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myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all2 months ago

Nasty all the time, always giving off attitude for no good reason, one day they can be nice the next time you see them you can't get a hello shocked but as soon as something happens to slap them back to reality they call you crying and say why is this happening to me, I am such a good person I don't deserve this, oh really wow, I have someone like this in my life and it always amazes me when she calls me crying, wake up and smell the coffee, your attitude stinks, try being nicer to people and maybe things will work out for you, people need to realize karma is real, you reap what you sow, think about that next time you are nasty to others for no reason at all.

Do you know anyone like this? if so please share, people like this makes me really sick honestly.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20679)   ranked 20 out of 108 in not interested at all   2 months ago

hi kitty42 oh yes and that woman Emily fired me for being almost 80, she was up one day and loved all us employees, complimenting us all so flowery and sweet, the next day
she was down and angry and mad at anyone who came close
to her, complaining and bit#hing all the day. I found out
that she was bi-polar and refused to take her medications'
that would even her mood swings out.so she would go back'
and forth. One day she would be complaining and in tears, the next she was just bubbling over with joy. up and down. and
this person was the branch manager of our library. she was
utimately fired for firing me on ageism grounds. they asked
me to come back but I had had it. no more. 23 years was enough
anyway . I just retired.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

Wow, I never thought about that, could this be the case with my sister, she doe act like something is wrong with her, she makes me so sick my friend, we never got along growing up, she did some horrible things to me, I will talk to my mom and ask what she thinks.

My sister is a horrible person no one likes her, they only put up with her so she wont cuss them out, when my daughter was a month old she was in the hospital I would run home shower and go back while she slept, this day my mom was not home, I don't know what I said maybe said something like excuse me shocked and she started to fight me, thank god the door was not locked she picked up a stick and went for my head I started screaming help me, help me and someone came and grabbed her, thanks to her I could not feed my daughter that night when the nurse came to get me, my head was killing me I said I am so sorry can you feed her for me, the nurse said no problem, all they did for my baby was medicate or anything to the affect I took care of her personal needs, and my sister took that away from me, I was crying so bad because I wanted to feed my baby, the nurse gave me tylenol but it didn't take away the pain in my heart.

Thanks for sharing this my friend, if this is the case she can keep her bi-polar behind away from me, she makes me sick, this is just one example she is a devil.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20679)   ranked 20 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

hi Kitty my friend If your sister is bi=polar she
'should go to her doctor and get the medications
for this,as I have friends here who take the
medications and nobody would ever guess they
'are bipolar,they now act like normal human beings.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

She is so hateful my friend, I will tell my mom to talk to her, but I promise you she will say nothing is wrong with her, they only way someone will get her to take something like this is if they tied her down, she is really stubborn and unapproachable, I wish her well maybe something will work out, I will share this with my mom for sure, in her case I hope this is the problem.

Thanks my friend.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1950)   ranked 17 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hi Kitty my dear friend,
I worked with bipolar teen clients two years ago, i can relate with and all you examples and sharings. There is something in them that you really need to accept and understand. At times they are sweet but most of the time they are "nasty" and can really make your day. In moments like this... i tried to detach myself so that i will be be affected by their drama. It's really hard but they are undergoing certain processes that they themselves are having hard time to manage it.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4356)   ranked 2 out of 108 in not interested at all   2 months ago

Hi sweetie Kitty, we're here at the same time, but very briefly for me.

Yes I know someone like that but the bad side only came out after a year. I actually have no time for people who play the hot and cold game, I like consistency in a person and calmness. I don't want to wonder what the mood will be that day. So I've distanced myself from that person as especially when a child is around consistency is needed. Soneone can't make a big fuss of a child one day and the next ignore. It's a woman of course but I've seen moodiness like that in both sexes. It just doesn't fit well with me.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my wonderful friend happy

Well this is my sister and she is the worse, sometimes she will walk in the house and not even speak to my grandson and she does not see him that often, it breaks my heart because he is young he don't understand why he is being treated this way, all he knows is his aunt does not talk to him, its sad but I don't have the love I should have for her, yet when she is down she calls me and says why is this happening, go figure.

Thanks for sharing my friend.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. Misterwit (1044)   ranked 11 out of 108 in not interested at all   2 months ago

Hello kitty...

I see these kind of guys and it is often....they are not few I thinkconfused

They have exactly the same attitude toward people as you mentioned there...

