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myLot reputation of 92/100. beautyqueen26 (34377)   ranked 276 out of 9,015 in parenting 4 years ago

Do you ever worry when your child or teen locks
their bedroom door? Do you think they are trying
to hide something from you?

Whenever my daughter locks her bedroom door, I know
for a fact that she is about to do something wrong!

Last time she locked her door, she had put a box
up on her bed and was sitting in it.

When I finally got the door unlocked she looked
worried like I was going to be mad. And of course
I wasn't mad.

Just worried. I didn't make a big deal about it.

I know that she locks the door so I won't catch
her doing something she should not.

What would you do if your child started locking their
door during the middle of the day?

Would you suspect that they were up to no good?


 

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1. myLot reputation of 82/100. spalladino (11857)   ranked 494 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

If my daughter was HOME during the day I'd worry that she was up to no good because, at 17, she is rarely home. She does lock her bedroom door sometimes but her excuse is usually that she is changing her clothes (again) and she doesn't want me to barge in on her. I agree that teens especially need their privacy so I wouldn't worry too much about the locked door unless you start to smell strange smells coming from her bedroom.

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. hiccup (8758)   4 years ago

My girls did that at an early age i took the lock out of the doors,

I felt there was no need for small children to have a locked door at anytime.

Just think how many fires have been in childrens rooms, A good reason not to have locks on doors.

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myLot reputation of 92/100. beautyqueen26 (34377)   ranked 276 out of 9,015 in parenting  4 years ago

Good grief! I never considered fires in her bedroom.
Well that's one more thing to worry about.


myLot reputation of 91/100. capirani (981)  4 years ago

I agree. That is a perfect example of a reason to not have locks on children's bedroom doors.

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3. myLot reputation of 75/100. irishidid (3461)   ranked 1,622 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

If I were constantly barging in their rooms they probably would start locking the doors. At this point they don't because I give them their privacy. I knock on the door before entering.

I don't think a locked door automatically means they are up to no good. My kids have never given me any reason to not trust them.

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. Ravenladyj (19028)   ranked 475 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

As much as I trust my kids..thats a key reason why they DONT have locks on their bedroom doors...its just too tempting for a kid to get into trouble IMO...

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5. myLot reputation of 64/100. maryrajam1962 (240)   ranked 3,295 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

My son locks his door at night so that I will not catch him sleeping with the lights on. I took away the keys so I can now open the door. He does not do anything bad. So far he did not lock the door during the day.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. katsmeow1213 (7762)   ranked 143 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

My kids don't have locks on their doors. My oldest keeps begging for a lock to keep his siblings out of his room, but he is the only one who has something other than his bed and dresser in his room. The younger children have all their toys downstairs, and nothing in their room but a bed and dresser. The only time they spend in their room is getting dressed and sleeping.
The oldest has his books and games and a TV, but not much else, so really nothing for him to get in trouble, unless he's watching TV when he's been told not to.


myLot reputation of 92/100. beautyqueen26 (34377)   ranked 276 out of 9,015 in parenting  4 years ago

In our house, it's just the opposite.
Her toys are in her bedroom, cause the livingroom
overheats in the summer and freezes in the winter.

I don't want to get her used to playing in there.
Sometimes, I wish we had a big family room with
central heat and air.

Well wishes don't pay for themselves! lol

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. alori61 (232)   ranked 875 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

In my house a locked door is most generally just a message to siblings that the child behind that door needs some privacy. I don't fret over them unless they are being used to torment another child then I step in. Locks are not a big deal around here it just means we have a large family in a small house and someone needs some down time.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. deebomb (10022)   ranked 282 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

We have a policy at our house when a bedroom door is closed stay out unless you knock. It has worked very well for us over the years and we don't have locked doors.Yes teens do need their privacy and that needs to be respected. But as you said a locked door can mean trouble.

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. gemini_rose (10252)   ranked 167 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

We do not have locks on any of our bedroom doors, the only door that has a lock on it is in the bathroom. But as of yet none of mine have ever locked the door on themselves! As of yet I say LOL

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. christies2boys (454)   ranked 1,422 out of 9,015 in parenting   4 years ago

My kids don't have locks on their doors.My husband removed them when they were young.
Because when my son was 3 he locked himself in his room.And was crying because he could not get out.Thank goodness that he finally got the door unlocked.When my boys close their doors they are always up to know good.

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