Rule is Rule: “Do YOU have this in the HOUSE?”

@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
March 30, 2019 10:10pm CST
My biological parents have this house rule and that is to call if being late in going back home. It is a rule that cannot be bent by anyone in the house. For the reason that the family will not be worried and I do think it is best to put into practice. That’s during the old days. Now, most of our modern gadgets have Global Positioning System (GPS). Wherein, the feature can locate a person easily without calling their family. “What is an important rule you have to follow at home?” Image Credit: tinitell.com
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@crossbones27 (52905)
• Mojave, California
31 Mar 19
I was always taught never be late.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
1 Apr 19
LOL.. how do you tell constipation that..LOL
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• Mojave, California
31 Mar 19
@Shavkat Indeed any way we can mess with that. So hard I just want to have some fun.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
Your parents are right on this. Never to be late at school or work. It should always be on time.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
31 Mar 19
I do not allow to others to know where I am, the GPS is not for me. I called my parents and later my husband when I knew I was late.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
1 Apr 19
Me too...I do not want others to know where I am. I intend to leave my cell somewhere else when I am going for getting probate of the will.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
Personally, I still on the old school way. My mother is not that good at using devices. Thus, it is not ideal for her to use the GPS.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
31 Mar 19
@Shavkat I do not want to "be tracked", I do not even bring with me a smartphone, only an old mobile phone, just in case of emergency.
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@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
4 Apr 19
If my brother and I were late and didn't call our home my mother would get extremely worried, so we always made sure to tell my parents if we were going to arrive later than planned. My father was quite strict. He was less worried than my mother, but it was very important that we were polite in every way. I think that one of the most important rules in my home was: "Be nice and polite to everyone"
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@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
10 Apr 19
@Shavkat We didn't have cell phones either. When they started to get popular I was in my 20s, in my childhood we only had landlines. When we had to call someone we had to find a phone booth or borrow the phone at a friend's house. Today it is much easier to call other people, many people carry their cell phones whenever they leave their house.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
14 Apr 19
@Porcospino It seems we are in the Jurassic era. But I think we are more responsible than some youngsters nowadays. Would you agree?
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
10 Apr 19
My old folks are so like this. My late father will be freaked out and a long sermon will happen. They wanted us to be responsible. However, mobile phones were not that popular during my time. It takes time to find a phone booth to call them. We still manage it even after graduating from university.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
During my time there were times I had to walk kilometers to find a pay phone just to inform my parents where I am. My rule in the house now is no wasting of anything, food,water, electricity etc..etc just use as much as they like but no wasting.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
1 Apr 19
My father needed to be taught that... LOL He leaves fans and lights on, and so do I at times.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
1 Apr 19
@vandana7 are parents not exempted? Lol
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
I remembered that. When I was an intern, I usually have to spare some coins for the phone booth especially in Manila. I do think it is typical for parents not to waste money or food. It is still being said my lovely mother.
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@wolfgirl569 (135819)
• Marion, Ohio
31 Mar 19
I had that rule for the kids when they were growing up and even as adults until they moved out. It is just respectful to let others know, especially if you are going to be real late.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
They also had to put in their mind being respectful to others. I remembered my parents also say that we need to help in doing household chores even especially if we are staying to another house.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
1 Apr 19
Yes, it makes sense as kids, or as people staying in the same home whether for vacation or otherwise. Could never get my father to tell me where he is going and when he will be back. Luckily, he leaves to meet his friends or do anything on hand, around 10 am and returns around 4 pm. My lunch is obviously delayed, and it gives me acidity. But at least he is home before dark.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
31 Mar 19
@Shavkat That is a very good rule. I really do not have any rules here but I like to say goodbye to Sophie before I leave our home.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
If I am living solo in the house, I will do the same thing with Shadow. It is quite traditional family for us to be reminded like this kind of rule.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
1 Apr 19
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
1 Apr 19
Aw... some customs can pinch...
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
1 Apr 19
If my children ever went anywhere, I'd expect them to call me if they were going to be late. My youngest doesn't have a phone of his own at the moment. When he has had one, I would call him if he was running late as he wouldn't always be aware of the time. My parents expected me to always be home by a certain time - we didn't have mobile phones then but there were payphones. I just made sure I was never late getting home! I do think that calling when you'll be late it's a good rule to have. If my children are just a few minutes later than expected, I'd probably assume a bus was late or that they had gone into the shop on the way home. If they were more than 30 minutes late then I would start to worry. We don't really have any set house rules. We make and change rules as we need them and to suit the family. I only have one child at home now and he's 13. We discuss what is expected of him when it's necessary for each individual situation.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
1 Apr 19
We don't have phones when we were kids. So if we know we are late to go home, we have to mention it to them.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Apr 19
I can relate to that. During my time, a few students have this mobile phone. I can remember that I usually call using a phone booth.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Apr 19
@jobelbojel I agree. I only used this payphone when having my internship in Manila before.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
1 Apr 19
@Shavkat we dont even have a phone booth. The payphone is at the city.
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@sofssu (23660)
1 Apr 19
We need to keep each other posted if we are out of home, we also keep people informed about important events happening in our lives. It isn't a rule but that is a norm that is followed in my home.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Apr 19
This was always the rule in our place too - once we had a phone. Or if I went riding in the bush on my pony I had to say which way i was heading.
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@Jefrox (322)
• Taytay, Philippines
31 Mar 19
That's the traditional rule for children but for me, discipline and respect are my recommendation.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
Personally, I always advice to kiddies to be honest and respectful. I do think our country has rich in culture in terms of disciplining them.
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@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
The important rule we have to follow in our house is to do our bed when we wake up.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
Same thing here. My mother will freak out if we don't do our bed. I also remembered that every weekend, we need to wash our own clothes before playing outside.
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• Philippines
19 Apr 19
The only rule that i know is that, when we are going tk be late, need to.inform my parents.and indicate the reason.. hehe..
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
20 Apr 19
I think that most parents in our country like this. Since they tend to be a worrier to their children.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
21 Apr 19
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• Philippines
20 Apr 19
@Shavkat true..
4 Apr 19
Call home. That is a good rule just so family members know where the other person is and is okay. What happens if it is broken?
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
31 Mar 19
I think if you are going to be late a call or at least a text is called for.
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@Hate2Iron (15724)
• Canada
31 Mar 19
We had that rule when the kids were teens and i got very little sleep!!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
31 Mar 19
Even though you have GPS positioning, it's a good idea to call.
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