bananachoked

@bananachoked (16)

Philippines • Age 48

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Terrorism in our midst

bananachoked @bananachoked (16) • Philippines 11 Jan 07

A triple bomb explosions rocked three major cities in Southern Mindanao in the Philippines (Kidapawan City, General Santos City, and Cotabato City) just as the leaders of ASEAN member-countries were starting to gather in Cebu, a...

moro islamic liberation front

please write your favorite sings lyrics

sungat @sungat (1015) • Pakistan 6 Jan 07

my favorite songs lyrics is given below. over and over i look in your eyes you are all i desire you have captured me i want to hold you i want to be close to you. i never want to let go i wish that this night would never...

lyrics

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bananachoked One Hello If your not afraid, what of what love brings then endings are begenings of beautiful things It's a chance, you take a chance you make if someone's gonna find you first you gotta let him in cause love begins with one hello the hardest...

7 Jan 07

My depression is killing my marriage.

Peaches1122 @Peaches1122 (470) • United States 6 Jan 07

I am deeply in love with my wife of 2 years. She is my soulmate. I am in a deep depression since I lost my job a few months ago. I am not doing a good job of dealing with this depression. I am on meds but maybe they need...

depression

marriage

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bananachoked It is kind of touching to know that while you are depressed you still managed to consider the situation of your wife. This is an example of denying oneself of something. I am impressed because some people who are depressed often forget about anything or...

7 Jan 07

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Is Domestic Violence a Learned Behavior?

Deane_2005 @Deane_2005 (1644) • Philippines 5 Jan 07

According to Catholic Charities "Domestic Violence defines as any kind of behavior that a person uses to control an intimate partner."(Catholic Charities) It occurs in every community and Pyschological research identified that...

domestic violence

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bananachoked I don't think it is appropriate to use the line "learned behavior" in reference to the behavior that might stem from a violently-filled home environment. I guess it would be unfair to a child, for example, to say that he had learned violence from his...

5 Jan 07

Love me or leave me alone!!!

ilvrshn @ilvrshn (463) • United States 3 Jan 07

How long are you willing to be with someone in a relationship before you tell them to marry you or leave you alone? Are you willing to be in a committed relationship, doing everything that married couples so anyway for 7 plus...

friendship

love

relationships

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bananachoked if only gays are allowed to get married in the Philippines. Sigh...

4 Jan 07

Random Thoughts #1 - Suicide

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 3 Jan 07

"Sometimes you wake up afraid to live"... There are plenty of topics on here about suicide and of course I respond to them because truth be told I'm very passionate about it...it is a very key and personal thing in my...

depression

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bananachoked suicide is brave act of making a choice. I would like to agree that this is our life and we should have the option about what to do with it. I mean, whether we like what we are getting or not. It is more than being depressed and alone and having no one to...

4 Jan 07

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Is your family close?

nikkiwith @nikkiwith (1074) • Australia 15 Aug 07

I envy the "BIG" families. Usually with a background of Italian or Greek, these families are close with all their family members! Cousins, Uncles, Aunts, and even second cousins! They all stick together and help each other out...

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bananachoked I envy the "BIG" families. Usually with a background of Italian or Greek, these families are close with all their family members! Cousins, Uncles, Aunts, and even second cousins! They all stick together and help each other out when in need. I would love to be...

15 Aug 07

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4 people

Today is not only the Christmas!

lolily @allisonwish (464) • Shenzhen, China 25 Dec 15

Just realized that today is not only the Christmas, but also The Little Match Girl freezing to death 169 anniversary. In childhood, I just think it is a fairy tale, but now review this, I have the different feelings....

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bananachoked Just realized that today is not only the Christmas, but also The Little Match Girl freezing to death 169 anniversary. In childhood, I just think it is a fairy tale, but now review this, I have the different feelings. Although it is a fairy tale, but it...

25 Dec 15

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Jason Mraz

NinjaRossi @NinjaRossi (334) • Philippines 2 Dec 06

Jason Thomas Mraz (born June 23, 1977) is an American singer-songwriter, born and raised in Mechanicsville, Virginia, a suburb of Richmond. Mraz is an eclectic artist with multiple and varied stylistic influences, including...

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bananachoked I have never known a song writer so talented he can actually weave words flawlessly as Jason. Truly, Jason is a gem.

1 Jan 07

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Which is more that matters to you-Economic Stability or Environmental Protection

bananachoked @bananachoked (16) • Philippines 19 Dec 06

Countries like the Philippines is an eye-catching paradise for foreign investors who are just willing to pour in huge millions of capital for the extraction of minerals. Australia, for one, is present in various mining sites in...

imporatance of studies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

nakul2222 @nakul2222 (5) • India 18 Dec 06

in todays world how imp. are studies for one.......why does one need to study if he dsnt want....why it has become so forced intrest tht one has to study no matter wat...well thr are feilds one can enter into widout having a poper...

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bananachoked The world is cruel for the less educated, how much more for the uneducated. With an attractive educational background, your chances of getting good paying job is big. and you are probably be assured for whatever else that you want if your attractive...

19 Dec 06

Children who are abused..do you think they will be abusers?

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 6 Dec 06

Tell me your opinion please..Do you think children who are abused will grow up to abuse their children..if they should marry and have children? Do you think it is possible for someone who has been abused to become something in...

child abuse

children

teens

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bananachoked it is most likely to happen, especially if the crime is left unresolved. The victim has to make ammends, it is a must, to himself/herself and to person who abused him/her. the victim has to go through conselling to remedy the pain and the trauma; for that...

7 Dec 06

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Help me to help her

BellasmamaTiff @BellasmamaTiff (2544) • United States 5 Dec 06

Please help me. My best friend is with a new guy. She is blinded by the NEWNESS of the relationship and doesn't see it for what it really is. He doesn't allow her to talk to her friends anymore, he forced her to cut ties with her...

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bananachoked This is a really difficult case and you are facing something which is really devastating, not only to your friend but also to the relationship that you have with her. I guess that best part here is for you to be constantly around her, giving her the most...

6 Dec 06

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Can this relation be saved???

Veenaa @Veenaa (2) • Pakistan 5 Dec 06

I am engaged with a guy for four years. Its totally arranged by my parents and i dont know the guy before engagement. After engagement i expect that he talks to me but he didnt and i also dont initiate as i think that man should...

engagement

problem

relationship

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bananachoked Chances of success is too slim for anything like an arranged marraige. I think it's best time for parents to realize that they are only pushing their children to an agonizing life by being too imposive. nobody knows who is the best person for you except you...

6 Dec 06