned one year old. They did have sippy cups and the length of time they used them varied from one kid to the next. I also took all of them off of formuls when they turned one year old. My kids all ate well, or at least I felt they did. They would not sit and eat a lot at one time, but would eat throughout the day, picking at things here and there. Today, they are all happy and healthy and all a good weight for their ages. As I said before, a Mother knows her child the best, and you need to do what youfeel is right for your child.
1 person likes this
@Polly289 (269)
• New Zealand
7 Jan 09
Oh I totally agree with that recommendation. I weened all my children off at 1 year and put them straight onto cups. Can't think of anything worse than seeing a child sucking on the end of a bottle. It's not good for their development. My sister still has her son on a bottle and he is almost 3 for crying out loud. The poor little man is forever having ear problems and a runny nose. His speach is not very good either. I mean, how can you talk properly if you've always got a bottle jammed into your mouth. She uses it as a comforter. Not a good idea. Don't believe in pacifiers either. At the end of the day the choice is yours. Have to say as well, keeping them on the formula shouldn't hurt them. In fact, they'd still be getting all the nutrients they need. Happy mothering
1 person likes this
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 09
My oldest son drank from a bottle and moved on to a cup at age one. However my youngest son has spina bifida and acts young for his age. He is 19 months old and he still drinks from a baby's bottle. I have tried to get him to drink from a beaker but he gets upset and hardly drinks any of the soya milk. At playgroup the staff try to get him to have his soya milk in a cup. It gets spilled all the place and he ends up soaking wet. I have been to see a dietitian and she said for me to reduce the amount of soya milk and to keep trying to get my son to give up his bottle. He eats food but is very picky. He is vegan and he soya formula is full of vitamins. He will be drinking it until his diet is a normal vegan one.
@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
7 Jan 09
A lot of times a child is more attached to the bottle for security purposes. Just having that thing in their hands and the sucking action is just a calm security to them. Like taking away a pacifier. It is all about security. I took both my kids and both my grand daughters off bottles and pacifiers and no problem at all! Start with a sippy cup - they have fun cute ones these days so let your child pick out his own cup! LEt the child help fill it! My 2 yo was off bottle at just before a year. she loved straws! I just got those sippy cups that had the hole in the top for drinking purposes and stuck a straw in there and she loved it! Now, she loves to "make her own". when i do milk, she'll say "you get the milk I'll get the pink". And I give her pink milk - she loves it and that little skant 1/4 tsp of strawberry syrup is enough to get her to drink a whole 8oz or mor of milk. I've tried the milk and can barely taste the strawberry flavor but I think she just likes making it herself more than what it ends up tasting like! Her aunt also just had a baby about htat time so they told her she should give her bottles to him cause she was a big girl now and he was just a baby and he couldn't drink with a straw adn that helped too. ANd if they get reliante on the bottle for to long, that makes it a habit to break, not a "weening" issue. And if you do it young enough, they haven't figure that out yet! It is easier to get them to do things, before they get to smart to figure out they don't want to do it that way! And also I think lot of the issues stems from moms just being buzy and not having time (or making it) for themselves to adjust to a sippy cup instead of a bottle. A bottle is a "here take it and go so I can finish this" thing and you know no spills will follow. A sippy cup can have a spill, howver, in looking at them for my GD, they make them pretty good now that even if it is tipped, it is more a drip than a spill and it is so small and takes awhile to drip out that you can grab it before it gets to that point. Then you can say things like "oh, get Bob the BUider before he falls over" or "Don't let Blue's Clue's fall off the table.. he might bump his nose" or something like that with relation to the child's favorite character on the bottle. Give them some responsibility (at least that is what we call it) to them it would be just taking care of their character! Give them a reason to do something and while they are small they will learn. Thing is you want to start this at an early age - those little guys get smart really fast! Just cause they are babies, doesn't mean they are stupid! Adults are so over whelmed with life, but thoselittle minds are free and clear! To display this... my 2 yo (almost 3) GD, we have been potty training her for few months. she is doing just great. No more pull ups except at night and if the mother would do better about not drinking right at bed time and going potty last thing before bed, she wouldn't have those, but another story for another time. But yesterday I had her and she was in panites and I let her play with this easel and ink markers and stuff. She was having so much fun playing "school" and making "banners", she forgot about going potty. I forgot to remind/ask her. THen she says "I have to go potty", Usually I drop and run her in. But for some reason I didn't this time.. .was busy with something. about 10 minutes later she calmly said, "I'm standing her going potty" and sure enough she was. I think in this case she just enjoys the trip to the potty with me as I make a big deal of it to encourage her to go and get off diapers. I think she just missed that! Cause after she went, she started taking her clothes off saying "now I have to have a bubble bath cause I stink" So she isn't just fogetting, she just got overly interested and I didn't pay attention!
