Rafikiki

@Rafikiki (21)

Denmark • Age 42

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Do you ever get a song stuck in your head?

uicbear @uicbear (1900) • United States 22 Jan 09

Come on sing it with me now, "If you're happy and you know it clap your hands...." I don't know why my co-worker said this today, she didn't even sing it, but that's all it took. For the rest of the day, I kept hearing it in my...

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Rafikiki Haha I know exactly what you mean. I often have a song stuck in my head. And thanks for making me have "if you are happy..." stuck ;p

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Do You Know the Difference Between Happiness and Joy?

Deborah L. Alten @gtargirl (5376) • United States 22 Jan 09

So, I ask you this question because I would love to read your thoughts on it. So, to me happiness is very temporary. It's an emotion, I guess, that would depend on something external that would bring a smile to my face. Joy is...

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Rafikiki I totally agree with you. Happiness is for a short / shorter while. Like if someone makes you laugh or you having a good time. Joy is a state of might. If you are truly happy with you life, family, ect...

23 Jan 09

The results of posting 100 posts yesterday

cripfemme @cripfemme (7698) • United States 22 Jan 09

First off I'd like to clear up some confusion. My assistants type for me because I am disabled. I answer all the questions myself; I just dictate. It's not some way I'm using to get around the Mylot rules. They also help me with...

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Rafikiki Wow 100 in one day - and 2.38$ that's really nice for one day :-) Sometimes I write alot too, depends on my mood and time. I think it's great you get your assistant to help type. I once worked as a helper, and I typed e-mails and stuff too after dictation -...

23 Jan 09

It took me 15 years to learn to drive

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Jan 09

but I did pass my driving test first time. The length of time was due to the fact that everyone time I started to learn I became pregnant and my husband said that I couldn't learn to drive whilst pregnant, and I had a lot of...

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Rafikiki Uhh not nice. I guess you just have to keep driving. The more experience you get the more you learn. The problem is that we forget. Often it's the man driving I guess that could mean something too..

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Sunrise...Sunset?

HansonFan @HansonFan (1653) • United States 22 Jan 09

Which do you like better, watching the sun rise or watching the sun set?I like to watch the sun set. The colors always seem to be prettier and its the end of one day with the new day coming right around the corner. It gives me a...

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Rafikiki Both are beautiful I must say. However, I think there is something extra special and romantic about sunsets... Especially on a warm beach far away from home... Umm dreaming myself away :-p

23 Jan 09

Do you treat yourself?

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 23 Jan 09

When was the last time you treated yourself to something nice, like a "New Outfit", "A Day at the Spa" or a little trip just to get out of town? When I quit smoking which was 10 month ago I told my honey I will buy myself...

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Rafikiki I just bought a new outfit for myself yesterday. My fave store had a big sale. I mostly treat myself with clothes. I would like to try a spa or wellness center but have not gotten to it yet. Anyone tried it?

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Snow - An End to Style?

GreenMoo @GreenMoo (11833) 22 Jan 09

It's snowing here today. Not thick heavy settling snow like I'm sure some of you in colder parts of the world have, but snow none the less and I'm COLD. I'll let you into a secret if you promise not to tell. I have a pair of...

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Rafikiki It's snowing here today also. However, it's never cold enough for the snow to stay on ground - sadly for the kids! I think that the really windy days can feel even colder than snowy days. But it also depends on the type whether it is like a snow storm or just...

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How long did you date before you got married?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 21 Jan 09

I met my husband in June of 2000, and got engaged around November of the same year. We didn't get married until August of 2002. We probably could have gotten married sooner, but I wanted to convert over to my husband's...

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Rafikiki I have been with my boyfriend since 2001 and I don't plan to get married the next years. However, it depends on you age - I was young when I met my bf. I guess it's not about years it's about how you feel. When it feels like the right time for you you...

22 Jan 09

How was your honeymoon…

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58673) • Delhi, India 21 Jan 09

One of the dearest friends here recently started a discussion about memorable moments of our wedding. It was quite an interesting discussion and was included in mylot digest. Taking a clue from her discussion, I am going a bit...

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Rafikiki I not married yet - but I would like to go to some place special Mexico, Hawaii or somewhere in the East - like Malaysia or something. Any good ideas??

