United States • Age 62
Joined myLot 13 years ago
It's never goodbye... it is just "see you later."
firecracker @sacmom (14250) • United States 8 May 11
I took my youngest to his favorite restaurant yesterday. We would have taken the food to the park that was nearby, but as it was a bit chilly outside we decided to eat inside of the restaurant. The restaurant is small, but the...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 27 May 11
I can read all the discussions posted in mylot but the weird thing was I can't log in to mylot while I could easily logged in to other sites without any problem. It was so frustrating not being able to participate in the...
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Dday50627 Hugsssssssssss, hugs and more hugsssssss for you. Welcome back, dear lady. I stopped coming here when I stopped seeing you post. I wondered of your demise and sent mail that went unanswered. You know where I am so drop me a letter. MyLot is better for having...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 17 Dec 10
I read a great deal of interesting discussions in mylot and responded to those I can relate well as I am super active here and is able to mylot for long hours a day without getting bored. Mylotting has become my routine and who...
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Dday50627 Hello dear Lady... Though my health issues have kept me from being as active here as I would like to be, I still follow your writing daily. WHen I see something I feel truly compelled to respond to, I do so. As I read this this morning, I felt for certain...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 2 Nov 10
This doesn't happen to many social sites but this particular social site that functions similar to mylot has the most sarcastic admin and moderator. The only difference here is their admin also participate in posting discussions....
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Dday50627 Hello dear Lady. Hugssss... It would seem that there is a fine line that administrators need to walk. they are there to "moderate." thier purpose is not to impose their own persnal thoughts to discussins but to be sure that no discussion gets out of hand or...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 8 Oct 10
Falling in love online has become a reality in today's modern world. Regardless of whether they are single or committed, young or old, love finds no boundary. Thanks or no thanks to the internet who have made it possible for the...
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Dday50627 Your words have compelled me once again to write. I watch each and every post you place here and revel in the thought provoking moments you bring to me. I have no secret to this "MyLot" that both your writing and You as a person are deeply dear to me. You have...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 4 Oct 10
Do you still hold on to this marriage vows which has a universal meaning to all married couples regardless of their religious beliefs. [b]To love, to hold and to cherish, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse, till...
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Dday50627 I have not been here in a long time but as usual, your question has inspired me to write. The very essence of marriage vows was to make a promise of faithfulness and caring from both partners for life. It was said before God and witnesses so that no one could...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 11 Aug 10
I miss home. I am counting days now to go back home after spending well over 2 months in down under and I think I have enough of a long vacation here. No doubt I have enjoyed my stay here in Queensland and like this place very...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 30 Apr 10
Mylot is far reaching and we have people from different cultures in mylot village. I believe that a lot of the miscommunication we have here are entirely cultural. Both sides have viewpoints that come entirely from the cultural...
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Dday50627 Worthy of the ladies reputation that wrote this, again, you draw me out of hiding with your discussion. Thank you for that, sweet lady.Let me start with your question of why some view their own words to be better, more correct than anothers. Most that scream...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 15 Apr 10
Ghost stories that we see in movies are only stories but that can happen in our real world. At the mention of ghost or demons, a chill ran down my spine. And now I am being challenged with the real demonic activity that is...
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Dday50627 As always, a very interesting and thought provoking discussion from a darling lady... And how do I respond??? I Believe!!!!!!!! I often though wonder why we call them ghosts? What we see as "ghosts" we Know to be the "spirits" of a soul allowed for reasons we...
19 Apr 10•
zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 1 Apr 10
Everyone must have experienced once or few times to be deeply in love and what love has brought to their life. The joy and happiness is unfathomable! I believe if you have it, you really don't need anything else. If you don't no...
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Dday50627 And again, you bring out a discussion worthy of the beautiful lady that lies with-in. True Love... something that many go through their entire life and never find. How sad, really. Though there ARE a lot of sayings that go with true love, when one finds this...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 24 Mar 10
The family institution is facing a critical challenge to its very existence, and so the question that first needs to be answered is: What is the purpose of the family? It is often said that the family that prays together stays...
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Dday50627 As always, your discussion both intrigues me and causes me to smile at the educated thoughts that you portray here. You are in-tune to life and the events that change and mold us and I find you to be a most fascinating lady. This topic has been on my heart...
24 Mar 10•
zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 11 Mar 10
Well meaning friends are a constant reminder that I am no longer a spring chicken when they keep sending humorous jokes to my emails pictures of wrinkled old women and jokes about old age which keeps me in high spirit and easing...
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Dday50627 As I have always come to expect from you dear one, another wonderful question left to be answered. You posts still cause my mind to be stirred and come to life. I Thank you for that. I think that as you mentioned, we age because of Life. The things we eat...
12 Mar 10•
zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 16 Jan 10
Heart is not only a vital organ in our body that pumps blood and nutrients to all tissues of the body but it is the storehouse of our emotions. They are people who have big hearts and they abuse their hearts by giving them away...
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Dday50627 I pondered for a long time before deciding to write on this discussion. How volatile a discussion while at the same time being very much a tender subject to broach. You speak here, sweet lady of people that possess so much love that it over flows into every...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 11 Jan 10
Divorce..it is easy said then done. Marriages have become so fragile these days and many people have named today's marriages as 'Hollywood marriages' in reference to the style of the hollywood stars whose marriages rarely reach...
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Dday50627 This, sweet lady is a very complex discussion. One that is sure to have opinions on both sides of the fence. Why? Because it is not simply a domestic issues for some but also a religious issue. Many churches teach and fully believe that to divorce is a sin and...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 3 Nov 09
Dating online used to be an unknown pastime to many people especially to those who were born in my era. Internet was never heard of and couples dated in cars parked in secluded areas without care of mosquitoes feeding on their...
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Dday50627 On line dating... A very interesting and controversal discussion. Though the internet would like to take credit for the "distance" dating, it started long before Bill Gates opened our "windows" and let the world into our living rooms. Known as Pen-pals, people...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 29 Oct 09
Sometimes being smart just isn't enough. We are the products of our parents and we carry their genes that determines the level of our intelligence. My parents are simple folks that possess average intelligence but with sheer...
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Dday50627 Just exactly the kind of discussion I have come to expect and appreciate from you. You are right in that there is such a huge difference in smarts and intelligience. To be book smart alone is fine. It will get you jobs that someone else perhaps can not aquire...
30 Oct 09•
mrsbrian @mrsbrian (1950) • United States 28 Oct 09
An acquaintance recently lost his job, and we invited him and his wife to move into our home on a temporary basis. We all agreed they would live with us until one of them found another professional position. It's been only three...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 31 Aug 09
Sometime during your life you are faced with making tough decision. You know, the kind you never want to make, that make you unsure which is the best way to go. You receive a health diagnosis that requires serious measures and you...
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Dday50627 Life is filled with tough decisions. Daily we must make choices that will effect our lives, often until we leave this earth. Sometimes, we have to make decisions in a short time, not allowing for time to think about what you are doing or the long term effects...
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zandi458 @zandi458 (28124) • Malaysia 2 Aug 09
The man at home, the stay at home daddy, the work from home dad and finally, the househusband are just some names that we have for this particular group of daring men who have taken that bold step to go where few men have gone....
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