Considering Making The Big Move!

Torrington, Connecticut
June 17, 2026 8:33am CST
So recently I was offered a Job promotion for roughly around 130k a year but the only thing is that the job is 700 miles down south in North Carolina. I always wanted to move down south for better weather and a way less expensive cost of living compared to Connecticut. I'm about 75% sure that this would be a good move and overall give my entire family a better quality of life but there's still many factors I'm considering. I will miss being just an hour from New York City but that will no longer hold me back. I applied this morning to the position and if they ask to interview me then il be taking a few days off to head down south. My sister moved to North Carolina last year and she has been loving it, your money goes a long way down there.
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@FourWalls (88185)
• United States
17 Jun
The weather’s nicer, that’s for certain!!
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Yeah even though they did get some snow last winter lol
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@wolfgirl569 (138465)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Jun
I am wishing you lots of luck.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Thanks Eva
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@GardenGerty (170358)
• United States
17 Jun
It would probably be a big change but you are young enough to enjoy it.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Definitely is
@rakski (158648)
• Philippines
17 Jun
I think you always know the answer deep in your heart. Praying for your promotion!!
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@rakski (158648)
• Philippines
17 Jun
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Thanks!
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@Shiva49 (28594)
• Singapore
17 Jun
Moving out of the comfort zone. I did a few times and have no regrets. .
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Thats true
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@valherma00 (4870)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
17 Jun
i hope they will interview you. if this will benefit your family and you, i'm cheering on you
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Thanks Val!
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• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Jun
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@AmbiePam (124115)
• United States
18 Jun
That sounds great! North Carolina sure is lovely. I hope you get it! I look forward to hearing what will inevitably be good news.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Thanks Amber
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@JudyEv (385494)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jun
I wish you the very best with this. Having cheaper prices would be very beneficial.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Thanks Judy
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@Traceyjayne (12721)
• United Kingdom
17 Jun
It seems too good to miss ….i hope it works out for you .
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Thanks Tracey
@AliCanary (4791)
24 Jun
Heyyy, fam! I moved from Philadelphia to North Carolina 30+ years ago and have not regretted it for a minute. Come on down! You can drive to Disney World from here and hit Charleston and Atlanta on the way!
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• Torrington, Connecticut
24 Jun
Id be going to Myrtle beach on weekends if I move lol
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• Torrington, Connecticut
26 Jun
@AliCanary Ouuuuu I love Aquariums, thanks for the reccomendation
@AliCanary (4791)
25 Jun
@BACONSTRIPSXXX Also try Carolina Beach, Wrightsville Beach in Wilmington, and Kure Beach (just south of Carolina Beach -- not as commercial, but there's a fantastic NC Aquarium location there)!
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@thelme55 (79821)
• Germany
17 Jun
Good luck for your future life in North Carolina.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Thanks Thelma!
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• Torrington, Connecticut
24 Jun
@thelme55 Thanks you too
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@thelme55 (79821)
• Germany
23 Jun
@BACONSTRIPSXXX You’re welcome. Have a nice week.
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@Kandae11 (57253)
18 Jun
Nowhere is perfect, but thumbs up for a big increase in salary.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Agreed, sometimes coming out of your comfort zone is good
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@porwest (113648)
• United States
19 Jun
As I always say, you have to go where the money is. And if the cost of living is cheaper and you can stretch that money further, even better.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
19 Jun
Yeah that would be ideal, less work more money lower cost of living
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@porwest (113648)
• United States
22 Jun
@BACONSTRIPSXXX And smartly done, if there's more money and less expense, you can sock away the difference.
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@TishaMears (1049)
• United States
18 Jun
My parents retired to the Carolinas. It's different. I'm a tri-state girl. I like civilization. My parents are somewhat enjoying their retirement down there, though. Once again, I said retirement. People seem to think that it's much lower in cost than up here. It used to be, but with gas and other things there's a balance. The gas in S.C. is a little bit lower than N.J. but N.C. is maybe a little closer to N.Y. maybe P.A. Also, the taxes on certain things are different. As far as I know, in S.C. you're taxed on your car every year which is ridiculous. I don't know how you do it in Connecticut but in N.Y. and N.J. we just have to pay low registration fees each year. I'm not sure what N.C. does for cars. I also like the change in seasons up here. The snow can be a lot sometimes, but we deal with it and keep it moving. I've had family and friends move down south in the past and were happy with the choice then. Now they're complaining that the costs aren't much different from up here anymore. Also with climate change, the weather hasn't been that different from what we've been having up here. I don't like the heat too much. But if you're gonna have a nice salaried job, then go for it if it's what you'd like.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Yeah I have 4 vehicles and have to pay car taxes for all of them and my property tax a year is around 16K, in North Carolina il be around 3500. Its a lot of factors but overall food, gas, light is a lot cheaper down there. Every time I visit my sister I notice the price differences when were out shopping on dining
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• United States
18 Jun
@BACONSTRIPSXXX Oh, ok. So moving down there would be good for you..the property taxes is the main reason why my parents moved down there, too. I'm sending you a message
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@snowy22315 (211561)
• United States
17 Jun
If your family is interested I say Go for it
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
My wife is starting to entertain the fact she wont have to work anymore lol
@dodo19 (48376)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
17 Jun
Best of luck! I do hope things go well and you're able to get the job.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Appreciate it
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@Juliaacv (57060)
• Canada
17 Jun
It sounds like you just need the job to be offered to you. Congratulations, that would be a huge decision to consider. I remember my husband had the opportunity to relocate when our son was 16 or 17, but he got so upset at the thought of not being able to finish his high school years at the same school, and when I looked at the housing costs, he decided not to accept the position. But that doesn't apply to you, so good luck!
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Yeah I'm kind of sort of in the same predicament
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@RasmaSandra (99617)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Jun
I wish you the best of luck and hope you get the job,
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
Thanks for the positivity
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• United States
17 Jun
That's a big decision but it's hard to pass up an opportunity like that. Hope it all works out for you.
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• Torrington, Connecticut
17 Jun
Yeah tough one for sure
@garymarsh6 (24295)
• United Kingdom
17 Jun
What a fantastic opportunity. I hope you will take it & your family will love it too. I think the winters down there won't be as harsh?
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• Torrington, Connecticut
18 Jun
For sure, last winter here up north was brutal
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