kitan2979

@kitan2979 (115)

Philippines • Age 47

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Children from your past

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 21 Apr 08

I used to babysit for these two cute little girls. Dawn and Shannon. Shannon had beautiful blond hair and was 3 , Dawn had dark hair and was two. Some times I think about what they would be like today. They would be in their 30's...

children

mssnow

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kitan2979 Hi mssnow.. I went to Canada last June and worked for a single mom who had 2 sons ages 6 and 7..I only worked for them for 6 months though. I still keep in touch with their mom but I havent talked to them or saw them even in a photo. Its only now that I...

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Should I give him another chance, or kick him to the curb?

kaysue4 @kaysue4 (951) • United States 21 Apr 08

Ok, my "hubby" of almost 10 years works very odd hours everyday. I get a phone call tonight, on his phone and the lady knew my full name, and it says that they have been seeing each other since last year. He told her that the...

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kitan2979 If you really love her,its not bad to give him another chance, LAST chance that is.. But I have to warn you that for your part, the trust is gone, whether you like it or not you will doubt him, what he did will always hunt you. Coz for me for a month or so I...

21 Apr 08

Is going fast always a bad thing?

SKLC_PT @SKLC_PT (1234) 20 Apr 08

I was wondering if going fast is always a good thing... Has anyone here had a relationship in which things went fast but yet are quite happy? See the thing is I'm in a relationship (dating) a guy in which I've fallen deeply in...

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kitan2979 Hi SKLC_PT! you know what?while reading your post I was really amazed coz thats exactly what happend to me last year!we are almost in the same situation a year ago.I was also in a 4year relationship before I met my fiance..We were also seeing each other for 2...

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if you die

christiyono @christiyono (172) • Indonesia 18 Apr 08

if you die tommorow, what would you do before it happen?

die

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kitan2979 If I will die tomorrow, I will spend my last day with my family, loved ones and friends..If I dont die because of sickness, maybe I will have a party celebrating my life and my relationships with all of them. But I should prepare everyday that I will be...

18 Apr 08

Do you feel a void in life?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 17 Apr 08

Are you feeling that there is a void in your life? may be it is due to the fact that you are broken up or ha slost any relationship, be it love or friendship? Are you missing someone such that you think it will not be easy to...

love and friendship

void

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kitan2979 For now I do think that there is lacking in my life right now..Since I came back from Canada I havent had a good paying job and its really hard for me to adjust, because for 6 years working in a government agency I was really financially blessed then I went to...

17 Apr 08

What was it

busta1baby @busta1baby (1230) • United States 15 Apr 08

what was the top thing that got u and ur partner together?

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kitan2979 His computer shop and internet cafe is beside the building where I was working, and everyday I go to his cafe to check my email and thats how we met and eventually dated and were now engaged!=)

15 Apr 08

Do you wash new clothes before using it?

nishdan01 @nishdan01 (3050) • Singapore 14 Apr 08

I never used to wash new clothes before using it. But I find most people washing clothes before use. On thinking, I felt I should be washing clothes before use even if it is new. So do you wash new clothes before using it?

clothes

new

wash

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kitan2979 Yes I do wash my new bought clothes, because here in the Philippines new clothes dont smeel as good as when you're in the states, I dont know why, maybe because of the climate.And like what everyone else said, you dont know where it came from and how many...

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Dealing with what life brings you..

ashryl @ashryl (84) • Philippines 15 Apr 08

Life can be hard but I believe that it is not what life brings us that determines our success or failure. It is how we respond to it. Often times, we do not have have control of what happens to us but we can chose to remain...

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kitan2979 Life is really too short to focus on our lack, our problems, hardships, failures and all things or situations that keeps us down. No matter how life seems so unfair to us at times, it is on our hands if we will let ourselves drown in the works of the enemy,...

15 Apr 08

if you have a dream with your partner cheating you...

andrejuly84 @andrejuly84 (1047) • Romania 14 Apr 08

would you believe that something can be true and the dream is an advertisment for you to watch out and take care what is he doing.i had a dream like that and now i got the idea that maybe he was cheating me. i know is just a dream...

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kitan2979 Dreams are our unconscious thoughts for the day that comes back to us in a form of a dream..So i dont think that you should worry because you dreamt that your partner is cheating on you.Like what you said you were talking/joking about it,maybe thats why you...

14 Apr 08

listening music good 4 stress

aozora2006 @aozora2006 (29) • Indonesia 13 Apr 08

today i'm stress of my boyfriend and school. my body so tired cuz was shopping and angry. eergghh... where's my happy sunday? what i got today is bad sunday. so after did shower and pray, i listening music with high volume. i had...

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kitan2979 When Im stressed I usually look at old pictures to remember the days when life seems so simple and Im with my loved ones. Or sometimes I also listen to music, have a massage or just go out with friends, coz I believe having someone to talk to releases...

