She’s Devastated

@AmbiePam (119024)
United States
March 20, 2026 10:00am CST
Does anyone remember me talking a couple times about my best friend who has a rescue? You might remember the city tried to close her down. She had her hearing last year, and won her case. She rescues dogs, cats, and goats. This year, the city did it again. Unfortunately, this year she lost her case, and she has until the the end of April to get rid of all but four of the 36 dogs she cares for. My best friend is devastated. We both know some of those dogs will not find homes once confiscated. On a side note, she can keep her 15 goats, and six cats. She is taking it so hard. I’m going to be frank; she’s better off without all of those dogs. She is so far in debt keeping her rescue open it’s not funny; she makes good money being a nurse, but her finances are a mess. Now, the dogs don’t deserve to be taken to the pound, and that is sad. She knows already which four she’s keeping, and she’s desperately trying to find homes for the others. I’d love to take one, but Sadie doesn’t like other dogs, and I also can’t afford another one. It’s just too bad.
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@FourWalls (85842)
• United States
20 Mar
There comes a point when we have to realize that we can’t save every animal on the planet (or every person), and just do what we can. I’m so sorry she lost her case, but it may be for her best in the long run. Sometimes we get so focused on helping others that we forget ourselves. (And I’m speaking from personal experience there.)
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
20 Mar
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@DaddyEvil (173662)
• United States
20 Mar
I'm sorry your friend lost the case but, if she's struggling financially trying to care for all the rescued animals, then it's probably for the best that she lost the case. I understand she doesn't want them to go to the pound but there's not really an alternative or she would have already done that. I hope things work out for her.
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
20 Mar
I’m not going to tell her I think it’s for the best, but this needed to happen.
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@DaddyEvil (173662)
• United States
20 Mar
@AmbiePam I understand.
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@sallypup (68954)
• Centralia, Washington
20 Mar
Your loving friend really took on a huge job. I'm sorry and I hope things work out for the best for one and all. The local Rescue woman over here amazes and worries me. Imagine driving four hours or more through freaky heavy traffic with dozens of cat carriers in your vehicle! Getting up at 4 am and heading out.....How can a human keep doing that? I admire your friend and my local person deeply but yeah, worry.
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
20 Mar
You are so right, Lenore. Last year when the city told her she had to get rid of several of her dogs, she drove from Oklahoma to Alabama because there was a rescue who agreed to take six of her chihuahuas.
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@sallypup (68954)
• Centralia, Washington
20 Mar
@AmbiePam That's loving dedication. The entire mess with animal populations in America could depress me to my core if I let it. Now I'm hearing about more people advocating spaying cats who are pregnant cause if you don't, the cat gives you more kittens with no homes. I don't like aborting like that but do what otherwise?
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@JudyEv (379679)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar
That is so sad for your friend but sometimes these things turn out for the best although you can't see it at the time.
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
21 Mar
That’s what what I want to tell her, but of course that’s not what she wants to hear. It’s true though.
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@JudyEv (379679)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar
@AmbiePam There are possibly others that are telling her. She will appreciate your support and lack of advice.
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@Shivram59 (49512)
• India
20 Mar
I can understand the frustration and disappointment she is undergoing. I pray she gets some other arrangements for the dogs.
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
20 Mar
That is very nice of you.
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@Shivram59 (49512)
• India
22 Mar
@AmbiePam Thank you, my friend.
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@MarieCoyle (58064)
20 Mar
Working in rescue is heartbreaking. Your heart is in it, you bring home the desperate , the ones no one wants, to try to give them a chance. I remember how completely buried I became after Katrina hit and all of the animals came north as they ran out of places to take them. It was so hard...I feel sorry for your friend. Honestly, it hurts so badly to realize that you can't save them all, it's just not possible. And it's such a bad time right now for pets in general. They are being relinquished at record rates right now as people are struggling to feed families. Give her a big hug from me, please.
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
20 Mar
I will, Marie.,
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@MarieCoyle (58064)
21 Mar
@AmbiePam I truly hope she can find homes for them,or at least for some!!
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@snowy22315 (207301)
• United States
20 Mar
Maybe she can take them to other rescue organizations or a no kill shelter at a minimum. That is really hard..but it sounds like she can't afford to keep it open anyway. Maybe she could regroup..get a grant orFacebook Go fund me or Nextdoor funding or team up with another rescue group..and try to re open under a different name.
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@pahak627 (5347)
• Philippines
21 Mar
I'm sorry to hear about your friend's predicament. We'll just hope she can find homes for the dogs. I understand how she will feel once she give these dogs for adoption. Anyway, she'll still have 4 after the others are given away.
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
21 Mar
I’m so glad she gets at least four. If they had told her none I would have feared for her mental health.
@LadyDuck (500498)
• Italy
20 Mar
I feel sorry for your friend because she is an animal lover and I understand how devastated she could be now. I hope she can find a temporary arrangement for all those dogs.
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@wolfgirl569 (134300)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Mar
Sorry she lost. I hope she can find homes for all of them
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@RasmaSandra (97081)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Mar
I would quickly become homeless if I had 15 goats and 6 cats.
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@LindaOHio (220745)
• United States
21 Mar
What a pity. I feel sorry for the dogs that can't be kept. There is a limit to how many animals you can keep financially though. Poor friend.
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• Philippines
21 Mar
That’s heartbreaking. If I were there, I would adopt them, especially when I’m financially able to do so. I really hope they find loving and responsible homes.
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@AmbiePam (119024)
• United States
21 Mar
So do I.
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@Neil43 (4483)
20 Mar
I hope she's still okay though.
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@BarBaraPrz (51755)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
20 Mar
Put horns on the dogs and say they're goats?
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@dodo19 (48065)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
20 Mar
That's really sad. It's such a shame she has to do this. I can only imagine how devastated she is.
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• United States
20 Mar
I hope your friend can find homes for the dogs. But, as you said, she's probably better off if she's in that much debt.
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@franxav (14551)
• India
20 Mar
If the government can take care of the dogs and employ this good lady as caretaker, perhaps it would be a solution.
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