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myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life 3 years ago

I have posted so many discussions over the past couple months about how I just want to find someone to date. I've also talked about Mr. FedEx and my massive "crush" that I've had on him for the past couple months. Well, I want to say thank you to all the friends who have took the time to read and respond to my discussions. I really appreciate all the wonderful advice that I have received from all of you.

Now, I have decided to keep doing what I have been doing and that is, going to the gym, taking the kids bowling, to the park, etc. Things of that nature. Well, last night another single lady that I work with and I took our daughters to bowl. We had a really good time and this lady bowls on a couple league so she knows many people at the bowling alley. Now, I didn't meet them all, but I did meet a few and it was nice to get out there and meet new people. Now, this lady also knows about my crush on Mr. FedEx who's name is Bobby, I don't think that I have ever mentioned his name. Now, when she got there, she teased me and said, "Hey...Bobby's sitting over there". But I played it cool, I said, "Yeah, I seen him" and that was that. So, I went about as if I didn't really care that he was there. He walked behind us and he pulled her hair or something when he walked by. I didn't say anything to him. When he walked back by I had turned my head around and he looked at me and waved, so I said, "Hi". I was proud of myself that I didn't try to get him to talk to us or for that matter expect or cared if he talked to us. After we started bowling, I see him looking down at our lane frequently, whether he was looking at my friend or me or all of us, I'm not sure, but it was good just to know that I got someone's attention without trying to do anything at all. I guess you would call it attention anyway. glare

But I just want you all to know that I had more fun last night than I have ever before. I got out, met new people, possibly got a little attention, and I did it all with my daughter there too. We are planning on doing it again soon, so who knows, maybe I will meet a nice guy hanging out at the bowling alley, you just never know.....

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. snowqueen2008 (4422)   3 years ago

I am delighted that you had fun! Also, remember, Good things comes to those that wait. Have a wonderful evening.happythumbup

Snowqueen


myLot reputation of 86/100. xhaylea (343)   ranked 8,471 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

i totally agree with you, and that quote is soo true! :D


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Well, I have been waiting for a very long time! But I am tired of looking, I want someone to look for me and find me. It has taken months for me to see this, but the light FINALLY went off in my head!!thumbup

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. xhaylea (343)   ranked 8,471 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

aww thats fantastic news, i hope you carry on this way, and its also making you be more outgoing and happy, and its also getting you and the kids to bond all together aswell, which is brilliant! you will soon gain your confidence, i can just see it now to be honest. I know i haven't responded on any of your other discussions but i know completely what you are going through with the going out thing, just carry on like this and your confidence will rise to an all time high! :)


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Yes, I feel I am and have gained confidence! I plan on gaining so much more!

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. veganprince (3402)   3 years ago

Well, hearing all that, I should say I am happy for you too. It is nice to have some inspiration each day. Makes everything lighter.


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Thank you very much!

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. celticeagle (15675)   ranked 481 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

Hey girl! I am certainly glad to hear how well you are doing with the Fed Ex guy. Bobbie huh? Cool. You keep doing what you are now and you will be a fit little cuter cutie by the end of the summer. Go girl! I am too emotional. I would be in grief over the whole thing. I just take things to much to heart. Darn it! Keep up the social aspect of all this too. Good for you!


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

I tend to take things too much to heart many times as well, but I'm keeping my chin up. If I never land Bobby, then maybe I will land another handsome man soon! Thanks!

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. tamarafireheart (13724)   ranked 408 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

Hi singlemommy,


Well you just never know, but don't try so hard to find someone, just have fun and be carefree and when you do meet someone it will be when you least expect it, have fun.


Tamara


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Well, that is my plan. Have Fun! Yup, I'm just going to have fun and I know someone is going to notice me when I'm not even paying attention!

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. lilybug (16923)   ranked 75 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

Ya know, I was beginning to wonder if this guy even had a name. LOL


Good for you! I am glad you had a good time last night. It is usually when you are not looking for someone that you find someone anyway. I think playing it cool with this Bobby guy is the way to go.


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Yes, I'm definitely, playing it cool. If he wants to come after me, then I'm there, but I'm also there for some other guy too if he is willing to come to me too!

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. Opal26 (14496)   ranked 378 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

Hey singlemommy! That's what I'm talkin'about! That's what ya
need to do! Go out with other single mommies! And you saw
"Bobby" too and he saw you having fun! That is so great! Keep
doing that! It makes all the difference! You keep up the good
work and you will find someone or they will find you! I told
you so! Be in the right place with the right people at the right
time! Just go out, be your self, with your kids and things will
happen naturally! Go singlemommy!


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Thanks! I'm definitely taking the nature route. I can't wait to do it again!

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. dragon54u (15679)   ranked 233 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

The main thing is that you had fun, you got to be around adults and have a few laughs. I need to do that myself, it's been a long time. The heck with Mr. Bobby, he'll never know what he's missing! Relax, have fun, do this kind of thing often and enjoy life. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

You are right! Bobby doesn't know what he is missing, but hey, it's okay because some guy is going to see something in me soon, I can just feel it!

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. OLIJULSAR (1063)   3 years ago

Sounds like you had a real nice evening. You really should have more of them and you will find out that whoever is out there for you will be easier to find when the time is right.
Friends before Lovers always makes a better foundation...don't ya think?


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Yes, I do want a lover who is my friend first.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OLIJULSAR (1063)  3 years ago

I wish you all the luck in the world and when this finally happens for you I pray that he takes you off your feet so fast you won't know what hit ya......LOL


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Me too! Me too! LOL

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. sudalunts (4245)   ranked 90 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

Sounds like you are on the road to start experiencing good and positive things. The bowling alley thing with your friend and daughter sounds like it was a lot of fun. That is what you have to do, get out meet new people, they introduce you to new people, and before you know it, something good can happen.
I am glad you did not go out of your way to get Bobby's attention. He saw you, and if he wanted to talk, he could have. Personally, I think he just enjoyed the attention you were giving him. Let him make the moves without you enticing him.
Glad you had a good time.


myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (1085)   ranked 137 out of 32,943 in life  3 years ago

Yes, I do think that he enjoyed the attention I was giving him a little too much, maybe that is where I went wrong with him. Now, I'm carefree, I'm there if he wants to give me a little attention and if he doesn't then so be it, I'm still gonna have a good time!

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