How I Met My Wife

@MrDenata (12944)
Indonesia
January 17, 2023 5:44am CST
Hola Guys, how are you today? Its raining outside, a lot of my friends said that Chinese New Year is coming soon so the rain mean full of blessing. I hope that too, that all of us get the blessing to face 2023. Last nite, i read a post from my friend, Erly, she ask are you married because of love or interest? I answer her question with long story about how i met my wife. So, January 27th will be our 5th years anniversary as husband and wife. I still remember i knew my wife form Whatsapp Group about movies, but we never got a chance to met. Until i had an event at her city and i asked her to meet me there. She come with her bestfriend and i gave her some gifts from the event and we took picture together for the first time. Long story short, she got the chance to visit Jakarta (i used to work here) and she text me and said she want to meet me. And i took her to several places and i buy her lunch too. FYI, i never buy a girl lunch for no reason (unless she is my long time friend). And she was the first girl that got special treatment. I also accompany her at the rain station and waiting for her train to back to Bandung (and i never did this before with a girl that i just knew for several months). And i called her 3 hours later to make sure she was safe and sound. It took me 3 months to realize that i got feeling for her, i'm in love with this girl. One night, i called her and i asked her to marry me. The first reaction i got "dont make fun of me". I said that i was being serious and i want to met her parents to ask for their permissions. After i met her parents we started the preparation of our wedding, its only took 3 months for preparation and everything going well back then. And now we are married for 5 years with 1 daughter who turn 4 years old last month. I am so lucky to have them in my life. And i will make sure that they get the best in life (at least i'm trying so hard to make it).
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@DaddyEvil (174683)
• United States
18 Jan 23
It's a good story, Angel... Who is it really about? Does your wife tell the same story about meeting you?
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@DaddyEvil (174683)
• United States
18 Jan 23
@MrDenata I'm finally caught up with my notifications so I'm talking with people on myLot. I'm starting at the new discussions posted since I was last able to read them, so this morning, for me. If you don't want me to read your discussions, ... too bad for you.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
What are you doing now, DE?
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
@DaddyEvil why you said like that? Oh i forgot, you just happy talking with me. Thats a good sign tho, i am a good friend, ofc
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
18 Jan 23
That's a good love story. Happy wedding anniversary in advance. We had an arranged marriage we didn't get time to know each other before marriage but now after being married for 17 years, we feel like we are made for each other.
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
18 Jan 23
@MrDenata thanks. I don't regret that we had an arranged marriage.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
So, youre not regret that even it was an arranged marriage. I'm so happy for you my friend
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
@sjvg1976 glad to know it, Sanjeev. Whats your favorite food in this winter season?
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
17 Jan 23
This is a nice love story and soon you will celebrate your first 5 years together.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
I said it already but i want to make a post about it, thanks Anna
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
17 Jan 23
@MrDenata Your wife should be pleased that you wrote a post about your love story.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
@LadyDuck haha she dont buy this kind of thing LOL, but maybe if she know i dont know her reaction, tho
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@aninditasen (18202)
• Raurkela, India
17 Jan 23
Wishing you a happy married and family life. Ours was an arranged marriage. Our parents arranged it and my husband came to my house to meet me. After that after a few months we got married in the month of November in 1985.
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@aninditasen (18202)
• Raurkela, India
18 Jan 23
@MrDenata No recipe. We just pulled on for 34 years with our ups and downs and now I am a widow.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
@aninditasen i see, how are you today Anindita? Its winter there right?
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
Eventhough it was an arranged marriage, you still managed to keep it till now, so whats the recipe?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Jan 23
Glad you are all so very happy. Enjoy the moments.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Jan 23
@MrDenata You are very welcome. Just got done with dinner. A nice day. Thanks for asking.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 23
@CarolDM Glad to know that, have a great day Carol, is it still winter in your place?
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 23
Thank you so much, Carol, so kind of you. How are you today? Done with dinner?
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@Beestring (15372)
• Hong Kong
17 Jan 23
That's a heart touching love story. Happy Anniversary! Wishing you many more happy moments and a lifetime of love.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
Thank you so much, M. So kind of you.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
@Beestring thanks again, M. Our marriage is still young, a long journey waiting for us, but we commited to each other and trying to understand it,
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@Beestring (15372)
• Hong Kong
17 Jan 23
@MrDenata I feel happy for you.
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@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 23
Congratulations for the next five years celebration Don't be too hard boy, your presence at the bad and good times is enough to make them happy.
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@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 23
@MrDenata you are welcome
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 23
Thank you ifa
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 23
@ifa225 still awake? I tho it's your sleeping time
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
18 Jan 23
Wow! Good to know your wife did not give you difficult times in your courtship. So much love while I am reading this Happy Anniversary in advance.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
19 Jan 23
@MrDenata I know. You are blessed to have her.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 23
@jobelbojel busy bro? Like always?
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
Indeed, i'm so lucky to have her as my wife. Yes, love is in the air LOL. Thank you so much brother,
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@jstory07 (148771)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19 Jan 23
A love story full of happiness. I am so happy for you.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 23
Thank you so much judy, God bless you
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
18 Jan 23
What a wonderful, precious, and sweet story. I’m sure you will all be happy together forever!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
19 Jan 23
@MrDenata Thank you! I'm very happily married with two grown sons and a granddaughter and grandson.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
I hope the same, Dianne, thank you so much, so kind of you. How are you today?
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 23
@DianneN awesome, glad to know that the fire still alive after so many years. Well done
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Jan 23
That's a wonderful love story. Happy Anniversary early.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Jan 23
@MrDenata You're welcome. It's almost time for me to go to bed.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 23
@just4him nite, valerie
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 23
Thank you so much Valerie, so kind of you. Have a great day
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@thelme55 (79323)
• Germany
3 Feb 23
That is a wonderful story. I wish you and your wife many years of happiness. Congratulations in advance.
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@thelme55 (79323)
• Germany
15 Mar 23
@MrDenata You are very welcome. Have a nice week.
@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 23
Thank you so much, Thelma, so sweet and kind of you
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@Kandae11 (57230)
17 Jan 23
Lovely story.Everything worked out perfectly and now you are celebrating your 5th wedding anniversary. Congrats and l wish you many more years together.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
Thank you so much, Kandase. Its a lovely story after so many sad love story. How are you today? I bet, its still morning on your are, whats for breakfast?
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@MasGion (1847)
• Malang, Indonesia
18 Jan 23
very nice story....it must filmed based on true story...
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
@MasGion OMG, Gion, stop it, how about turn it into action comedy? LOL
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 23
Thanks Gion, but i think its not good for a movie LOL
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@MasGion (1847)
• Malang, Indonesia
18 Jan 23
@MrDenata should add the dramatically scene so will more interesting, just like, meet the pick pocket in the train..
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@popciclecold (40214)
• United States
22 Jan 23
You are a very lucky man.
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 23
Thank you so much, so sweet and kind of you
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17 Jan 23
Happy marriage anniversary
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
Thank you so much, Kawasaki ( your name remind me of the motorcycle brand, the famous one)
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• China
17 Jan 23
Congratulations on getting your love and living together happily
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@MrDenata (12944)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 23
Thank you so much my friend
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