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myLot reputation of 96/100. ronaldinu (9358)   ranked 135 out of 32,962 in life 2 years ago

I have just read that a British IVF clinic is going to help women have babies at 58. I believe that not all that is possible via medical help is moral. Do you think that a 58 year old lady is capable to take care of a small child? Is a 58 year old woman who is old enough to be her baby's grandmother, has the energy to take care of her son or daughter?

 

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tags:  ivf, mother, don't agree with it, give birth, menopause
 
1. myLot reputation of 98/100. topffer (4078)   ranked 255 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

It's ethically bad for the practitioner, catastrophic for the child, but the mother is happy...

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2. myLot reputation of 78/100. 3honor (9776)   ranked 1,661 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

In Europe women as old as 60 have given birth. At 54 I wouldn't, but some famous men in their 70's have become fathers. Do your morals apply here too? Cf Recent British and European newspapers

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. rosegardens (1302)   ranked 276 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

I feel it is the woman's choice to have the baby if she so desires and has the means to take care of it. There are a lot of senior citizens that can work circles around many 20 year olds, so it depends on the woman and not necessarily her age.

Now I do have a problem with the ethics of this type of pregnancy if there are artificial means to establish a pregnancy in a woman of this age group. If the pregnancy were totally natural then I have no problem with it.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. Beautyfactor (1369)   ranked 1,490 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

If the ladies of this age group are paying for the IVF treatment themselves, rather than using NHS money, then I have no problem with it. The life expectancy of women has now risen dramatically, and say a woman gives birth at the age of 58, she could live on to be 88 or even older. Personally at the age of 31 I am exhausted with my two children, but if the woman feels she is healthy and capeable at the age of 58, then why not let her become a parent.Her older age doesn't mean she will be anything less than an excellent mother.


myLot reputation of 71/100. mandybeau (148)   ranked 9,279 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

i have seen an example of a three woman that had kids what I would say was a late age, I wouldn't even visit 58 as rational. All of them lost their youth overnight, could not cope well, looked haggard, each partner cleared off, because they too were older men, and could not be bothered. So if the Mothers health fails which I believe it will, Who looks after the kid. I mean, I would be totally peeved if a 50+ woman that was related to me left me with a kid she had had too late in life. The age expectancy isn't in the picture, at 80 people are hardly youthful. Its just genetic engineering.
Think at 58, when the kid is 20 shes 78
at 30 shes 88 if shes lucky.. NO WAY Its immoral.

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 3,195 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

Actually, yes...many ladies of age are capable of taking care of new babies. There are many of us that take care of our grandchildren at this age and older. I am 53 and I have had at least 2 of my grandchildren living with me since they were born. If I can take care of them I certainly could take care of my own baby.
Many of the ladies I know at an older age can care for babies and children. Why not let them or help them have a child of their own.
For many ladies the new medical things available now allow them to opportunity to finally have a baby of their own.

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. nanajanet (2933)   ranked 1,440 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

At age 55, and taking care of my 2.5 year old granddaughter five days per week, I could not imagine wanting to go through pregnancy again. That being said, if I could not conceive naturally, I would have tried the adoption route because there are so many unwanted children out there, why not give them a home rather than fill up the planet with more people?


myLot reputation of 71/100. mandybeau (148)   ranked 9,279 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

A Breath of fresh air, I agree with all you have said. I just find the whole old Mother thing ghastly. They are killing themselves and for what, so they can have another person to what, die of some ghastly disease.

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. learn2earn (16956)   ranked 535 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

I agree with you that not all possible medical help are moral. I don't know if a woman can be able to take care of a child but I think that the woman is still capable. 58 is not yet the age where a woman can no longer lift a finger to take care of a child. So if the woman can conceive at 58 with God's permission, then I believe that God can give strength for the woman to take care. Sarah, in the Old Testament times bear a child at 75.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24281)   ranked 208 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

Well after all grandparents take care of their grandchildren all the time...

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. lelin1123 (9052)   ranked 707 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

I think its totally ridiulous for any women to have a child over 50 and thats pushing it. These women who are doing this are being very selfish I believe. There has been a few others in their 60s having babies. How cruel can someone be. Do they think they will be there to enjoy their child when they are graduating from high school or college. There was one who gave birth to twins after pretending to be 55 years old she was really 66 years old she gave birth later that year. Two years later she died of cancer and now the twins are orphans at the age of two.sad thumbdown

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48828)   ranked 945 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

hi ronaldinu at 58 I had a lot of energy and would have been able to handle a small child, In fact here in the US we often find grandmothers caring for their grandchildren so that the parents can work. but what worries me is that after thirty it becomes so chancy of having a normal birth, e ven at 32 I had one pregnancy that was fine, but the next I had a brain damage baby. the odds get worse as you go up the age scale and at 58 its very chancy for a normal baby. Too many birth defects happen in the 40 ties and fifty ties and it becomes wrong I think to bear a child at that age. why not adopt instead.thumbdowndunce capfear

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