A difficult situation

I am sorry to hear about the situation I am not sure what advice you are looking for I think you should make her time the best she can and honor her wishes it sounds as it is terminal not something she will get over I believe when it is your time people know perhaps it is just her time so cherish whatever time you can and give her whatever comfort one can get Good Luck

That is so sad. I wonder why she has lost the will to live. I can only imagine the number of questions that are running through your heads. I suppose that if she has truly given up, all that any of you can do is make her as comfortable as possible and be there to comfort her and her husband. Sometimes, a person just knows that there time is nearing and gives up. Other times, people lose the will to fight thinking that they and everyone else is better off with them gone. Whatever the case may be, it sounds like she is too far gone to come back without medical intervention. That will likely not happen unless her husband insists on it.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I cannot imagine how hard this is for all of you.

That is sad. She must be depressed. Have they brought in a phychologist?

My good friend has colon cancer and a colostomy, plus walks with a cane and she is a fighter, living life to the fullest. She said that there is no way she will give up.

She needs to talk to people who have been where she is and have survived, too.

I will pray for her, if you can PM me her full name, I will also put her on a few prayer chains.

that is very sad, that she's given up and is wanting to die is really hard on the people that love her, I guess tho she cares more that she is suffering than the suffering she's causing them. Its hard on everyone around her, not just her family, because people like you care about her, and you care about your roommate.

That is indeed a very hard situation. I will include her mom and her family in my prayers. I may not know them but I believe that the Lord is working within them. God bless.

Why dont you admit her in hospital. It might be that she is depressed and thats why she is not eating.If you admit her in hospital, she will atleast be able live in stead of dying of food

Hi mcat19,


I am so sorry to hear that your roomate's mum is very ill, I will pray for all of you for healing and strenght to cope with it all.


Tamara

I am really sorry to hear about your roommate;s mom and how she must be feeling.
It is def a very difficult time for her now and i am really glad she has someone as sweet as you to be around her.
At this time all she needs is good people around her and prayers.
I will def pray that she is peaceful and that your friend takes it well.
Please ask her to keep her strenght and faith,

God bless

All you can do is be there for your roommate and your roommates family cause if your roommates mom does go then your roommate is going to need a really good friend to be there and you let your roommate that your there for her no matter what if you need any more advice i can help i went through alot of these i am sure alot of people has good luck hope everything turns out ok.

I think we need to pray for her speedy
recovery.