How Did You Chose your Child's (Children's) names?  |
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I've always been interested to know what kind of a process that people go through when naming their children. So if you would, could you please share your story.
As for me, I knew long before either of my children were born what their names would be. My first daughter was going to be named Kathryn Teresa after my great-aunt whom I loved dearly and after Mother Theresa who I was very inspired by as a teenager. My son was going to be named Paul after a dear friend of mine who passed away while we were in college. The middle name came later after I'd met my husband and knew that he should carry a part of his father's name so his name is Paul Thomas.
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1. KompitaPita (160) | 3 weeks ago | Hello, dorannmwin. I named my child Dimitar. This is my second-father's name. My wish was to name him Alexander - I love this name I don't now why, just love it and my wish was my first son name be Alexander, but I though that my father deserves it. And I named him Dimitar. But I promisse to myself that if and when I have another child/son/ I will name him Alexander.
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | That was very kind of you to name your son after your father. I would have named my son after my father as well, but my brother is a junior and if I would have named my son the same name it would have stepped on a lot of toes because he wishes to name his son after himself and after our father. However, if I was to ever have another son his name would be Patrick (husband's middle name) Michael (father's first name).
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2. froggieslover (1029) | 3 weeks ago | I think it is really cool how families will name their children with the same letter..like David, Diana and Daria. I wish I would of thought about that when naming my kids but I am still very happy with my childrens names. I have two children, a boy and a girl. I picked my sons just because I really liked the name and then his middle names(yes plural) were chosen after my grandfather and my uncle. My daughter is named after her father(my husband) it is just his name with an A at the beginning and at the end and her middle name is my grandmothers middle name. The only thing I hate about picking names is people that name their children seconds and thirds, it is one thing to be a senior and junior but after that I feel it starts to just get annoying...can you not come up with something a bit more original for this child?
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | My family has a long history of the 3rd's 4th's, etc. My uncle is a third and his son is the fourth. My brother is a junior and hopes to eventually have a son and him be the third. For me personally, I'm not even fond of juniors, that is why my son carries his father's first name as his middle name. If we were to ever have another son, that son would carry his father's middle name as his first name.
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mommyboo (3276) | 3 weeks ago | I think that is a very respectful idea to use a father's first name for a son's middle name - and it is also very confusing to be a junior or a II or a III. If such a thing were to happen to me (it doesn't apparently happen much with girls, just boys), I would likely change my name entirely lol.
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3. Seppy1984 (738) | 3 weeks ago | Hello, well for my children their names are uniquely put together. Well for my daughter her name is Breanna Nicole. Hers came about when I was with her father, I have always liked the name Nicole and I could not get him to agree with the name of Jasmin Nicole, So he decided on the name of Breanna and I grew to love that name through out the pregnancy. Now for Breanna's brothers name well that was picked from their father and not me. But his name is David Anthony JR. I did not want a JR or at least not after him but I being young at the age and he being abusive I did not want to piss him off. I really wanted Davids name to be Jonathan Steven. Now that I am in a better relationship with a man that is my husband and who respects me, things was easier to name my future children. We have 2 wonderful boys together. Their names are very special and dearly close to us. Our son Kenneth got his name from his grandfathers. My dad's middle name is Kenneth so that is how he got his first name and he got his middle name from my husbands dad's first name which is William. So there for his name is Kenneth William. At least this way he will be having history in his name. Our youngest boy well his name was a debate name since the minute we knew what we were having. My husband wanted him to be named after him and I said I did not want another JR because I already had one and plus the name Aaron is getting popular and I liked the name Jacob Aaron but my hubby did not like it. So we decided that we would keep Jacob as the first name and so we tried everything we could for a middle name and then my hubby said why don't we give him my middle name as his middle so that he will be having history in his name too. So his name is Jacob Ernest. Ernest is after his daddy's middle name and his great grandfather's first name. But that is the story to how we came up with the names of our boys and how I and my ex came up with my first 2 children's names. I hope that you enjoyed this response.
