daphnexuyan

@daphnexuyan (74)

China • Age 47

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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United States.....A Third World Country?

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 9 Apr 07

I was shocked recently when a teacher told me if we didn't push our children more in education that the United States would become a third world country. She also told me we were falling way behind the Chinese, Japanese, and...

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daphnexuyan If the United States is a third world country, there is no wealthy countries in the world. I believe the educational system is much more advanced than other countries. They encourage children to exert their own imagination. Young children nearly have no...

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Do you like it when the author kills off one of the main characters?

krayzee @krayzee (1160) • Romania 9 Apr 07

I have yet to decide which annoys me more. There are some thriller novels or horror ones that begin with a bunch of characters vaguely sketched and all but the main ones die. Those main ones managing to escape quite a few very...

authors

books

characters

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daphnexuyan I believe that if the author kills off one of the main character, it depends on the story. I think many classic love story has an unhappy ending, such as 'Waterloo Bridge'. If the main actress did not kill herself at the end and live together with her lover....

10 Apr 07

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If Mylot Stops Paying

kukkad @kukkad (511) • India 9 Apr 07

I have been an active member in here for almost 9 days now and I was asking this question to myself :- "Will I be on Mylot, if the site ever stops paying". My answer to this would be "yes". I will stay on. Firstly, Mylot...

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daphnexuyan I had the same question as you. I am not sure how much mylot will pay me when I write a discussion or respsonse the discussion. If I want to earn $1, I had to write 100 topic, yes? I write very topic carefully. I seldom copy other articles. I wonder if I...

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Help . Suggest, how do I go about telling my in-laws to stop spoiling my kids?

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 9 Apr 07

How do I go about telling my in-laws to stop spoiling my kids? I have a 5 year old and a 7 year old. My in-laws love to spoil my kids so much that when i pick up my kids from there house, they are expecting everything from me. Not...

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daphnexuyan You can talk with your in-laws about your feeling directly. I think they can understand you. After all,you are the mother of your kids. But you should pay attention on your attitude toward them. Becasue they spoil your kids because they love your kids. If they...

10 Apr 07

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Do you buy un-needed items just because they are sale?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 9 Apr 07

Do you impulse shop? Do you have 5 of the same toasters different colors just because they go on sale every week and you will never find another sale like that one? Knowing you will never use all of them. Do you need to have a...

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daphnexuyan I often do that kind of thing. When I see certain brand of clothes which I like it. I can not be keeping on buying it. When I bring these clothes back home, I would realize that I do not need them at all.

9 Apr 07

will you just leave us?

mskzalameda @mskzalameda (4023) • Philippines 8 Apr 07

the payday is near. mylot will give the salary of those who had reached their goal here. after that payday here in mylot, will you go and leave myLot forever? or will you continue to share your knowledge and ideas to the mylot...

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daphnexuyan I don't think mylot pay a sound bonus for its members. I believe it may pass more than half year when I get the real payment from mylot, however, I will continue to write my idea as well as my feeling toward people or things. If I can make some friends from...

8 Apr 07

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Do you still use CD players when you listen to music?

myworld_and_you @myworld_and_you (1223) • Philippines 7 Apr 07

I have a CD player but I don't use it that often anymore. I'm more comfortable downloading songs from the internet and transfer it to my phone or to the IPOD. I find it more convenient rather than bringing CDs with me as well as...

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daphnexuyan I do not use CD player to listen to music. Now I use MP3 player, which I think is more convenience. If I want to listen to newly songs or musice, I just need to download from the website for free. Aslo I can reserve hudreds of pop music into my MP3 player....

8 Apr 07

If you were able, would you have hired a nanny for your newborn?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 6 Apr 07

That first day home from the hospital we all just want to sleep. The first three months of your baby's life can be exhausting. Did you enjoy getting up in the middle of the night sometimes for hours. Some nights I just wanted...

babies

nannies

sleep

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daphnexuyan It is really a tough time for the young mothers who have their newborn babys. The bay will cry all night and you can not go alseep which would drive the young mothers mad. But I will not hire a nanny for my newborn baby. Because I think looking after my baby...

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What turned you on to reading?

