A Mylotter !

If I'm not comfortable with something, I don't do it. If someone sent me a link on myLot that I thought looked suspicious, I would contact GAA and send them the link...

The older i get, i learn to say NO for something that i dont wanna do.

She looks like a stalker to me

I do not like any of that ..but I am glad she was a nice person Icydoll and that you were safe.

It can be tricky sometimes knowing if someone is being honest and friendly or not. I wonder where she disappeared to.

I wouldn't trust anybody that easily. It takes time for me. I'm that sort of individual. I think it's no way wrong to be careful and cautious. And saying no is not that easy. Virtually it might be a bit easier to say no strongly. But in real life, it's quite hard but we have to practice saying no if we are really not comfortable.

It took us 3 years to trust each other and it is only then that we exchanged emails.

I rarely receive those kinds of invitations simply because I feel it is too easy to deceive people online.

Yeah, I would be suspicious of other links too.

it depends. I personally message some here

No one should force anyone to do what they are not sure about, I only drop a PM to someone if I want to know something or tell them something that has nothing to do with a conversation online.

I wouldn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, but if I am wary of something, I back off. I love to PM on myLot, but don’t like to go back and forth too much. It takes away from catching up on notifications and reading new discussions.

It's always good to maintain a distance especially when you're in online world.

For me personally, I won't risk myself going to such extent. Cyber bulling could be pretty dangerous and it could make your life in danger as well. When I start reading from 'she used to tag me whenever I go online' until the end, I immediately see this as a red flag. For me, personally, even my close friends didn't do this in both real world and online. Although that you mentioned that the person is funny and entertaining and all, but one needs to know boundaries and when one needs to stop. Especially the part when you said 'if I said no she would get hurt'. Why did she want to hurt herself if you don't want to join her in any link she sent, or any room she invited? That's already dangerous enough for you and really a red flag for cyberbullying already. So, from here, you already can see two sides of her; one, when you entertain her, she would appear funny. But two, when you start saying no, her dark side appears by threatening you that she may hurt herself and such. Total red flag for me. And for your last part - I will definitely say NO if I am not willing to do anything they ask, even if I know the person. Usually for me, I will keep quiet, or say no, or just walk away. We are responsible for our own lives and we need to always be careful whenever, and wherever we are and whatever we do. I like personal message, but I don't force myself to enter one as well. And I don't even keep doing personal message when I or you want to get to know each other. I will do verbal communication to get to know who people really are. Sorry if my responses are long and uncomfortable for you. I'm sure that you are a female, and at least as a fellow old female mylotter, I want you to stay safe. Take care.

Some of us share links back and forth. If things look suspicious, I will just say "no, thank you".

If I knew them well enough, I would certainly do as they ask.

Let's just say frankly that we don't have time to join with her there.

I agree with person below if I don’t feel comfortable doing something I do not do it.

I also find it difficult to say "No" to people. I would not have reacted if someone sends me the link but might not have joined until a person urged me to join it twice or thrice.

If I feel uncomfortable, I say thanks but no . No I don't care for personal messages here.