Happy Mylotting
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | Great story about how you named your children. I was lucky with my husband in that he didn't care that I'd chosen my future children's names before I'd even met him. I know that there are a lot of men out there that do want to have a very active part in naming their children, like my brother for example. If my oldest niece hadn't been a girl, he wasn't going to let that baby be a junior because at the time he was having a lot of problems with his girlfriend, now my sister-in-law, but he did want to give a name with history so that baby's name would have been Noah Issac (middle name would have been our great-grandfather's middle name). As it stands now, they have two little girls and both of their names were chosen out of baby name books, Lilliana Grace and Kaylen Abigail.
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Seppy1984 (738) | 3 weeks ago | Oh my goodness I love the names that they picked for the girls names. They are so cute and very well put together. I will agree with you on with the fathers being active in the children's names being picked. I think it is nice when some fathers do want to help with the children's names because I know that there are some father's that can give a less crap about what the name will be. I am glad that you came up with this discussion because I really enjoyed telling my story.
Happy Mylotting
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | I was so interested to hear about other people's stories mainly because I know that I wouldn't bend on the names I'd chosen for my children and wondered if there were other people like I was.
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4. Slurpiee (100) | 3 weeks ago | The whole time I was pregnant my husband, mother-in-law, and I argued constantly over what to name the upcoming baby. We went though several names not agreeing on anything at all. The only thing we did agree on was her middle name was to be Shae. A month before I was due we kind of agreed on Constance Shae, but little did I know that there was a secret plot. Finally the day came and the baby was coming. After 27 1/2 hours of hard labor I gave birth to a 7lb 14oz girl. There I was exhausted and they brought me the papers to name her. My husband then stated that him and his mother thought Hailey Shae was more appropriate and would suit her more. I was tired and figured I would give in. So that's how she became Hailey.
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solared (844) | 3 weeks ago | Name power struggles, thats a cool story, wonder if anyone else had that happen to them. guess you gotten used to the name by now.
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paintswithwords (242) | 3 weeks ago | That is so funny. My first child was a boy, my hubby had already split on me. So I had picked names that I wanted for the child. In those days we did not know whether it was a boy or girl before giving birth. I had chosen the name Shawn Michael if it were a boy. Like you I had been in labor over 24 hours and was quite weary after my son arrived. Family starting coming in to see me and of course the name was a topic brought up quickly. When I stated that his name would be Shawn Michael my brother jumped on me. That would be too feminine a name for a boy he said. Shawn would get him teased in school and bullied. I was too shocked and much to tired to argue. I tried to think of another name. I had been very fond of a drummer of the day named Duane Eddie. So I opted for Michael Dwayne. You see, I did not realize the spelling for my favorite drummer was Duane. To this day my son reminds me that the other spelling would have been preferred.
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | I can't believe that despite the fact that you'd agreed on a name they changed it on you. I don't think my husband would have it in him to change my child's name at the last moment. He's just too easygoing to do something like that.
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mommyboo (3276) | 3 weeks ago | This is why I believe it should only be up to the mother and father of a baby what to name the baby. Nobody else gets a say, sorry. This is why some people I know won't even discuss it or tell friends ahead of time lol. Even if we had told people ahead of time, I wouldn't have bent on it. I think it is horrific that any in-laws or grandparents even think they have a say at all!
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| 5. evalotta (11) | 3 weeks ago | I am born and raised in another country and for me it was important to pick names that originated there. I also wanted to use family names. So all my girls have 2 middle names that came from someone in our family. Either a grandmothers, sisters or mothers.
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | I really like the fact that you kept your heritage in mind when you named your children. Thank you for sharing.
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| 6. tambrerocks (94) | 3 weeks ago | All of my children were named after family members and their second name something I liked at the time. Keep everyone happy.
