Your girlfriend and her ex-lover in a room,what do you think just good friends ?  

i think anytime someone wants or doesn't mind being around their ex there are still feelings there for that ex. if i had a husband & came home w/his ex there i imagind we would have world war 3.

it can be possibe,they are only frind now,if you do not like it do just talk to her, but do not take any step without knowing whole situation ,talk to her then come to conclusion

I'm not really quite sure what the relationship between my girlfriend and her past lover actually is. I hope that they are good friends because me and her ex lover are pretty good friends ourselves. I think that we all need to forgive and forget and just all love each other because it's obviously the best way.

Ex lovers most certainly can be friends assuming they both want to be...I've remained friends with all my ex's except two (one because he was abusive, the other becuase i was abusive)...the others though, I've remained very good friends with..Why wouldnt I? I mean we were friends BEFORE dating so why should that stop just becuase dating didnt work out ya know...

If the two have children together there will always be a need for communication between them. However if they do not I'm not sure they can just be friends. I'm sure old feelings would surface at one time or another. It is alright for them to speak occasionally. However if it were my spouse and an ex I wouldn't want them to be spending a lot of time together. But I guess I would be OK with them speaking every once in a while as long as I am aware of it. Hiding things would definitely lead to other things I'm sure.

It all depends on the person if someone is my ex they are my ex for a reason I dont try and live in the past so they will always stay an ex. I love my partner I dont want to be with anyone else so for me I could easily be friends with an ex because i love my partner too much to want to be with anyone else, I mean surely if you cant be friends with an ex you couldnt be friends with anyone you might just find attractive? If someone is going to stray they will do so be it with an ex or someone new so like I say it all depends on the person and their morals!

I am going to be terminant on this subject. There is no possible friendship between man and women (unleast they are the couple!). Always, and I mean always, one of the two wants something else with the other. I tested it with my friends and is a very real thing. Eather he or she are interested in something more than friendship. Trust me, dont try it. And if you do, be clear from the start what are your intentions and ask the other person to be honest aabout his/her intentions.

Happy Mylotting, my friends (???)

I cant be with any of my ex (as in be involved with them) ever again simply because they are my ex and if everything was ok they would not have been ex but current. All of them turned out to be idiots. I still say hi to them I have had a drink with some we have called each other to see how we are or to congratulate each other on something but there is no feelings on my part and never will be. I love my husband and I would never cheat on him to me that is the lowest I can ever get.

Hi ronnyb,

I will be fine as long as the ex has a family and happy with her family but when it is the other way around, hmmm....I might not be comfortable thinking they had the past and temptations are everywhere! No matter if you trust your partner!

If I am in the situation, I will be uncomfortable and maybe talk to my partner about it, about my feelings so he knows also how to help me and he knows his limitations!

i dont know . maybe ur gf still love him. but dont be angry first, u must control ur emotion n ask ur gf what she n her x bf in room????????