Old Age May Stink But....

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@HazySue (39265)
Gouverneur, New York
January 2, 2016 4:54pm CST
You might not like getting old but really, what is the alternative. Think about it. I believe the only alternative is death. I think I'll take getting old. When I reached 60 my body started to fall apart. Everything started going wrong. Not only that all my outer body parts started going south, if you know what I mean. My body aches, my skin is wrinkled, and my knees don't want to hold me up. What happening with the over 60 crowd out there?
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
2 Jan 16
This is part of a poem I wrote and posted on this site a while ago: Old age comes on fairy feet Tiptoes round you while you sleep, When you wake, what? more grey hair! How the heck did that get there? Painful limbs and hearing gone What else is there to go wrong? Wrinkled skin and aching eyes, That danged mirror must tell lies. Yes, it seems that youth has fled, Teeth by bed, not in your head, What you eat goes on your hips And your body sags and dips.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 16
@HazySue Thanks, I already did.
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@nanette64 (20363)
• Fairfield, Texas
3 Jan 16
Oh how perfect is that @jaboUK . And boy ain't it the truth.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@jaboUK I love your poem. I got quite a laugh as I read it. You should put it on a post. @nanette64 I agree, it is the truth.
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• United States
2 Jan 16
60 seemed to be when my body started to groan and moan. My knees are shot and I got one of those hurrycanes for Christmas. As much as I hated to have to rely on a cane it does help. I had envisioned myself being one of those spry oldsters still able to do the hokey pokey
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
3 Jan 16
Just wondering what is a "hurricane?"
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• United States
3 Jan 16
@marlina it's a cane that can stand upright on it's own and collapses so you can fit it in your purse. It comes in handy
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@Marilynda1225 I did too. I thought I would never be old and limping along. I understand the hurrycanes are pretty good.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
2 Jan 16
My metabolism is shot but that happened prior to 60. I do not look my age, I am told. I am too plump to wrinkle at this time. My knees have their moments but do better when I take them walking.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@GardenGerty there is something to being a little plump. I have been told that the skin may show the wrinkles earlier when the person is thin. I don't know if it is true.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
4 Jan 16
The knees (and other parts of the body know and would scream) use me or lose me For inactivity will weaken muscles faster than anything else.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
4 Jan 16
@ChesneyM thatr sounds good. See there is a bright side to everything.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
2 Jan 16
I am 65, my knees ache since I have no cartilage but other than thinning hair, I have no complaints. My mom is 100 so I think I have long term genes!!
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• United States
3 Jan 16
@bellestarr my knees are in the same condition as yours
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@nanette64 (20363)
• Fairfield, Texas
3 Jan 16
I'll be 65 in April @BelleStarr . My mom was 77 when she passed but that was from massive cancer. My dad is 85 but he has Dementia. Most of all the rest of the family goes into the 90's. If it wasn't for my severe spinal injuries, I'd be 40.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@BelleStarr it does sound like you have the long term genes. You are quite lucky. @Nanette64 You sound like you belong to the long term genes pool too.
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@Juliaacv (56227)
• Canada
2 Jan 16
You're lucky that your body held out that long, my organs started to go on me in my late 40's. It isn't a picnic, but it is what it is and I grin and bear it each and every single day. Wrinkles and grey hair are the very least of my worries and I'm only in my early 50's.
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@Juliaacv (56227)
• Canada
3 Jan 16
@HazySue I have always been a positive thinker, but that is as a result of having poor health since I was a child. Health is not anything any of us should ever take for granted.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@Juliaacv true, it is not. I live each day being thankful that I am still up and able to get around.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@Juliaacv wow, I guess I am lucky. You have to keep going, getting up in the morning and thinking positive. I am glad that I wake up each and every morning. Take care of yourself.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
2 Jan 16
funny.I do not mind old age.I have the time of my life.Getting old is things that you have not done when you were a younger.I am 85.Thid does not bother me at all.As long as I can keep moving and do not have to depend on other. No I do not mindl.I loved it.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@amadeo I don't really mind my age. I am glad to be steadily getting older. I just saying with age comes wrinkles, aches, pains, health problems for many of us. I am saying it in a tongue and cheek kind of way.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
3 Jan 16
I am finding it increasing difficult to remember what youth was actually like. I wonder if I was born old and simply dreamt about being young at some time.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@Asylum some people believe that some of us are born with an old soul. Maybe it is true.
@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
4 Jan 16
@ChesneyM there are a lot of old souls out there.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
3 Jan 16
Tell me about getting old the skin sags, everything goes wrong with your insides, your hair is gray or white, hands look like a skelton. Let's see what else you need to wear glasses and dentures, hard of hearing, cataracts, and how about adult diabetes and all kinds of things like that.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
4 Jan 16
@ChesneyM At least they can operate and then you can see good again.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
4 Jan 16
@Marcyaz it sounds sort of like a description of me. The good thing about getting old is still being alive.