@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
7 Jan 09
THen if you know your problem is you, just give him formula in a sippy cup. ANd as far as the strawberry syrup goes - 1/4 teaspoon into 8-10 oz of milk is not enough to be concerned about and as I said, I have tasted it and can hardly taste the strawberry at all. I beleive it is just more that it is something she likes to do herself. She drinks plain milk just fine. If she don't ask specifically for pink milk, I just give her plain and she drinks it just fine. If 1/4 tsp of sugar is an issue.. better stop all cookies, candies,ice cream and juice boxes and other juice drinks, and most everything else as most everything else has more sugars in them that 1/4 tsp of this stuff.
• United States
7 Jan 09
He isn't ready to be broken of the bottle OR the formula, even though he's a week from turning a year old. I don't plan on trying to break him of either of them at the moment. I personally don't give my kids that much sugar anyways, they might get 1 dessert every couple of days. Other than that they drink plain milk, 100% juice, or sugar free drinks. I don't think kids need too much sugar, they have enough energy as it is.
• United States
7 Jan 09
It's not about breaking him off the bottle. I have 4 older kids who I took off the bottle without a problem, so I know how to do it. For me it's a matter of I don't want to. It doesn't matter to me if he's ready or not, I don't want him to lose the nutrients in the formula. Milk doesn't offer the same nutrients as formula does, and I don't think he gets enough from what he eats, so I want him to continue to have formula until he eats more table food. He's already been introduced to sippy cups and milk, and has been eating table foods for at least 6 months now. But I'm not ready to take the formula away. I would worry about giving your daughter the strawberry milk all the time. This may turn her off from drinking regular milk at all, and that would be horrible. Plus that syrup is full of sugar, it's nothing but sugar. Kids don't need anymore sugar than they're already getting. I just don't think putting any of that syrup in her milk everytime is healthy for her. It should be a treat for only once in awhile.
@gemini_rose (16264)
10 Jan 09
All three of my boys had no interest in formula milk or ordinary milk from around 5 months to be honest with you, once they started having food they did not want it and had water instead. With my daughter it was different from a year she went onto cows milk and she is still on it!! She does like water or juice but prefers to have a cup of milk and she will have that out of a sippy type cup.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
7 Jan 09
I started showing my two kids a sippy cup at the age of 6 months. By 9 months, they both were off the bottle and drinking from a cup. I kept them a cup of milk or juice out all the time. They were also eating very good by then. My daughter took all of her 4 kids off the bottle early too, and had them trained to drink out of a cup by then, also.
• United States
7 Jan 09
If he is drinking formula then that is filling him up so of course he is not going to eat. It is also important for babies not to have cows milk until they are atleast one year old. When my son turned one I bought lactose free milk at first and then slowly switched to whole milk. My two year old still takes a bottle whenever he feels like it. Usually before he goes to sleep. (Does not sleep with bottle in his mouth). Him having a drink whether in a cup or bottle really isn't going to hurt anything. I figure it could always be worse, I could be walking around with him still on the boob.
@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
7 Jan 09
Hi kats I wouldn't worry until you have to pack the bottle in a lunchbox for school My two were just the opposite. I used to jokingly say that I was going to have to pack my oldest one a bottle for school. He was so attached and not a good eater either. He didn't give it up unitl he was 2. Now the youngest one came along 7 years later and he gave it up on his own at about 10 months old. So go figure! All kids are different and trust you instincts, you know whether he is ready or not. I adopted my sisters baby and I got him at 11 months old and was afraid it would be too much change with everything going on so I waited and he gave it up at 14 months. None of mine were typical "book" babies! LOL Good Luck!
• United States
8 Jan 09
Is there a baby on the planet that IS a typical "book" baby? I don't know who writes those "books" anyways! Now I've never had an issue actually breaking the kids of bottles when the time came. My problem has always been potty training. I swear I thought I'd send each of my kids to school in diapers, and almost did. My oldest 3 weren't trained until after they were 3 years old. My toddler is now 2 and half and he's not potty trained. We tried it back this past summer but he wasn't ready. Every so often I get him to sit on the potty but he cries, so I stop. I'm not sure if I'll ever get him trained.
@sunny0806 (248)
• China
8 Jan 09
In the first 4 months my son's food is formula absolute. After then we give him some egg and pulpy food and fomula. After 1 year old he mainly eats food which is made alonely. Now he is 2 years old and he drinks formula (for stage 3)one time a day. I'll give him milk when he is 3 years old later.