The Staples Hurt...

By DE
@DaddyEvil (177837)
United States
September 4, 2026 9:06am CST
Pretty keeps checking the staples in my back. She says the area around them is red but not infected looking. She cleaned around them and put a bandaid over them but something in my bedding keeps pulling/tugging on the bandaids until they come off. That is annoying and it hurts. I'm MORE than ready for the staples to come out now even though we won't see the doctor for another week to have that done. Have you ever been ready for something to come out way before time for it to happen?
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@FourWalls (87517)
• United States
15h
They had fishing lures (my surgeon said they were literal fishing lures!) holding my dissolvable stitches together after my hysterectomy. Yeah, those suckers had to go.
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@FourWalls (87517)
• United States
6h
@DaddyEvil — the stitches themselves were the dissolving kind, but they had to be held in place for a week.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
Just now
@FourWalls Sometimes I think doctors just "make-do" putting human bodies back together.
@Wrexxo (6643)
17h
Ugh that sounds so uncomfortable, waiting a whole week when it's already itchy and pulling at everything sounds miserable. I've def had those days where I just want the healing part over already, patience is not always my strong suit lol. Hope the redness stays calm till your appointment.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
17h
Thanks. I suggested we could see my regular doctor today and see if she'd take the staples out but they've only been in for a week and that isn't long enough.... *sigh*
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
7h
@Wrexxo Thanks. I'm a big boy and hate little annoying things.
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@Wrexxo (6643)
16h
@DaddyEvil I'm sorry about the pain..hope time just fly by quickly...it sucks
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@AmbiePam (126362)
• United States
17h
Probably just stitches in my hand. Staples are so lazy and bothersome. Take the time to sew your patient up, ya lazy doctors!
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
17h
That's what I thought at the time. I've had my hands stitched up, too. Those were definitely annoying at the time. I had carpal tunnel surgery on my left hand and put my right hand through our garage window. Both were fun times.
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@AmbiePam (126362)
• United States
17h
@DaddyEvil Oh, ugh. My mom and sister had carpal tunnel surgery. It was a necessary evil, but such an annoyance.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
17h
@AmbiePam Oh, I definitely agee. I couldn't take pain meds after I had the carpal tunnel surgery, though. The meds the doctor gave me made me throw up. When I complained, he told me he couldn't give me anything else.
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@LadyDuck (508834)
• Italy
16h
I ever had the problem, but I remember that my husband had enough of stables that hurt, he went to see his regular doctor and he removed the staples before the time suggested by the hospital.
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@LadyDuck (508834)
• Italy
2h
@DaddyEvil - My husband could remove the staples after 8 days. I hope it works also for you.
@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
7h
I'm really hoping that's what happens when we see our regular doctor in a few days. (Tuesday morning.)
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@lovebuglena (53409)
• Staten Island, New York
16h
Why do you have staples in your back?
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
7h
The staples are holding the hole closed so it can heal where the doctor put in the drain so they could remove spinal fluid while I was in the hospital. IF they put the real drain in, it will be located behind my left ear in that soft spot. That leads directly into a person's skull and they can leave that in for the rest of my life.
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@lovebuglena (53409)
• Staten Island, New York
6h
@DaddyEvil Oh wow! Is that area going to get stitched up? Are they gonna put the real drain in?
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@septabchips (1294)
• United Kingdom
15h
Oh yes, waiting for something uncomfortable to come out can feel like it takes forever! I can imagine how frustrating it must be when the bedding keeps catching the bandages and pulling on them. Hopefully the staples come out next week and you can finally stop worrying about them. Some things are definitely much easier to tolerate once you know there is an end date!
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
7h
True, it just can't happen soon enough for me. Thank you.
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• United Kingdom
6h
@DaddyEvil I can imagine! Once you know something is coming out, waiting for it can feel twice as long. Hopefully next week comes quickly and you can finally get some relief.
