If you thought another woman wanted your partner

I cam across that situation a few months back. It was nerve-wrecking. The thought that someone is pursuing your love is not something that I'd gladly want to fall on my lap once again.

What's worst was that there were two of them. Hadn't I found out about them, he never would have told me about it. I guess he was tempted to see if he could try having three women.

It was a sad sad moment for me, I truly feared I'd lose him over his stupidity. But I truly thought that he had gotten us in this mess and it's not for me to worry about that big bloke.

It was indeed a problem which took great toll on me. I'm glad he had fixed his mess and didn't do much damage, else I'm pretty sure I would never forgive him.

It's really not a good thing to experience that. Regardless how 'confident' you are or you may be with the relationship. You just can't be sure or over confident about it. He could just leave, and you can't do anything about it.

It was not the first time that someone showed interest to my wife, it happened many times in our long years together and I have proven her faithfulness and credibility many times so I'm not the least worried. She would not even entertain the thoughts. I can say it's the other way around too, after all these years I'm sure I have gained her trust to a level where she can be confident enough that I will not do something foolish.

enjoy!

I would not be worried about it. my husband has it good at home and he knows it, if he wanted the other woman so be it --good ridence--.
I would approach the woman and remind her that HE IS MARRIED and she will have a tuff time filling my shoes!!

I guess that I would not be very happy about it, but he's gonna do what he's gonna do. I would hope that he would stay with me, because he loved me but I dont really know what would happen in that situation. I would think if he went with the other woman he probably wouldn't be worth having anyway.

I wouldnt worry about it at all...For two reasons..#1 my hubby wouldnt be interested and #2 if he were then he could either share (assuming I'D be interested in her LOL) OR be off and on his way..I wuldnt want to be with a man that didnt want to be with me ya know...

Another woman did want my husband and she got him. It was my husband's high school girlfriend. She pursued him and finally got into contact with him and the rest is history. She even pretended to be my friend and we provided her son with shelter and food when he was looking for a job in our state. I was totally fooled.
She is a very religious person and refused to go to church until they were married--until then they "lived in sin". She still preaches to my grown sons about sin and they tell her to shut the hell up and quit being such a hypocrite. What a sl7t she is, what a piece of trash.
The up side is that the man I loved is now happy, or at least I hope he is. Everyone knew but me. I hate him, I love him. I hope that someday she gets her just rewards.
So watch out! Men are sneaky but women are even sneakier.
I'll never get married again, never be involved with another man. I hate them.

Hi jugsjugs! I would honestly say that i would not be concerned or really care. If he wants the other woman then he would find a way to be with her, and if he wants to stay with me then he will have no interest in the other woman. At one time i thought i had control over this very thing, but i learned the hard way that it is not my decision, it falls on his shoulders. All i can do is live with the decision he has made, and if he chooses the other woman, then i did not need him in the first place. Life is to precious to waste on someone who does not want to be with the partner they chose.

i know my man wouldn't go with anyone else,so i wouldn't be worried at all,my ex husband on the other hand was the complete opposite

We have faced that situation and I just shine that on, if he chooses he can leave
I don't want someone who doesn't want me or wants someone else more. I just will not play that game even if it does boost my Hubby's ego.

Share and spare what you like. This is what your elders had taught you isn't it?. Make life more funnier from your side atleast.