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myLot reputation of 79/100. velentina (207)   ranked 4,156 out of 35,133 in people1 month ago

i am very afraid to talk to strangers specially men. Once i went for an interview in an unknown place. a stranger approached me to ask me where I was going. I was unwilling to tell him because he was drunk. as I did not reply he stated to abuse me. Fortunately some woman came to my rescue.......From now on I'm afraid to talk to strangers. It wasreally a bad experience for me..........

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 6,367 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

No im not really afraid to talk to strangers. Sometimes they can also help you whenever you have problems along the way like asking directions. But of course, it is important to distinguish between a dangerous stranger, and a helpful one. happy

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2. myLot reputation of 72/100. zui_strumming (238)   ranked 4,531 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

I'm not afraid to talk to strangers either.
You need to keep this in mind that the stranger you are about to approach has no pre notion about you.He does not know who you are.So its always safe to talk to a stranger than people you know.
You can about anyhow with this stranger. A known person would start comparing your now approach with the previous ones.But a stranger is making a whole NEW image of yours in his mind.
If the association with the stranger turns out to be good, then it is hunky dory but if not, who cares. He was just a stranger whom you are not going to meet again!
So its quite okay.
Don't be scared to talk to strangers.
Always challenge yourself and go ahead talk to people, they won't consume or kill you=)
You need to be very calm, patient and apprehensive before going up to a stranger.
And most importantly JUST be yourself.

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. don_naces (300)   ranked 8,503 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

It depends. If I am in the place where I am not familiar, I would be afraid to talk to strangers. During nighttime, I do not talk to strangers. In paces where I think I am more secured, I would talk to anybody.


shuijiao66 (31)   ranked 25,028 out of 35,133 in people  1 month ago

I agree with you.When entering a new place and finding so many strangers' face surronded you,talking to a stranger, which one looks friendly,will help you to be familiar of that place quickly.And maybe you will get a hand when you are in trouble.

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4. zapood (52)   ranked 16,588 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

I am very shy and afraid to talk to strangers.Sometimes I don't know how to communicate with other people.I even have some very bad experience.

Now I am having a little clothes store which I could meet more people.I hope that I could improve my communication skills very soon.

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (17909)   ranked 812 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

for the most part talking to strangers doesnt phase me really....in fact i'm usually fairly friendly..but there ahve been times when I've come upon someone that I didnt knwo who gave me an uncomfortable feeling...in cases like htat I just keep walking..

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6. myLot reputation of 28/100. ivbsav (184)   ranked 16,494 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

let don't become afraid by only your unpleasant experience. Still many stranger outside there not behave like 'the drunk' one above.

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. magic9 (353)   ranked 1,725 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

No, I don't. I don't feel it special to talk to anyone. No matter someone is from a higher social background, or low ranks, men or women, old or new. You know, everything depends on the particular situation. If someone is asking the way, or inquiring about certain information about local tourism, restaurant recommendation, I feel ease to tell them frankly.

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8. joshua1987 (10)   1 month ago

It can not be a horrible things to talk to strangers!
people get to know and became friends
with the following step stranger-acquaintance-friend-confidant
so make your self open minded and accept the new things
of course the self protection conscious was in prior

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9. myLot reputation of 73/100. vincyk (157)   ranked 5,380 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

I am not afraid to talk to strangers when it is refers to a passagers passed by.If i met the things you have melt maybe i will feel afraid of it because i thind a drunk man is quite dangerous.There are so many liers in the society and we must try to protect ourselves well.But the good person is whatever in a large number.Maybe next time you can first try to talk with a kind look stranger on the road to exersise yourself and after that you will find it's ok to talk with pepole you are not familiar with.

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10. pandawang (27)   ranked 31,376 out of 35,133 in people   1 month ago

I'm afraid of talking to strangers before,but now I'm not afraid of it at all.
I have tried to be a salesperson,a waiter,after several months' practice,I have enough courage to talk to strangers.
Don't care about your bad experience,forget it,you can surpass yourself.

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