Children At Risk.

@Kandae11 (53677)
May 3, 2023 7:50am CST
Would you consider home schooling your child? I am sure many parents are seriously thinking of going that route. Imagine sending your child to school and he or she ends up in a body bag. We might feel safe where we are but these school shootings are popping up everywhere it seems. See the link below Pixabay image.
Police say a teenager who opened fire at his school drew sketches of classrooms and wrote a list of people he intended to target. He killed eight fellow students and a school guard before being arrested Wednesday. A father of a student at the school in cen
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@LadyDuck (458648)
• Switzerland
3 May
It is not as common here in Europe as it is in the United States. What would you do, keep your kids "prisoners" inside your home during all their life? They can be killed even in a supermarket, a restaurant at a McDonald's, at a theater or inside a store.
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@LadyDuck (458648)
• Switzerland
3 May
@Kandae11 Have you read my comment? You do not send them to school, but you let them go out, inside a store, a restaurant, a bank, visiting an open market. Are those places safer? The largest number of people killed by one only man with a truck was in Nice (France) outdoors during a parade.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
@LadyDuck. The point is we are talking here about schools and school environment. Wider areas like stores , shopping , entertainment are for another discussion. Ha, ha l can't imagine everyone locked up in their homes afraid to go anywhere - except in a pandemic or if the police force was disbanded.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
I won't consider it " keeping them prisoner" - some home schoolers involve a dozen or do other kids of people they know. Then they move on. What happens when they move on is unsure, no one can tell or decide who will live to be 100 or more.
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@vandana7 (98894)
• India
4 May
Interesting posts you come up with. I'd say, that risk exists even otherwise. The child would go for shopping, with you, and it could happen there. You could be at the Church and there too it can happen. Maybe at the park, or in the flight, or train. How far can we protect our children? And how? The issue is ...we are just getting hold of the people who commit the crime, get a sentence for them, and are done. Why did they do it, matters, understanding their psychology matters to prevent future incidences...we are not bothered with that aspect. That is what we need to do. Instead we feel the person should be hanged. Ok...but first understand why he did it. Home schooling is not for everyone I feel. It should also not be for long. Schools teach children more than we are willing to acknowledge. Children learn to adapt, they learn to share, they learn to help. When there is nobody other than family member to share, then would the child share in future? What sorta world we would give them when they cannot get help when they need...because the person who can help them, has developed boundaries on who is to be helped, and who is not to be helped?
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@vandana7 (98894)
• India
4 May
@Kandae11 It is not the schools that led to the problem. Mostly. It is the folks of the children who are possibly not doing the right thing.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
I agree
@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
I agree, home schooling is definitely not for everyone. If the family has the means and is passionate enough about it, then a proper system must be set up. - with the addition of other kids ( possibly kids of close friends who want it too) l too agree that it shouldn't be for a long period. Of course bad things can happen anywhere, but back in the day parents felt more reassured when they knew their child or children were at school. How do we deal with children who have the mindset to kill their schoolmates ? I don't know.
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@snowy22315 (170263)
• United States
3 May
I just thank God that these things weren't happening when my son was in school. I am not sure I would have been successful with home schooling, and I think learning how to get along with people is an important part of the school experience. Odds are, with violence and Covid, I would have sent him to a private school of some kind.
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@snowy22315 (170263)
• United States
3 May
@Kandae11 There was a knife wielding kid at the HS where my nephews went. As it happened they were slightly late for school that day. The older one drove the younger one to school and they barely made it, they had to rush to class not to get a late slip. If the one had been on time he would have been in that hallway where the stabber was. Still in the overall scheme of things..it probably isn't anything to lose sleep over. Odds of it happening to your child are slim.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
Where l am things really started to get out of hand just after my son left high school - stabbings , attacks on teachers etc. Now l have to worry about his kids when they arrive.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
@snowy22315 Wow! Lucky thing he was late. Nothing much we can do - in some situations. Just hope and pray.
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@ShyBear88 (59286)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 May
Homeschooling is no safer than being at an actual school. Anything can happen at home. If you think of it every day your surviving multiple ways you could die. The world is full of dangers. Kids are more likely to have abuse at home than at school. A child not seeing a teacher and having parent/s home teaching them is a good way for an abuser to take advantage of a child and their trust. Schools allow teachers to observe a child with them. Yes, there is always a risk of a child getting hurt at school NO place is safer. Also, parents are not certified and don't go to college to become teachers and if your child has special needs for some schooling, it's a lot harder at home than it is at school. My kids all have IEPs for learning disabilities and it's much easier in school their commendation.
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@ShyBear88 (59286)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 May
@Kandae11 That's not how it works, a parent that is abusive doesn't care how the kid is schooled. They are going to be abusive. It's just easier to do so behind closed doors means more control, no one to see, and no need to worry about slip-ups also abuse can be done by siblings or other family members. Who's to say an abuser can be an aunt or uncle or that they are not the one homeschooling? Bullying happens in and outside of a house. parents are capable of bullying.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
@ShyBear88 l would like to think that caring and loving parents and family members are in the majority rather than the minority.
@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
That makes a lot of sense. Home schooling of course would be more suitable for parents who can arrange the system in the right way to ensure that no abuse takes place. That is the main reason they would want to home school l guess to keep their child safe . It is also a fact that a child may be safe in a larger school environment but they are abused at home. Bullying also takes place in schools.
