Ignorance of the law Excuses No Man

@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
November 1, 2009 1:58pm CST
This is linked to the law, what ever law regardless of man made law or God made law, once you have contravened any of these laws you are liable to be metered out with punishment that befits the severity of offense made. Mylot has administered a well formulated law to govern the community here and to keep this social networking site functioning orderly. But many times it has been deliberately ignored by mylotters who still go against the rule of law in mylot and keep posting with an eye covered to the rules and regulations of mylot. They are not only wasting their time as it is for sure discussions that doesn't meet admin's approval are destined to mylot bins but they entrap some innocent respondents. At the end of the day when the discussions are deleted the poster will cry foul and emotions fly high without blaming themselves for ignoring the rules and regulations. Wouldn't it be much better if we digest well these simple rules to keep us and others trouble free? For you who are in the know of these rules here, do you respond to discussions knowing very well that you will be bundled up too with the deleted discussions. Or response at your own risk to support a friend?
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@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
1 Nov 09
When it is raining hard and fast and it's windy too and you walk with your umbrella and it blows inside out, who do you blame? There is no-one but yourself to blame for not waiting until it calmed down a bit It's the same here. There are rules which we must know about before we post or we risk the consequences of losing our posts and earnings and also causing others to lose them too. Only if we are aware of the rules can we choose either to avoid posting on discussions which are violating them or to post and know we are wasting our time. Many times I post on discussions which I know will be removed. Mostly these are dicussions by new users asking questions. I answer and tell them that the answers can be found in the FAQS and not to post or to ask in a PM if they have other queries. I know that my post will go because I am aware of the Guidelines. I also tell users that are posting ref links thatthey are violating. I know I will lose and hope they appreciate that I know too and that I am taking time out to help them become aware of something they may not have known. When we start a discussion we have a responsability towards the rest of the Lotters. All those who will respond on our discussion hope to earn something. If it is a violation they will earn nothing. I know when I respond where I am responding and it is my choice... but I can spare a few numbers now and then. How we can get it across to others that they must read the rules BEFORE they post I have no idea. Then those that put the blame on myLot when their posts are removed leave me at a loss for words
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I had one young lady tell me that she could not understand why I was being so rude to her, when I answered a number of her copy and paste recipes telling her they were against the guidelines. Obviously it is copy and paste when she can post thirty discussions in less than twenty minutes. I guess I am just a rude old lady.
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@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
1 Nov 09
It depends on the user Thea. Some really don't understand and I usually add them and PM them and then help out in PMs from then onwards. Some don't want to understand. I move on
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
1 Nov 09
So how do you feel when you've advised someone one day and they go ahead and do it again the next day, do the words head and brick resonate perhaps.
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• India
9 Dec 09
Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, So nice of you, I am with your feelings. I have know you much presentlyand in my earlier Avata. I know very well that you eaten the nuts of myLot and do your perfect job. Keep up the same spirit. May God bless You and have a great time.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 09
Naturally, when we interact regularly here we bound to have a peep of the other person character, a little portion of who you are interacting with is good enough to open the gate of a long lasting friendship.
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• India
10 Dec 09
Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, I appriciate your feelings from bottom of my heart. Let's preserve and maintain this relation like Pearl in the crown. May God bless You and have great time.
• India
10 Dec 09
Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, Well, I appriciate your feelings and I would like to maintain your relation like Jwel in the Crown. May God bless You and have great time.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
2 Nov 09
Most of the time that I get to them they have already been deleted
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
2 Nov 09
yup but not all some get deleted after I respiond but very few and then I havent a clue why they got deleted for they would be very good posts!
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
So you are lucky to escape from responding to these discussions.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
9 Nov 09
ha ha ha ha... I try to keep to the rules as much as possible. But what is acceptable as a topic of discussion to some one may not sit well with many others who reads it. Who is wrong or right in this case then? I guess sticking to the rules will make the place a more pleasant one with no one crying foul over deleted posts, or disputing over loss "income" due to administration by the admins of the site. But there are some who will just want to toe the line to see how much they can get away with. I guess these are the people who like to bend the rules to see how much they can get away with. I have been away for a while. Were there a lot of discussions or responses deleted recently?
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 09
The admin stamped their feet down on those who deliberately flout the rules and they really mean business when they went on rampage clearing discussions and responses that went against their rules. So the menace was cleared for a while but it is an ongoing matters and every now and then we still see history repeating itself.
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
16 Dec 09
Yeah... I guess some offenders just do not know how to take a hint even when it smacks them in the face. Ah well, in a forum where international members meet, like the real world, is made up of all sorts of characters. Some good, some bad. Will just have to tolerate the bad ones and concentrate on the good ones!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
2 Nov 09
I often come across discussions which I know are against the rules and I don’t generally bother responding because I know they will be deleted. Having said that there have been instances (usually ones that have involved a friend) that I have responded to with the knowledge that they would be deleted. There was one instance when a friend of mine started a topic lashing out at another member and I commented on it, telling my friend that what he was doing was not appropriate and I knew the whole thing would go but I felt it important I got my message across. You a right zandi, the rules are here for a reason and it is important that they are followed by all members here. They are not difficult guidelines to adhere to and I am amazed too at the fact that they are still ignored by so many!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Posting discussions that are against the rules of mylot is only asking for problems. These are landmines in mylot as they inflict injuries to the good credit record of those who responded. Unfortunately, some choose to ignore and go on posting knowing very well that they will eventually be deleted.