I think these guys are proud.... they sometimes pretend they did not even don't know you and yet again they act as very close friends.. blink


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

I know guys like this as well, I stay away from them, I hate nasty people with a passion, there is no need to take your anger out on others, its not fair, then they act like they can do no wrong, these people make me sick.

I am very sensitive and my feelings get hurt very easily, I will never hurt anyone just because, I have my bad side don't get me wrong, but its always a reason when this side comes out, I don't feel bad when things happen to people like this, you nasty piece of crap, oh wow my friend, this bothers me more than anything else.

Thanks for sharing my friend.

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. greatsasuke (228)   2 months ago

I know people like this. Most of the people I know are like this. Just kidding. I have, however, run into a few in my life. I think we should take pity on them. They obviously have no control over their emotions and mind. They may even have some mental problem like being "bi-polar". Maybe the best thing to do is explain that the way they act is not in accordance with karmic law. They may not even know anything about karmic law. If they are still irrational after trying to discuss their situation in a civilized manner, then go ahead and slap them in the face. Just kidding..........the best thing to do would be to avoid them if possible. Let life keep teaching them a lesson and hopefully one day they will learn it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello happy

You are funny lol bi-polar could be the case its really sad, she has been this way all her life, I never thought of this ever, I just thought she was a nasty piece of crap, I hope this is what is wrong with her, need to read about bi-polar do they just label every nasty person this way, or is this really a illness, very interesting.

Thanks for the laugh.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4989)   ranked 16 out of 108 in not interested at all   2 months ago

hiya Kitty

I used to work with a woman like that and not surprisingly... she has no friends.
She wasn't running hot and cold, she really was nasty all the time, the way she looked at everybody, the way she spoke and not a nice word to say even at staff Christmas parties thumbdown I believe that we will reap what we sow, attitudes need to change.

Alice happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

I am reading responses about bi-polar I hope this is my sisters problem if so its sad because she always been this way, no one likes her, she would meet a friend and say to the friend in front of me, this is my sister now, the sister I always wanted, I say to the friend, you can have her shocked then a few weeks later her and the person is no longer friends because they see the side of her I know and hate. I am going to google bi-polar and share the information with my mom, I know my sister she will be offended if someone said this to her, oh well she needs help, even when she is nice its hard to take her seriously, how sad, thank god I am not like this, whew I couldn't live with myself.

Thanks for sharing, what a piece of work that woman was, grrrrr



myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4989)   ranked 16 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Maybe she was bipolar too! It's not something I had heard of until I joined MyLot and I keep forgetting about it. I do wonder though that this is going to be used to excuse everybody with a real bad attitude blink I hope your sister gets help for it if she does turn out to be suffering from it.

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6. Jigilmore (48)   2 months ago

Hi Kitty,

I don't really know where to start with this one...I have seen people that suffer from Bi-polar disease and it's really sad.
I think they feel already as if they have no one to turn to and as if they are constantly being judged...I have to wonder sometimes is it really that person's fault because they have a disease?
And maybe if I'm more loving toward the person maybe they can get better or would want to, if they feel like someone cares...I can't say that I would hate a person that acts like this (because their sick), but I would want to know why...Maybe they dealt with something traumatizing in their past and being this way is how they have learned to "cope".
I think It really depends on how you treat a person...people can tell when you don't like them...maybe if you can really take time out to sit with the person and get an understanding of what they are going through, you may understand why they behave the way we do.
Sometime I feel as if we live in a very judgemental world, sometimes we as humans don't give other humans a real chance.
I think the "hot & cold" concept is really based on how you treat a person, you can't treat someone bad and expect them to treat you good.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

Although this is a great response, this is so not the case for me, I never treat people bad, the person I am talking about is my sister and she has never been miss-treated she does this to people not the other way around, I am beginning to think this is the case, if she gets medication and change then I will change my feelings toward her, my sister is a terrible person, she has been this way all her life, me on the other hand I am good to everyone all the time, its hard to be nice to someone that likes to argue and fight, I choose to stay away from her, I really hope she has bi-polar really, being able to justify her actions will make a lot of sense, I read a little about it and it sounds like this could be her problem, I will tell my mom to talk to her.

So please don't take my words the wrong way, someimes a itch is just that a itch minus the b, I know what you are saying but this is so not the case for her, she is nasty and no one likes to be around her.

Thanks for sharing my friend.


