I Am Not Invited.

Alone with your kids at home can be fun... I know because Pretty and I had your kids with us here for a few days. My friend was invited out to dinner by other friends. After they ate, the friends who invited my friend called and asked why I didn't go out to dinner, too. They said they told my friend to invite me to go, as well... My friend said it wasn't his place to invite me. He said if they wanted me to go to dinner, too, they should have invited me. *shrug*

And, it's okay if your not. It's not a big deal. You don't seem down about it.

That was rude! Do you know the reason why you were not invited?

Wow. You don't seem to be sad. If it was me, I would be super sad and offended.

alone time sounds so much better and i support you. honestly, i don't like when a family member is seperating the couple but since he was paying, let him have it.

It can't be avoided feeling sad but there's no reason to stay sad. Well, eating at home with your kids can be fun too. Just think finally, I can all have the time spending it with my kids. I will lock the door and not let my husband enter the house because we are sleeping early. Kidding!

Going out, or staying in, they both have their advantages.

Maybe his invitation to your husband is also his invitation for you? But anyway it is normal to feel sad, but its not normal to take it in your heart. At least you can enjoy having fun with your kids.

Without knowing why he did that, I’d be upset. If I was your husband, I wouldn’t go either, unless you were invited. Is there some sort of family feud going on?

Just would like to know why you were not included I think you should have been,

It seems a bit rude but I'm glad you're not bothered.

Personally I think it’s mean ….. Unless it is to talk about ‘ family matters ‘ …..and even then I think it’s mean. Is it a special occasion …Birthday perhaps ? If SIL has her hubby going ….why aren’t you going ?

It makes us wonder but not worth brooding over. When such happens, I think for any particular reason but it is soon water under the bridge. I don't allow others to make me unhappy.

Its sad to know that your brother-in law is like that, but you dont need to be sad. You dont need him, you only need your husband and your children. Just enjoy your day and bond with your children.

That's very mean of him. Your SIL can go but I think your husband shouldn't go.