13 Apr 08

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Did you get a ring when he proposed?

libertarianfreedom21 @libertarianfreedom21 (3198) • United States 1 Apr 08

My fiance proposed to me 2 years ago without a ring, and i told him yes i would, but forever i would call him my boyfriend and told him i wouldnt call him my fiance till he got me a ring, well he still hasnt got me a ring and i go...

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kitan2979 Me too, he asked me not just once and we always talk about it but i dont know when is his plan to get me a ring.. if he does I think it wont be a surprise, I think I will be the one to pick my ring..LOL

7 Apr 08

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I am...Getting...MARRIED!

Mare73 @Mare73 (1335) • United States 7 Apr 08

Happy Monday Everyone! Ok so Friday my BF, my girls and I all go shopping and running errands and such. We stopped here, we stopped there, we stopped everywhere! One of the stops was Wal-Mart. They had some towels on sale and I...

getting married

proposal

wedding

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kitan2979 Congratulations!! That must be really exciting! I always dream of how my boyfriend will propose officially..LOL

7 Apr 08

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Do you prefer large dogs

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12587) • United States 6 Apr 08

to smaller breeds? Or do you like the smaller breeds better? No preference as long as it is a dog? All the dogs I have ever had have been 40 lbs or larger. having been bitten by smaller breed, I like a dog to be larger.

doggie

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kitan2979 I have both small and big breeds of dogs..labrador and chihuahua..But i would like to try to have a great dane soon..=)

6 Apr 08

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How Many Dogs Do You Have?

ladylonewolf2008 @ladylonewolf2008 (298) • United States 6 Apr 08

I Have 2 Dogs. 1 Small Dog Named Shadow Because She's Always Right Behind Me Wherever I Go And I Have A Large Outside Dog Named Scooby. Yep, He Looks Just Like Scooby Doo And He's As Clumsy As Scooby Doo!

dogs

scooby doo

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kitan2979 I have four dogs..two labrador retrievers named Max and Peach..one showtype pitbull named Manang and one chihuahua named Luke.. They're so playful!

6 Apr 08

New advertising gimmicks

BYOLA2871 @BYOLA2871 (4371) • South Africa 5 Apr 08

I read with amazement about a new advertising technique that send signals to your brain that you need to have the item being advertised. This was first used in New York and is called hypersonic advertising. it is usually beamed to...

advertise

hypersonic

marketing

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kitan2979 Hi! I havent heard about that advertising technique and Im really interested to learn about it since me and my fiance are in computer sales business..where did you read about it? anyway, i will try to search about it on the internet..thanks

5 Apr 08

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How much are you willing to pay for good shoes?

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 4 Apr 08

Well, I finally found out what department I will be working at in Dillards. Women's shoes. I'm pretty optomistic about it. I'm also thrilled, because maybe now I can find a pair of shoes to stand in all day. Except for my Crocs,...

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kitan2979 The most expensive shoes i bought so far is my Lacoste footwear and I didnt regret buying it coz it was really comfy and at the same time trendy..=)

5 Apr 08

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Do you start many discussions one over another each day?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 4 Apr 08

Today in a certain interest i was looking at the current discussion. And what came to notice that the same person has started about 6-7 discussion within span of say 10 minutes. Most of them are very brief and even one liners. Do...

start

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kitan2979 Yes, sometimes I do that, coz when Im not doing anything I just think or when I see something, instead of asking myself I just directly post it here, as if Im talking to all of you guys.=)

5 Apr 08

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Do You Shed?

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 4 Apr 08

I just noticed yesterday after getting out of the shower that I lose a heck of a lot of hair. I guess I knew I lost a lot of hair but it really struck me yesterday. Upon rinsing my hair I pulled my good hand through it and...

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kitan2979 I did..there was a time when everytime I take a bath I almost clog up the drain in the shower because of my hair..then i thought that its normal to shed 100 strand a day. I was using a hot oil cream that time as a conditioner, then when i ran out of it there...

4 Apr 08

Are you still friends with your ex?

NCgirl @NCgirl (487) • Philippines 3 Apr 08

exes? I don't. With my exes, there's one whom I consider still a friend, but I cut off my communication with him when I found out that his wife is still jealous of me. I mean no harm but a friendship but I don't want to continue...

boyfriend

friendship

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kitan2979 Me either, I dont communicate with my ex anymore. There's no reason for me to talk to them or even keep in touch with them.Also because I dont want my present boyfriend to do that too, coz I will be so jealous..but too bad my boyfriend is still friends with...

4 Apr 08

family vs partner???

wittyakanksha @wittyakanksha (436) • India 4 Apr 08

what do you people think about choosing between your partner and your family?if you have to take a stand to which side will you sway?? Is it right leaving your parents for the one you love because your partner does not get along...

family

love

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kitan2979 If its ok to ask..why doesnt your family like your partner? Is he your husband already?Because I believe your family's opinion about your partner is important, dont decide what to do on impulse, try to think it over and over again first before doing...

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