Meet Victoria ~ All the Men Want To

Thanks. It’s going to be a difficult decision for her. He would never give up his career or family to move to Germany. That sounds like an ideal situation for you. And amazing to hear!

@DianneN - I met my husband in the financial office where I was hired for my first (and last) job.

I met my husband when in college at a party.

@LadyDuck Was he your boss?

@DianneN Not really, but I'll take your word for it.

She has one. Can’t you see it?

@DianneN You like her and you know it

She has massive green eyes is 5’8”, thin and beautiful. I hate her guts! That’s cool, and thank for letting me know.

I’m not too surprised of how you and Vince met. I agree that long distance relationships can be difficult and frankly, I don’t see how it would ever be possible. Time will tell and thank you.

@DianneN Travelling long distances is/was easier than it used to be but even so, it would have to be difficult.

I thought you’d like her lol. She’s 5’8”, slim, and has a great personality. If you say so. I will ask her Saturday. I’m going to see her again.

@DianneN Can I come? I'll bring my guitar

@thedevilinme Only if you sing some love songs and can really play the guitar. Just behave yourself. She’s more gorgeous in person.

@DianneN wow I am shocked they don’t find her beautiful. It’s hard to believe anyone could look at her and think she isn’t. I’m not sure why I thought it was 2 weeks. Still it was very generous of you for allowing someone you just met and who your nephew didn’t know long to stay with you at all!

Two days! I was at my brother and sister in law’s house this afternoon and as much as we like her, they don’t think it will last. My younger son is on FaceTime right now, and saw the photos of her. He doesn’t think she’s beautiful and nor does my husband. Heaven help me!

@DianneN

We discussed it and decided it wasn’t possible

That’s a true love story! I know how much you love each other to this day, and it was certainly meant to be I was lavaliered to my boyfriend of six years. He was far away at another university and I was at mine, but still dated others. One of my roommates was seeing someone who lived in a house with my husband. They threw a party and all my roommates went. I wasn’t about to sit home, so I went and met hubs. He asked me to see a piano player friend right after the party and I went. We hit it off immediately and on our next date, he told me that I was going to marry him. He was right, but my old boyfriend wound up having a nervous breakdown, never went to med school, eventually became a dentist, continued bothering me for years….. I felt so guilty, but I was in love with hubs. Years later he belonged to our beach club and followed me around, but hubs was friendly to him. We saw him again at my high school reunion and again years later at a fundraiser. He still talked with hubs, and followed us wherever we went. So sad….but so happy for us. Whew!

@DianneN You're welcome.

Thanks, but time will tell……..

@DianneN It's kind of nice to hear that he's invested in his career before settling down. I doubt he'll have trouble finding the "right" one when the time is right. Keep us posted on this relationship as it will be interesting to hear if it works.

@Marilynda1225 Thanks Marilyn! Will do.

Time will tell. Girls always hit on him, but he hasn’t had a girlfriend in several years. He’s very invested in his career and other business ventures. Something must be wrong with him with all the beautiful girls in Miami and NYC

@JESSY3236 If you’re happy with that arrangement, then it’s good by me. Btw, you don’t need an expensive ring to get married. And, it can always be upgraded years later.

I remembered that. Aren’t you and Chris engaged? Any plans on getting married? Yes, she has the most beautiful green eyes and is stunning, especially in person. I really don’t know how their relationship will end up. It’s too bad, because they make a great couple.

@DianneN We aren't exactly engaged. I still wear the ring though. We did get "married" in Las Vegas many years ago, but we had to get it annulled because of my family. I did ask him while I was in NJ back in November if he wanted to get married for real, but he said the ring is too expensive. He said his uncle isn't married and has a girlfriend.

I never knew that! Live and learn

Yes, I know Good for you taking the first step! I know you had a long marriage and not many couples can say that. I misspelled her name. It’s Viktoria. She has the most amazing green eyes that I’ve ever seen.

@DianneN It takes the right person for him to be ready.

I will let you know. He had a long distance relationship with a girl who lived in Los Angeles and when he was living in Manhattan. Fortunately, she flew to the city twice a month for her job. But they broke up when they both moved to Seattle and she wanted to get married and have babies. He wasn’t ready for that.

We hope so, too, but it seems impossible. I met my husband when I was in college and he was in graduate school. Good place to meet one’s spouse

@DianneN true

I agree. It’s a go or not.

@DianneN We were young and sometimes it's not all about poetry.

Times have certainly changed, but as long as you love each other and have a happy and healthy marriage, nothing else matters.

Only time will tell and thank you. I really like her, despite her being way too beautiful