12/4/24 - Update On My Husband
By LindaOH
@LindaOHio (210110)
United States
December 4, 2024 4:13am CST
I did not hear from him yesterday; and I did not attempt to call. I will try and call today. Lately he does not seem to be able to call on his own too often.
Monday we talked about moving him again. We both decided he should stay where he is until his doctor's appointment on the 10th. The facility will make arrangements to take him there and take him back to the facility.
Thank you for your continued prayers, support and thoughts.
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@wolfgirl569 (127574)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Dec 24
Hope the appointment is good. If you can't meet him there see if they will call and include you so you know first hand what is going on.
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@wolfgirl569 (127574)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Dec 24
@MarieCoyle It's better than trying to figure things out second hand. Especially when they are having memory problems.
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@MarieCoyle (53055)
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4 Dec 24
I had to do that with my aunt's doctor a few times. They called me, and put me on speaker phone and we talked that way with aunt, me, and the doctor. I hated it, but I couldn't always be there.
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@FourWalls (81648)
• United States
4 Dec 24
I’m glad you don’t have to worry about supplying the transportation for his doctor’s appointment!!
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
5 Dec 24
Yes. There's no way I could have someone handle him.
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
5 Dec 24
I will have to find out who the doctor is.
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@snowy22315 (201074)
• United States
4 Dec 24
Has the care at the place where he's at gotten any better?
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
6 Dec 24
@MarieCoyle The first place was much better as far as care goes.
@MarieCoyle (53055)
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5 Dec 24
@LindaOHio
Which one had better care in your opinion, the first place or the one he is in now? I hope you can get it worked out. It may come down to which facility is best to care for a dementia/sundowning resident.
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@TheHorse (233547)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Dec 24
@LindaOHio Are you informed concerning what the Dr. visit is about?
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
6 Dec 24
@TheHorse He has that 18" Foley inserted because he wasn't passing any urine. We should be able to find out what the problem is.
@lovebuglena (48497)
• Staten Island, New York
5 Dec 24
@LindaOHio would that be better for him?
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
6 Dec 24
@lovebuglena Yes. This new place sucks even more than the last place.
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@GardenGerty (167123)
• United States
5 Dec 24
They should at least be able to get that right.
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
5 Dec 24
Especially since we don't know what his problem is.
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@kaylachan (81671)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Dec 24
I hope you can find a way to make it to his appoitment at least. As his wife, you should know what's going on. You know when and where it'll be, and you have time to make calls and see if you can be there.
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@kaylachan (81671)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Dec 24
@LindaOHio You should know those things.
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
5 Dec 24
Yes. I need to find out who the doctor is.
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@LindaOHio (210110)
• United States
5 Dec 24
Yes. Otherwise there's no way I could provide transport.
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@andriaperry (118691)
• Anniston, Alabama
5 Dec 24
I hope the both of you get well soon.
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@RasmaSandra (92635)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Dec 24
I sure hope the appointment will go well, Blessings to you both,
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@Marilynda1225 (87723)
• United States
4 Dec 24
Hopefully the doctor will say he can remove the catheter. Probably best not to think about moving him until after his appointment.
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@Beestring (15377)
• Hong Kong
4 Dec 24
That's a wise decision to stay where he is after his doctor's appointment. Hope there is nothing serious.
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