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
2 Nov 09
I don't think that responding, possibly in all innocence, to a discussion that gets deleted affects your 'credit record', Zandi. Of course, you lose whatever you might have earned from the response but that is reasonable: MyLot can't be expected to pay for the discussion or its responses. The 'Discussion Rating System' (your 'star' rating) is another matter. That is decided by how many positive (and negative) ratings you get from other members. I don't believe (but can't be sure) that you automatically get a negative point if a discussion is deleted and I am confident that nobody gets a negative rating simply because they responded to a discussion that was deleted.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
@owlings, it could be true that the star rating do not immediately drop if our response get deleted along with the discussions. The public ratings decides our star position.
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@May2k8 (19788)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
very close to the sun shining on it once and it made our bodies burn, with no make mistakes once in doing so we will be forgiven. How many times was like a god to make the rules but very often in the forbidden, it is our responsibility as the holder of the mandate from the boss. There was no time to blame others, if we do not know what we do.
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
1 Nov 09
Did you throw the yarrow stalks and read the I-Ching for this? It may have made sense to you, but us poor Westerners can make neither head nor tail of it!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Did some think that laws are meant to be broken and continue to create the same silly mistakes just making others suffer the same fate as them. Don't sleep and dream as admin is monitoring closely on the law breakers.
@May2k8 (19788)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 09
I don't understand what is I-Ching can you explaining it? We won't to be broken the law if understand about guidelines. Before or after I respond to broken the law I know it could be deleted because we give them nice advice. So, take time to read the rules before create new discussions or responding the discussions.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
1 Nov 09
Sometimes I respond, knowing I may be deleted, but feel that I may contribute something useful anyway in the process. What I dislike is a perfectly good discussion that someone drags into the muck and mire by turning it into rudeness, and it gets deleted.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
That is a common game here when good discussions turned controversial issue when someone deliberately find good grounds to turn the table up side down. We should be ready for such kind of happenings and accept them with open-mind.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I do not respond to any discussions that may be deleted. That is such a waste of time and energy and money here at Mylot. I delete them or skip over them to make sure I do not lose out.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
As a veteran mylotter, I am sure you know well which discussions to avoid. There are many instances where I accidentally respond to discussions that are sure to be deleted.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
3 Nov 09
Your absolutely right. Ppl get angry not b/c they've broken a rule but b/c they got caught breaking a rule. If they would take time to read the rules ahead of time, they would save a lot of time and trouble for other members. b]!!Happy Turkey Day!! ~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 09
Break the rules and pay for the offense. There is no two way about it. I don't understand why some people just refuse to read the rules here which are important to make their life in mylot smooth sailing.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Nov 09
zandi458 you are so right and so many refuse to read and learn the rules then complain I got my discussion deleted, why do they do that, do they hate me? No chum but you do need to just read and obey the rules. Really quite simple. So if all of us would read and re read if necessary mylot would not be deleting so many things. I have deliberately responded to some who seemingly do not read the rules that they should read the rules and learn to obey them. I knew I might lose points but just maybe some of them would start reading and obeying the rules. I like to help newbies whenever I can but to deliberately not read the rules borders on stupidity.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Anybody who join a new site should read the rules and regulations of the site to get a first hand information of the DOs and DON'Ts before starting out. No one should behave as though they are above the law and when things doesn't work their way they are quick to pick a scapegoat as the cause of their misfortunes. Just lucky to have you here who is willing to sacrifice your points to respond to such silly discussions.Unfortunately advices given only fall on deaf ears. The only solution is to ignore these habitual offenders and move on.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I have never written anything thinking it would be againist the rules but i have had discussions deleted. What bugs me is that i have never known why they were delted. I wish they would give u an explanation when they do that.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
like you I did not come out spotless either. I have my fair share of disappointments here. What seems to be innocent topics was not spared from the axe. What we know from the rules and regulations are only basic guidelines but they have spontaneous rules that the admin apply as and when it deems fit. We have to bear that in mind, they have the upper-hand in every situations.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Nov 09
U got that right.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
2 Nov 09
I could see so many violators here at mylot each day and I think I am not going to waste my time replying to their discussions. I only have very limited time for mylot so each tick of second here is precious to me. Even if the one started the discussion is my friend, if I know the post violates a rule here, I don't participate anymore. Nevertheless, I'd admit that I also was able to reply on discussions that were deleted for reasons I really could not comprehend. I think there are rules here that I should study further because there are discussions that do not seem to violate any rules in my own judgment but they were deleted just the same.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
I often fall to that category of posting something which am very sure didn't violates any rule but in the end it gets deleted. I am left without a clue as to why my post was deleted. But the admin can delete any discussions at their discretion. They have the upper-hand in this case.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
1 Nov 09
Hi Zandi, I did respond to one today who had responded to your discussion yesterday complaining that his earlier discussion had been deleted. I simply popped in today to tell him that his current one would go the same way as again breached guidelines but when he asked for futher clarification I did not return, I felt my statement was clear and he had had the opportunity since yesterday to familiarise himself with the guidelines. Quite a few followed after me to advise him of the same thing, but as he said yesterday he was already a banned member he had obviously had plenty of time to learn the rules. I wouldn't waste more than one post advising someone of that, but when I have done so in the past the poster has chosen to tell me I am wrong. I see no point in arguing about it, there are so many discussions available telling people to read the guidelines.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Why bother thea if this person when told of his mistake pretend that he is right and repeat doing the same. It is difficult to put sense on some people who keep repeating mistakes. I don't see why we should compromise with those who think they are above the law. Ignoring friendly advices and ignoring the rules and regulations of mylot will only hasten the admin to seal the gate to mylot for them.
@solared (1207)
• United States
2 Nov 09
Well I haven't seen many people disregard the rules, and if I see something I just steer clear of it.