@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
3 May
No, I wouldn't consider home schooling... The parents still have to work and bring in money to pay the bills. School shootings aren't THAT common. MAYBE, if shootings were happening where I live, I'd move to a different part of the US.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
3 May
@Kandae11 Yes, I saw that... Threats are usually kids in that specific school calling to get out of a test or a class. When the call can be traced, like from a cell phone, then the parents are held accountable for the monetary costs from closing the school and the kid is expelled. And I think that's totally right.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
@DaddyEvil. Yes it could have been a prank call, but one couldn't chance it.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
This one happened in Serbia. Recently there were bomb threats at high schools on a Caribbean island. What next l wonder.
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@JudyEv (326063)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 May
I really wouldn't want to be bringing up children these days. It must be a nightmare for some.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
Can you imagine what the parents and other family members of those 9 kids are going through right now?
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@JudyEv (326063)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 May
@Kandae11 It is absolutely heart-breaking.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
@JudyEv l do not know how l would handle it.
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@AmbiePam (85659)
• United States
3 May
Wow. My sister homeschools her children, but not because she’s worried about their physical safety.
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@AmbiePam (85659)
• United States
3 May
@Kandae11 Yes, true. And it doesn't seem to matter if the school has a good or bad reputation- any school is a potential target.
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@m_audrey6788 (58482)
• Germany
3 May
If ever, I have kids. I will still be sending my child to a private school where there are not too much number of kids, because they need to learn how to socialize and communicate with other kids
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
Some home schoolers involve a number of hand picked kids. I suppose friends kids and so on. So there is still some bit of mixing and socializing there. However the ideal thing would be a larger school environment - but...
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• Germany
4 May
@Kandae11 What do you mean by a larger school environment?
@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
3 May
If it's safer at home I would. Reportedly, there's a new strain of covid starting. If it's covid, I wouldn't let the kids attend school. As for shootings, there are no cases of mass school shootings here, so it's safe to send them to school if covid is not around.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
3 May
@Kandae11 Yes, I hope it's not more deadly.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
From the report l read this new covid variant is more transmissable., but it is too early to tell if it will be more deadly than the others.
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@rebelann (111231)
• El Paso, Texas
3 May
I would if I had children. I also have to wonder if maybe people should be given parenting tests to make sure they do not raise violent kids.
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@rebelann (111231)
• El Paso, Texas
3 May
Oh, well, yes parenting school is a good idea but I was thinking that all too often people who have no regard for humanity or otherwise are the ones having these violent kids and they shouldn't be allowed to propagate.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
That is an excellent point. Prospective parents single or otherwise should benefit from attending parenting school.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
4 May
with a lot of shooting and killings, that is really possible
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
4 May
@Kandae11 there is really no safe place now
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@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
We need to protect our children in whatever way possible.
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@just4him (306703)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 May
It's terrible to hear about so many school shootings and now in Serbia too.
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@just4him (306703)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 May
@Kandae11 Yes, it is.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
So heartbreaking for those families.
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@Neil43 (3167)
4 May
That is really scary and why is this happening these days?
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@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
I wish l knew. Seems like frustrated persons want to vent their anger on others. Those persons who kill innocent people have an evil mindset which is hard to fathom.
@Kouponkaren (5486)
• United States
4 May
If my children were young at this time, I would definitely be homeschooling them at this point. I wanted to 20 years ago when they were little but their father wouldn't hear of it. The things some children are being taught in public schools these days are ridiculous, and couple that with the school shootings...forget it. It would be home-schooling for us.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
Parents who are really passionate about it can make it work.
@GardenGerty (157629)
• United States
4 May
That is not a good reason for homeschooling. There are good reasons. We hear almost daily of new mass shootings and they are not always at school, they can be anywhere.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
No, not reason enough but some parents might think differently. During the covid lockdown children were at home being schooled online. When schools reopened they were mighty happy to see their classmates again.
@shaggin (71662)
• United States
3 May
It is getting scary. This is happening so often anymore. I just pray my kids never have to go through it. I bet it causes PTSD.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
You wonder when it will start to happen in unexpected places.
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
3 May
I often see, read in the news about shooting issues in the USA. Hope preventive measures are taking care by the authorities.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
Probably place more security guards in schools.
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@yukimori (10144)
• United States
3 May
I considered it and dismissed it. I know I'm not qualified to make sure they're learning everything that they need to know to succeed in life. I've seen videos of homeschooled middle schoolers reading at a lower level than my kids did in kindergarten and there's no way I could stomach failing my kids like that. We're kind of reevaluating the idea now that we're looking at our oldest being in high school, because she did fairly well with the distance learning during the pandemic and something online with a flexible start time might be a better option for her than a traditional high school. A lot of that came about because of a recent threat someone called into the local high school.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
I won't recommend home schooling unless the learning system is set up just right and a number of other children are enrolled. As you mention your plans for high school, l recall just last week on a Caribbean island children could not attend school because of a bomb threat.. Could have been a prank call, but classes were disrupted and the fear will remain.
@RasmaSandra (73571)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 May
If this was the world when I was growing up my parents would certainly have me do homeschooling, If I had little children now then I would also have them home-schooled,
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@Kandae11 (53677)
4 May
Some parents will do whatever it takes to protect their children. My son had graduated from high school about a year when discipline at his former school started to deteriorate. I am glad he got out when he did, but l worry about future generations.
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• United Kingdom
3 May
School shootings are not as common where I live in the UK but we do have to worry about things such as knife crime that obviously can be worrying. I often see school shootings in say the US and hear about children being caught up and killed in it and it does upset me. If I was in say the US and I had a choice, I would probably home-school my kids, would hate to have that worry about my kids not coming home due to a shooting.
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@Kandae11 (53677)
3 May
Can you imagine how awful it must be for the parents of those little victims ? Watching their happy faces as they head off for school - then to hear that kind of news.