The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other members here past or present.
@GoAskAlice (5866)
October 5, 2025 8:25am CST
This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it.
The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other members.
It has recently been brought to my attention that some users here have chosen to begin discussing other users, by name, quite often in a derogatory manner, in...
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@LindaOHio (222971)
• United States
5 Oct 25
I will do my best not to ask about a member that has disappeared; and will only post if someone has passed away.
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@LindaOHio (222971)
• United States
7 Oct 25
@rebelann Sometimes people get notified through Facebook.
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@celticeagle (195023)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Oct 25
Thank you @LadyDuck for directing this to me.
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@celticeagle (195023)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Oct 25
@LadyDuck .......It was and I appreciate it.
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@RebeccasFarm (91270)
• Arvada, Colorado
5 Oct 25
Dang gossips, what are they doing now?
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@rebelann (118876)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Oct 25
If only there weren't those Harriet types around
In the 14 years I've been here I've never gotten to see those kinds of posts ....... I wooda reported them if I had ....... but I have seen some that let everyone know about a well liked member passing away which I know admin wouldn't object to.
Does this mean my chair can rest easy now cuz ya can't make fun of it anymore??
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@FourWalls (89218)
• United States
5 Oct 25
Oh, rats, someone talking about me again? And I didn’t get to corroborate things? 
Seriously, there’s a vast difference in genuine concern (such as late last year/early this year when Linda Ohio’s husband passed away) and malicious gossip. When Linda came back I deleted the discussion about her. And “I wonder if (whomever) is okay” is not the same as saying “that lowlife brat.”
Seriously, there’s a vast difference in genuine concern (such as late last year/early this year when Linda Ohio’s husband passed away) and malicious gossip. When Linda came back I deleted the discussion about her. And “I wonder if (whomever) is okay” is not the same as saying “that lowlife brat.”7 people like this
You are welcome, I am sure that many thought it was normal to post to ask about other members.
@dpk262006 (58580)
• Delhi, India
21 Oct 25
Ideally speaking if you are friends here with someone, you can communicate with them through Private Messages. However, if response to PMs is not forthcoming for a long time then a discussion should be allowed on this subject. Having said that if myLot rules do not permit a discussion about a user, then we will have no option but to follow the rules.
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@ptrikha_2 (49915)
• India
8 Oct 25
I think we need a somewhat more liberal approach.
While not fully allowed, occasional talk can sometimes be there about a person.
And checkout more with your experiences.
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@Letranknight2015 (52744)
• Philippines
10 Oct 25
So we don't talk about them specially when they recently passed? Well, okay i won't be discussing them.
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@RasmaSandra (101539)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Oct 25
Understood and noted. Thank you for the suggestion @rebelann1949.
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@Chellezhere (6414)
• United States
9 Oct 25
I'm still here—just took a break for a bit.
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@SIDIKIMPOLE (3483)
• Eldoret, Kenya
7 Oct 25
Very well understood. Thanks Admin.
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@Nakitakona (60192)
• Philippines
11 Oct 25
Thanks Admin. This is right. Hope this will be taken seriously by mu fellow mylot users.
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