Tish Has Gone to Be With Her Brother

@RasmaSandra (95871)
Daytona Beach, Florida
March 25, 2025 3:56pm CST
Just too much loss in March.Tish was just inconsolable after Freddie passed so suddenly. It was looking like she would and I am happy imagining their wonderful reunion. As time has added numbers to my birthdays I always had this feeling I would go on completely alone. I am done with animal parenting and I know my further journey will have the Lord watching over me.
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@MarieCoyle (56600)
25 Mar 25
I am truly sorry, I know you really loved your kitties.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Mar 25
@MarieCoyle well this is the end of the line for any animals
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@MarieCoyle (56600)
25 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra I have always had dogs, and did a lot of rescue work, usually we had a foster animal or two of some kind. Right before my son was in the wreck, and then so sick since, I have not even thought about another pet. I am just flat out too busy to give one the time it needs, and the love, and the vet care has gone up so much in price, I worry that I couldn't provide everything a pet would need right now. That still doesn't mean I don't want one--maybe someday, but not now. After years of seeing how many animals need a home, I still want to provide that for one. But I do understand your feelings. When they go, they leave a big hole in our heart. Be kind to yourself, Rasma.
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@FourWalls (84477)
• United States
26 Mar 25
I’m so sorry. That is so painful, but especially so soon after Freddie.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@FourWalls she just could not go on without him
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@kaylachan (83732)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Mar 25
What happened? Where did you find her?
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@kaylachan (83732)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra Oh, I am sorry. I hope your nose didn't find her, first.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@kaylachan no I made sure to ask my friends downstairs for help, I did not let it go longer than one day. He took a flashlight and the rest is history,
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@kaylachan took only several days, She stopped eating, cried full voice, then crawled under the sofa and now is with her beloved brother, I know they are happy but what about me?
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@RebeccasFarm (91298)
• United States
26 Mar 25
What? What happened to Tish??
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• United States
27 Mar 25
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@Juliaacv (55370)
• Canada
26 Mar 25
I am sorry that Tish has passed. I noticed that you were not here for a bit, now I now why. I hope that your heart heals, it has been a rough time for you. Don't give up, you still have more living to do.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@Juliaacv whatever living I have to do the Lord will be with me and I think no more pets
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@Juliaacv (55370)
• Canada
26 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra You have many friends here too Sandra.
@JudyEv (375980)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Mar 25
I am so, so sorry to hear this. That must be so devastating. Sometimes, cats find their own people so I hope you'll be open to adopting another cat if one finds you.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@JudyEV I think no more pets but time will tell
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
27 Mar 25
@JudyEv if you had heard Tish cry practically scream you would understand more
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@JudyEv (375980)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra I find it a bit odd that they went so close together but I guess it's understandable.
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@celticeagle (187215)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Mar 25
How very sad. I'm sorry for this loss.
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@celticeagle (187215)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra .......that's a lot to take.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@celticeagle such a shocker all in one month.
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@allknowing (153626)
• India
26 Mar 25
Shocking news really How did this happen. She seemed overtaken by grief.
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@allknowing (153626)
• India
26 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra Such a sad situation
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@allknowing she grieved with full heart and soul and crying and stopped eating it took only days
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@Tampa_girl7 (54514)
• United States
26 Mar 25
That is too much loss in such a short time.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@Tampa_girl7 and I keep praying for strength to go on
@DaddyEvil (170832)
• United States
25 Mar 25
I'm so sorry! My sincere condolences!
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@DaddyEvil thank you
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@DaddyEvil (170832)
• United States
27 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra You're welcome.
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@wolfgirl569 (131989)
• Marion, Ohio
26 Mar 25
So sorry.
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@wolfgirl569 (131989)
• Marion, Ohio
26 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra I did once. I had brothers that were very bonded.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@wolfgirl569 kind of shocking for me I have never gone through something like this.
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@rakski (150694)
• Philippines
26 Mar 25
I am so sorry to know this
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@rakski (150694)
• Philippines
27 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra sending hugs to you
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@rakski very tough month
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• Torrington, Connecticut
26 Mar 25
Sorry for your loss
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@BACONSTRIPSXXX thank you
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@LindaOHio (217708)
• United States
26 Mar 25
That is so, so sad. I am so sorry. Sometimes I feel like that and will follow my husband soon.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@LindaOHio now you have to pull yourself together and gather your strength. Virtual hugs,
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@LindaOHio (217708)
• United States
27 Mar 25
@RasmaSandra Yes, I'm having trouble moving on. Perhaps with time.
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@GardenGerty (168319)
• United States
26 Mar 25
It is so sad to lose them so young. When the cat we moved here passed (old age and cancer) I said "no more", but I have been temporary home to several in the last five or so years. Now I just have Bruno, he is about seven years old. I tell Bob, no more. It is just too hard to lose them. So sorry for your loss.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@GardenGerty yes, I believe I will have no more pets.
@AmbiePam (116388)
• United States
25 Mar 25
Oh, no. I am so sorry, Sweetie. My heart absolutely breaks for you. They are both meeting my fur babies, I bet. Annabelle especially loved cats. I’ll be praying for you.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@AmbiePam thank you. It is rough to go through.
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@jstory07 (148015)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Mar 25
I am so sorry for your loss. How sad.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@jstory07 it would have been different if Tish had gone on without her brother but her grieving was hard and she stopped eating, Took just several days for it all to go downhill.
@sw8sincere (6026)
• Philippines
26 Mar 25
I hope you find comfort in the memories and knowing they’re at peace. Take care of yourself.
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@sw8sincere thank you
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26 Mar 25
Oh I am sorry to hear this. Everything happens for a reason
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@Danielclark691 I would like to know why two cats in one month
@jnrdutton (3428)
• United States
26 Mar 25
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@RasmaSandra (95871)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 25
@jnrdutton life is tough