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Only child or many siblings?

angeltrhix @angeltrhix (279) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

I don't know hows the feeling having so many siblings in the family and only child. I have two siblings one boy an one girl, and I'm the eldest. It's really hard to be an eldest because sometimes when my siblings fought I can't...

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Rafikiki I am an only child. Sometimes I would have liked to have siblings to share life with. However, it's also hard to imagine to "share your parents" when you are an only child. There's advantages and disadvantages at both situations. Whatever you are it hard to...

22 Jan 09

How many PTC sites have actually paid you?

snam23 @snam23 (3157) • United States 22 Jan 09

I have only been paid by a few. I have discovered the hard way that there are more scam sites than legit and paying sites. Here is my list: Neobux ($2.23) Orangebizs (5 times) Perfectbux (high transaction fee) OccupEx...

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Rafikiki SOme years ago I was member of several PTC's which did pay. But I feel that the entire Paid To industry is slipping away. To make fake sites these days... sadly

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Did You Name Your Children After Anyone?

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 21 Jan 09

I didn't name my daughter after anyone, but I did name my son after my sister. Her name is Meshalia (pronounced, Ma Shay La). We have always called her Shay for short. I decided to let my daughter pick out my son's middle name and...

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Rafikiki I don't have kids yet. In my country it'd not normal to name your kids after somneone - but I might consider it. For example after my grandparents or so. That might be nice, honor their memory..

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Have you traveled alone?

bubblyapple @bubblyapple (2653) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

I have just read an article for SOLO travelers. They are offering tips on how solo travelers could enjoy their vacation on their own. I haven’t really travelled to a totally different place alone. The most I did is traveling alone...

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Rafikiki I have never travelled alone. Always with family when i was younger. And now it's with friends or my boy friend. I wouldn't like travelling alone - the main part of vacation for me is sharing the new place in the world with someone I love. Then you have...

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I had a fight with my girlfriend last night,sigh...

ktosea @ktosea (2026) • China 21 Jan 09

it's awful,now she is still mad at me and I am depressed too. Last night when we were shopping,she keeped on buying some luxuries which I can not afford,the money in my pocket have already been had plans and I don't think it's a...

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Rafikiki Sorry to hear. I know it can be hard but you have to talk it out. Staying mad is not good or healthy for any of you. It just get's worse the longet you wait. Good luck to you :-)

22 Jan 09

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Mail

tracie1758 @tracie1758 (507) • United States 22 Jan 09

I hate when I get the wrong mail delivered to my house. We have been living here over 6 months now and they still deliver mail to us that belongs to the previous people who lived here. How hard is it to fill out a change of...

change of address

mail

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Rafikiki I know what you mean.. It's annoying! But I guess there's nothing to do but return. It's better when it's just you next door's mail then it easier. But yeah, fill out the form! Doesn't people care about their mail? :-/

22 Jan 09

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How many myLot tabs do you have open at once?

SusanShayAvon @SusanShayAvon (1003) • United States 21 Jan 09

At the moment I have three tabs with myLot open. I am using one of them to start this discussion, one of them to respond to a discussion, and another to look for more discussions to respond to. Plus I have a tab open for my e-mail...

mylot

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Rafikiki Depends... Normally like 5-10. I find some nice discussions and I answer them all before opening more taps.

22 Jan 09

Your best friend's girl makes a pass at you ,what do you do ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 22 Jan 09

Disclaimer: This is purely hypothetical, it has never happened to me nor will I intentionally pursue any such relationship, just thinking out aloud. That said ,what would you do ? Would you think I could give it a shot and he...

best friend

friendship

my best friend

my girs infidelity with my best friend

worms

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Rafikiki Kindly pass.. Tell the persons it's not right. I would tell the friend, as it seems there must be problems in their relationship if the girl makes a pass at you. And when it's you friend it's even more important to take the high road - otherwise all three...

22 Jan 09

Case Sensitive

Amber @AmbiePam (97961) • United States 20 Jan 09

Don't you hate it when you type something in, and you get a screen that says you put in the wrong password or username? Because so many sites are case sensitive, it seems like I have to go back and unlock the Caps key. Since I...

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Rafikiki I know what you mean.. It's annoying! However, once you have your on pc and it remembers you passwords it's not that bad.

21 Jan 09

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