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | That was a great way to go about your children's names. It is neat that you were able to combine keeping the family happy and keeping yourself happy.
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7. dracoserpintenes (236) | 3 weeks ago | well the main contemplation of my baby's name was spent during sleepless nights and based partially on initials. my initials currently spell sas and when i marry my fiance they will become sad but thats ok it doesn't bother me. so we decided to give the baby his dads last name from the start so we don't have to change it later which might be confusing for him. well i'm not a Christian but i decided i wanted his initials to be god and we both wanted to give him an unusual name because i know like 7 Jessica's and 5 Sarah's and i didn't want that to happen with any of my kids. so on those sleepless nights wed sit on the computer going through baby name websites and Wikipedia looking for interesting g names and d names. we also decided to have one name that was a gods name in the names too which is where wiki came in. and at the time we didn't know weather he was a girl or boy so we were looking for both. and in the end we decided on the names Gage Odin and Gaia Omega which both flowed nicely and were unusual when we have a second my fiance wants to make the initials out to be lsd but thats partially because he had a bad guy past and his mom who died when he was young was named Lisa and i can forgive him wanting to name our girl after her even if it is pretty common.
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | Believe it or not, it was never what the children's initials would spell that made a difference to me. However, I laughed so hard about you saying that he wants LSD for the initials on the second.
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dracoserpintenes (236) | 3 weeks ago | i didn't think of it till we were thinking about names but i had to take advantage of the opportunity when it appeared to me. and i'm glad i made you laugh:D if i can make one person laugh a day i feel iv'e done my job.
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8. cher913 (13328) | 3 weeks ago | well, i had a friend whose sister's name was leah and i just loved that name! my hubby picked leah's middle name which is kirsten. my hubby named our youngest daughter hannah, after an aunt whose name was johanna (in german the jo is pronounced 'yo') and we dropped the yo and named her hannah. i picked her middle name which is emily.
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | That is cool that you and your hubby were able to split naming your daughters. They are both beautiful names too.
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9. caragh2608 (1007) | 3 weeks ago | My partner and I couldn't agree on names. With our daughter, I wanted what he called "hippy names" (nature names). In the end, I chose several names from a book and he finally agreed on Caragh, which means friendship or loved one according to the book (in Irish). Her middle names, Lynn and Janette, are our mothers' names. With our son, we were going to choose a Jewish name, for my partner's family, but we didn't like the same names. I liked Marias, but other family members didn't. We argued over and over, til one afternoon in the pub, I said I would let Caragh choose. She was just over a year old. I gave her the baby name book and told her to open it and choose a name. She opened it and pointed to Riley, which I had suggested before and my partner didn't like. But when it was HER idea, he loved it! His middle names are Sandor and Brian - after his paternal grandfather (who escaped a concentration camp in the war and is more or less my partner's hero) and my father, who is definitely MY hero 
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | I love both of your children's names Caragh is a name that I've never heard, but Riley is a name I've heard very rarely but one that I really like none the less. Our family is strongly Irish so I have one niece that has an Irish name, Kaylen and I have a cousin with an Irish name, Brynn.
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| 10. nicole8556 (7) | 3 weeks ago | I don't have any neat stories. I am one of the few who does not like using family members names. Our last name is short (4 letters) so I like longer first names, if possible. I ended up with: Nicholas Joseph Brian Andrew Matthew Cameron Taylor Samantha Connor Riley Brady Aidan Caden Liam Noah Ryan (yes I broke the rules with this one) Madison Alyssa
I was running out of boy names I*loved* when I had Noah..I wasnt even sure of the name but I decided during labor..and he's definitely a "Noah":)
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dorannmwin (1660) | 3 weeks ago | I've heard of people that didn't even think about baby names until the baby is born. I couldn't even begin to imagine. All of your children have very strong names though.
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mommyboo (3276) | 3 weeks ago | I don't like using family members' names either. History is not always what you want to give your child lol.
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