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@GardenGerty (170519)
• United States
9h
Two babies. pregnancy is not fun in the summer, and my kiddoes were big.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
8h
Okay, okay... You've got me beat! At least Pretty wasn't very big when she was born. That never stopped her mom from complaining, though.
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@celticeagle (193158)
• Boise, Idaho
16h
Oh, yah! Hope you can find a way to make it another week.
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@celticeagle (193158)
• Boise, Idaho
5h
@DaddyEvil ........i wouldn't either. I must have missed your post on what had happened.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
7h
Thank you. I keep suggesting Pretty take them out but she won't even consider it.
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@RebeccasFarm (91292)
• United States
7h
Oh my gosh that sounds horrible..what happened to you DE?
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
7h
Hey! It's been a while since I've seen you! I hope you and your son are doing well. I'm just having a little trouble with hydrocephalus (water on the brain, older adult version). I'm having trouble with my balance, walking oddly and losing memories. My neurologist had me check into a hospital last week so they could run tests on me to see if I'm a good candidate for a drain and tube running from my head into my abdomen to drain off spinal fluid to relieve pressure on my brain. The test seemed to work but we go back this coming week to see what the neurologist says. The staples were put in after the hose was removed from my spine. The neurologist will remove the staples when she sees me next week. I just have to put up with them a little while longer.
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@Juliaacv (57343)
• Canada
14h
That sounds very uncomfortable and although I have never had staples, I think that it is safe to say that the tugging would keep me up at night and make me do a count down until they are removed. I remember that I had dissolvable stitches when I had my C-Section when I had our daughter. There was just a (thread) knot sticking out of my skin on 1 side. They told me that they would need to pull that and cut it so that the dissolvable stitches could heal, and that had to be done just before I was discharged. I remember standing at the elevators, waiting to leave the hospital when my nurse came running towards me asking me to return to my bed so that she could cut the knot. We both totally forgot.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
8h
Wow! You weere really anxious to get out of there, weren't you? I'm glad things turned out well for you!
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@wolfgirl569 (140052)
• Marion, Ohio
10h
Maybe try a gauze bandage over them.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
8h
I'll mention that to Pretty and see what she thinks. Thank you for the suggestion.
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@RasmaSandra (100507)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10h
I hope you can find a comfortable way to deal with them.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
8h
Thank you. I appreciate that.
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• United States
17h
I hope this week goes fast for you so you can get those darn staples removed. I'm sure it's very uncomfortable.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
17h
Thank you. They keep catching on my sheets and pulling.
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• United States
14h
This is going to sound weird - but it works. When my prior husband (now deceased) had hip replacement, he had 21 staples down his hip/leg. The doctor told us to take a Kotex pad with the cottony side facing the staples, and then use medical tape to tape it over the staples and that caught all the drainage and didn't let the staples get caught on anything.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
8h
I don't have drainage and the staples are smaller than the pad on a regular bandage.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54620)
• United States
17h
I hope that time goes quickly for you until they come out. I had staples when I had my c-section. It was a relief to get them out.
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
17h
But you had fun playing with your baby so probably didn't notice the staples most of the time. I don't have a baby to play with me.
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@rakski (160321)
• Philippines
4h
Lumbar puncture requires staple?
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
Just now
Yes, to hold the wound closed until it heals.
@JudyEv (387585)
• Rockingham, Australia
5h
I wonder what is catching on the bandaids. Would a different sheet help? Maybe cotton if you're using flannelette?
@eLdav1s (937)
• Nigeria
3h
Oh i have found myself wanting to remove something way before it's time before though. Sorry about thr discomfort.
@indahwow (143)
• Yogyakarta, Indonesia
57m
Yes, I can definitely understand that feeling! When something is uncomfortable and keeps getting pulled, you just want it gone already. Hopefully the staples come out soon and you’ll be much more comfortable. At least it sounds like Pretty is keeping a close eye on the area. Take care and hang in there!
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@DaddyEvil (177837)
• United States
Just now
Thanks. Pretty washes that area for me so I don't snag on a washcloth or a scrubbie and yank the staples out.