Transformed @Transformed (1259) • United States 4 Apr 07

How did you start to enjoy reading and consider it an important interest in your life? I started to enjoy it when my mother read to me as an infant and later as a toddler. Once, I started going to school, we started reading and...

enjoy reading

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daphnexuyan When I was a university student, I liked reading very much. Each week, I borrowed many books from library and I liked to read novels in the bed. But after graduated, I aslo want to read some books in order to get more knowledge. But it seems that I have not...

5 Apr 07

How could HE?!?!

maildumpster @maildumpster (3815) • United States 4 Apr 07

I am distraught. I just found out that one of my dearest friends is getting married. He has told me time and again that they were not serious. I just can't believe he has done this. She is a horrible person. He knew this cause...

marrying the wrong person

stopping a wedding

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daphnexuyan Maybe your best friend has his own reason to marry with that woman. I think you should talk about your feeling and your thought about this issue directly. If he insists on his wedding, you should bless them. After all, this is your friend's life, not...

5 Apr 07

Help Me Quit Smoking

kukkad @kukkad (511) • India 4 Apr 07

I have been smoking for the past 10 years now. I started smoking for fun at quite an early age...... it started with just 1 smoke a day, but now I have reached a stage where I am like smoking 10 cigrates a day. I have reached...

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daphnexuyan Quit smoking is not an easy thing, which needs strong will. If you need smoke two packs of cigarette everyday,please begin from smoke one pack of cigarette one day. If you want to smoke, you can eat some melon seeds or something you like to eat. At the same...

5 Apr 07

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Doesn't it aggrivate you when you see you have a private message and

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 4 Apr 07

And there is spam all over .. I don't think people should become your friends just to spam you.. I think it's alright to post it publicly under the proper title but to send you offers through your pm and email just seems so...

scams

spam

spam blockers

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daphnexuyan I am annoied by hundreds of spams. Because I did foreign trade, I registered in some B to B websites in order to promote my business. But since then, I received many useless spams everyday. I am afraid that these spams may infect the virus for my computer...

5 Apr 07

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mother dislikes my wife

encik_khairul @encik_khairul (183) • Malaysia 3 Apr 07

i have been married for almost a year now but it seems that my mother doesn't accept my wife well. i did ask my mother for her blessing before my wedding. she agreed but now, i think she has some grouses over my...

husband

mother

wife

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daphnexuyan My mother does not like my boyfriend either. I am a Law Bachelor. But my boyfriend did not go to any university. I was born in a beautiful city, but my boyfriend comes from a rural area of southern part of China. But my boyfriend treats my so well and he is...

4 Apr 07

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Tell me, what was the best part of your day?

Amber @AmbiePam (111910) • United States 3 Apr 07

No matter of what time of day/night you are reading this, tell me what was the best part of your day? Even if it wasn't a great day, was there something positive about it, or did you see someone you hadn't expceted? The...

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daphnexuyan The best part of my day is when my boyfriend pick up me from my office. I sit in his car. We can chat about the whole of working,eating and any topic we want. Everybody annoys by the traffic jam in the peak time. But we do not care, because sitting into the...

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A friend in need

charms88 @charms88 (7538) • Philippines 3 Apr 07

When it comes to a friend in need, I often ask myself: Am I doing enough? Am I being useful? Or just making a nuisance of myself? Some people fall into the category of selfless angels who instinctively know what to do. My way...

a friend in need

casting away your friends

friend

helping friends

reaching out

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daphnexuyan A friend in need is a friend in deed.

4 Apr 07

I'm fallin' in love Again

jackie_mmm @jackie_mmm (886) • Philippines 3 Apr 07

I'm seeing the signs. I see him sitting there in the moonlight, smoking and listening to ipod. He's too gorgeous for me. He's too white for me. He's not right for me. I can't stop mooning over him. I love the way he walks and...

youre a god and i am not

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daphnexuyan You are a romantic gril. But frankly speaking, your love is so dangerous becasue he has got married. It seems that your love story is no result. Therefore, I want to suggest you to give up. Or else, you may hurt yourself. If he is a responsible man, he would...

3 Apr 07

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