If you can go back to the past...

if i can go back to the past,i hope i will never do something wrong and make myself as perfect as i can .if i can go back to the past,i hope i could went to a better university rather than the one i was before .

when we talk about the topic,we may have so many srange and naive thoughts and ideas:),but there is no such a thing which is called time-machine,we can never go back to the past .

we live in a new and current life time,we need to look forward and do things well,we need to be full of confidence and hope,as long as we can do things independently and hopefully,we will never make ourselves disapponted .

Wow, I like these sort of questions, my mind runs away with me and I can think of so many! But I think I would definitely go back to 1998 and reverse a bitter decision I made which had dire consequences for me and it was a simple fact of saying NO instead of yes! You can't believe that a simple NO would have made so much difference in my life! It would have saved so much heartache, misery and regrets, but we can only look forward can't we, we can waste precious time wishing if only and having deep regrets, the decision was made at the time and cannot be changed, accept it and move on but I do get days when I wish I could change the past!

I would sure not go into my childhood cause my parents are divorced and that caused a lot of emotional stress. There was nothing I could fix about that.
But I would like to go back 10 years in time to where I met the love of my life. I would try even harder than back then to make that relationship a success (unfortunately about 7 years ago we broke up but I will never forget the year 1998 where we met first time).

I am not sure I would change anything in the past, because it would then change what is happening now. Each thing in the past has led us where we are now.

if i have an opportunity to go back to my past i will choose the time that my kids are still a baby that my hubby betrayed me.if i can go back to that time, i will not accept and forgive my hubby again so that i will never experience this kind of life that i have now.i forgave him that time beacause im hoping that he will change but im wrong.he still betrayed me so many times and if i didnt accept him maybe im sucessful now and happy with my life.

if i can have that time machine now, i will set it to the time that i am in college where my papa and mama are still alive. by then i will insist that they should watch their diet because my papa died at 58 and my mama at the age of 59 that was 3 years back and 6 years back respectively. its hard to loose both parents, so if i can get back the time i will tell them to take care so that they can live longer.

many regrets and pains we've been thru in our past... if maybe given the opportunity and chance to go back... id rather choose that time when my first boyfriend leave me... i would have atleast fight for it... but i didnt.. then look at what has gone to me now??? yes ive experienced alot and that makes me a more stronger individual but... still that but feeling of if only we didnt part??? would life be more wonderful??? i guess so and hope so... but thats life..regrets that may lie there forever...just for us to reminisce and remember how painful every detail of it takes!

Touche! I would definately go back and study my butt off and make school fun by actually doing what it is there for... learning. Today as an older person I love learning and am actually thinking of going back to college (20 years later!) but I really do love it and I am not going to let age stand in my way (since I don't have a time machine.

Great discussion

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Zelo

If I could go back in the past I would prob make sure I had a few guranteed stock picks. While that wouldnt have helped change any decisions I made in the past the money sure would help with future decisions lol.

I would go back to 1999.. and reversed a decision that I made based on believing a lie... a life wouldn't have shattered that day and a precious heart would have been saved from the hurt of being broken. I've never regretted anything in my life more... than that one day. I can't tell ya how many times I visit that day in my mind and helplessly watch it play out.