Is He My Roommate Or My Husband? Hmmm.

ive been to a situation like that but not as worse ( im sorry ). were not married but were like living together. it hurts a lot to know that the other one had fallen out of love on the other one.. but as we said. there are things that are intentionally happening because there would be a better one thats coming.

If you have kids, you need to seperate. My parents marriage was dead for 6 years before they finally divorced. It was such a living hell. Everyone involved in that situation is happier now. I seriously did a happy dance the day their divorce papers came through. It sucks, but you shouldn't sacrifice your happiness for anyone else.

What a crying shame.Is there no chance you can at least get back with him? Have you got kids to think about, sometimes it does couples good to have a break and find out they are really good friends as well as husband and wife.What should you do,that is really up to you.Ask him to leave or you leave,if that is not practical draw up house rules and split the house hold chores,if one of you finds another partner don't bring them back to your home, get out and find friends but don't give up completely for a while as you could make a terrible mistake with another man.I am so sorry it has ended up like that for you,yes I have had a bit of this in the past and it is not very nice but you will get through this.xx

I tried to make it in a marriage for 20 years.
After the first 6-7 years, I knew the love
wasn't truly there.I stayed for my children,
I didn't want them in a broken home. Later I
realised the home was already broken. I got out
for my own sanity. We do what we must. I wish
you the best!

why are you guys living together if you're not married anymore?

I'm sorry to say, Yes
Tomorrow will be one week for me to be gone from my home after 17 years of marriage.
I fell out of love with him some time a go. I'm not quite sure how he fills about me.
If it is love, I'm sorry that love feel so painful.
The reason I feel out of love was the way he treated me. So I'm not sure if men can truly
be in love and treat women bad.

I wish you lots of luck. It is not easy, if you decide to leave. But I made a
decision for myself and my kids. For happiness.

If the truth were known I think most of us have been there, done that. Myself I decieded to hang in there, 3 small childdren, no educations, no work experience, I was painted into a tight corner, So I just hung on, finished school, got a job, kid went to school and pretty soon I was living with my best friend and we were raising kids together. 50 years later, he's still my best friend, but we are not in love, though we do love each other. That's how my choice turned ut. Good Luck

it happens to the best of us.
it's sad but you find a new love eventually or maybe take some time to yourself.

I am sorry to hear that. Yes, I have been in that situation before it is never pleasant. It lasted a couple years towards the end of my marriage. I wish the best of luck, strengh & prosperity if you decide that moving on is the best choice for you.

Yes, for almost 3 years. I knew it was over but thought things would change. They didn't. I fell out of love and tried to let him know that. He didn't get it even after about a year of me telling him. I finally realized it wouldn't change and I'd never love him again. I asked him to leave because I had nowhere else to go and he did. I am happier now then I have ever been. I found my real love of my life and we are engaged and have 2 beautiful children together.

I wish you the best and hope things work out for you. You and only you can change your situation for the better. Be strong and do what you need to do for yourself, no matter how hard it seems. I'm here if you need me.