Jigilmore (48)  2 months ago

Oh, I understand...that's a different story. If someone is just being nasty to others who try to respond to them, I think it's their own fault if no one likes them.
Mistreatment is not deserved by someone trying to be a friend...I would be upset in that type of situation also.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2706)   ranked 90 out of 108 in not interested at all   2 months ago

happy Hi Kitty. Oh yes, I think I know a few too many people like this, but fortunately, most of the people I know are truly good at heart! Thank God for that.

I refer to these as "toxic personalities" and spend as little (or NO) time as possible with such people.

Karen


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

But after starting this discussion bi-polar could play a big part in this, I only hope this is the case, some people are just nasty after reading about bi-polar it looks like my sister could have this, I just hoe this is the case, they have a pill for everything but its sad because some people are just nasty, or so I thought maybe there is no such thing, maybe every nasty person should be medicated who knows, seems to me nasty people do not exist they have bi-polar and that is that, after reading about it, it sure looks this way in my sisters case, I hope so for her sake, no one likes her, they don't want her to come in the stores in my moms neighborhood and these people know everyone in the neighborhood but they told my other sister to tell her to take her money else where, how sad is that. she did not tell her ofcourse, if she did she will go in there trying to fight everyone. shocked

Thank you my friend.



myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2706)   ranked 90 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

confused Hi Kitty...I have some very close relatives who've been professionally diagnosed as bi-polar. Nastiness is not a prevalent symptom, but huge mood swings from highs to lows and erratic, even dangerous to self behavior, are. Things like promiscuity, drug and other addictions, taking wild risks, over spending, rapid speech...those are at one end of the spectrum.

A deep depression and suicidal tendancies is at the other end.

Medication is a necessity for these people to function and feel worthwhile!

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9603)   ranked 6 out of 108 in not interested at all   2 months ago

I can't think of anybody I know like that and you can keep them! Yep it's karma. You'd think people would learn, but some just don't!


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

Well I lived with this person for years, but now I am reading this could be bi-polar related in this case I hope so, god knows she needs something to justify her nasty attitude, this is my sister by the way.

Be glad you don't know anyone like this, its really sad when you have to deal with people so nasty on a daily basis, no one likes my sister except friends she just meet, once they get to know her, they run.

Thanks my friend.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9603)   ranked 6 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

If she is bi-polar, it's possible that getting her on the right meds could help a lot. If she is willing. Good luck with it!


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

I am going to bring this to my mothers attention, knowing my sister she will be offended inturn will get defensive, I will tell my mom and she will know how to handle it, it wont come from me, unless I catch her when she is in a good place and on the phone not face to face shocked

Thanks my friend,

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2432)   2 months ago

Hi Take care my friend. Mike.kitty, I had a boss very similar to this, except she never rang me up crying, however some days, I was treated like a long lost friend, others I was ignored. She treated other sobordinates with contempt, and even though she presched "hands-on,' 'pro-active,' and 'eam player,', she was none of them. I got to despise thie person because, of the way she treated her staff. I could rant on all day here, in fact I wrote a novel using her as my main character. One day I may get it published.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

I think starting this discussion could actually be a good thing, I learned so much, never thought bi-polar could be the issue, maybe your boss has the same problem, my sister is terrible and no matter what she is just mean, even to kids, my niece hates when she is home all she does is yell at her, only nice when she wants her to do something for her, its terrible, when we take my grandson to see my mom and his cousins she will walk in the house and he will say hi and she wont speak, imagine he is 7 why would you act like that to a child, I said to her once it would be nice if you would say hi to people, her response was don't start with me I don't have time for this nonsense.I hope in her case she does have bi-polar it will still take me a while to get use to a change in her, but if meds will help her I am all for it, she needs something.

Thank you my friend.

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10. myLot reputation of 100/100. JenInTN (3630)   2 months ago

Hi kitty! I have known many people like that. I agree with you that they should stand back and think about the effect their actions and attitude has on others. I think that karma is very real too. Maybe one day they will get the picture.


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 3 out of 108 in not interested at all  2 months ago

Hello my friend happy

The discussion is about my sister, but I know others as well, reading the responses tells me that most of the people like this may actually be bi-polar I hope so in some cases, I still think some people are just mean and see nothing wrong with it, but who am I shocked my sister has been this way all my life, she tried to get her roomates dog to bite me, if not for the roomate he was heading right for me, I was so scared, just to think after all these years of dealing with her nasty attitude there is a chance medication could have helped, I hope in her case this is what is needed.

Thanks for sharing my friend.

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