@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
4 Jan 16
@ChesneyM I hope it doesn't strike you.
@rebelann (117211)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
I can't complain that much but I do have eye problems .... or rather had, cataract surgery helped clear some of that up.
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@rebelann (117211)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
How about you retired then got wizer @HazySue
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
22 Sep 19
@rebelann That sounds good to me.
@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Sep 19
That's good to hear. I think I retired and then got old.
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
3 Jan 16
my mother said it was 75 onwards when she really 'felt old' but she's still up and about
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• Philippines
4 Jan 16
@HazySue but we worry that she might slip, trip or fall because of her knees.
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• United States
3 Jan 16
@hereandthere I'm having trouble realizing that 70 is closer than I want it to be
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@hereandthere that's wonderful that your mother is still active. @Marilynda1225 so am I.
@LadyDuck (502251)
• Italy
3 Jan 16
I am over 60 but I do not feel too bad. I am lucky, I have no wrinkles and I feel pretty healthy for the moment.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@LadyDuck lucky you. It seemed that one day I had no wrinkles and the next day when I woke up I felt related to the saggy baggy elephant.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@LadyDuck I am a tad. I do have wrinkles but not as many as I could have. I still look not to bad. It was just a fun little exaggerating for effect.
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• United States
2 Jan 16
I am 68 and I don't feel that bad, sure things are different, but that's they way it goes.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@AbbyGreenhill you are lucky. It seemed that my health problems all started showing up on my 60th birthday. Happy birthday to me.
@JudyEv (381909)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Jan 16
I am having trouble bending over enough to cut my toe-nails. And sometimes when I walk I get a pain in my foot. Usually it goes again after a while. That's enough moaning for one response!
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• United States
3 Jan 16
@judyev I have trouble cutting my toe-nails too. Bending is harder and I'm not as flexible as I used to be
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@JudyEv (381909)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Jan 16
@Marilynda1225 @HazySue It does make it more bearable I think to know it's not just you who is going downhill.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@JudyEv so do I. I am having trouble bending to do anything. @Marilynda1225 I think we are all in the same boat.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
3 Jan 16
I have a couple more years to go to get to 60. My husband turns 60 later this month.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@fishtiger58 maybe you and your husband will be among the lucky ones that age slowly.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@fishtiger58 that's wonderful. I think I spent to much time working and not enough time taking care of myself. I mostly wouldn't be in the shape I am in if I had been more active. Live and learn.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
3 Jan 16
@HazySue My husband looks pretty good for 60 I think. He stays really active.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Jan 16
I join the Sunday walk organized by the committee in my housing estate. There are a few senior citizens who are very active. They wake up at 5 am, have their breakfast, and by 6 am, they are practicing Tai Chi. Our Sunday walk starts at 7 am. Guess what, they are still energetic, and they can even run. They are far older than you. Most are already in their 80s, and some are in their 70s. I wish that I have their health when I reach their age.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@scheng1 I wish I had their health now. I am still working and find it a struggle to make it through the day.
@Orson_Kart (8261)
• United Kingdom
2 Jan 16
I am not far off 60 and most if my get up and go has already got up and left. I am not sure I'm going to make it! :(
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@Orson_Karl I think you'll make it. You just have to keep plugging.
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
3 Jan 16
@HazySue,I understand.It's old age.There are many sexagenerians in my locality and I know how they feel.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@else34 sometimes when you get old and can't do what you used to do you feel useless.
@marlina (154103)
• Canada
3 Jan 16
The only good thing that I can see about ageing right now is all the wisdom that I have acquired along those years. But it is a wisdom that has cost me a lot.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
4 Jan 16
@HazySue My father-in-law used to say that too.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@marlina I do know more now than I did when I was young. I remember hearing a quote by someone that goes something like this: "Youth is wasted on the young".
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@garymarsh6 (23978)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 16
Funnily enough my grand parents look ancient when they were sixty but I see people in their 80's these days who are still quite youthful. I hope your aches and pains clear up! As for your bits that are going south you could always start walking on your hands that way although they may go south it would all look proportionate and you would look perfect!
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@garymarsh6 (23978)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 16
@HazySue I guess compared to 50 or so years ago life was so much harder for our grandparents. They had lived through the war on rations. Worked hard all their lives and did not have such luxuries we take for granted. The quality of food is so much better these days and health care is better.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@garymarsh6 if I thought it would help I would learn how to walk on my hands, my elbows seem to still be in good shape. As for the young looking oldsters, I wonder if it is the miracle of modern science that helps them still look so good.
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@nanette64 (20363)
• Fairfield, Texas
3 Jan 16
I was still working for a rancher at 55 @HazySue but I think that just helped speed up the spinal injuries that my husband created. Now at 64, it's tougher to do anything. I can't even stand up totally vertical. I went from 5'11" to 5'8".
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
3 Jan 16
@nanette64 I think you are probably right. It is a shame we still don't have the vim and vigor we used to have.
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