~A Right Way To Doing Dishes?~

My youngest daughter
Valdosta, Georgia
January 2, 2019 7:59am CST
Good morning everyone! I hope you are doing lovely and I hope your New Year is going well so far. God loves you and would love a relationship with you!! Kinda silly I suppose but it has come up in my home that there is a "right way" to do dishes and apparently how I do them is not it! This isn't a serious argument and I will continue to do them the way I prefer but I'm wondering how others do them now... First, this is how my husband does them...he fills the sink with soap and water, turns the water off and uses that water to scrub-then rinses them off with clean water. This is how I do them...I put soap on the sponge and wash some dishes on one side of the sink (after cleaning the sink out first), then put them in the other side of the sink to rinse them off. Big question of the day...how do YOU do dishes? No wrong answers-just fun!! Picture is of my youngest daughter the other day. I don't love her more or anything, she's just the only willing participant usually since she loves being in front of the camera!
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Jan 19
That's a great picture of your daughter. I've done dishes so many different ways. Filling the sink the way your husband does, and doing it the way you do, and washing them under running water without filling the sink because I didn't have a plug for the drain. It all works. Like you said, no right or wrong answers, and I'm sure no right or wrong way as long as they get clean. Now, my preferred way is the dishwasher.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@just4him Thank you, I love it too! =) Yes, as long as they get clean that's all that matters.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 19
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@NJChicaa (115972)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I put them in the dishwasher.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@NJChicaa Darn you!
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
19 Jan 19
I rinse them off and then put them in the dishwasher. I do not turn the dishwasher on for at least 2 days as there are only the two of us here.
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@NJChicaa (115972)
• United States
19 Jan 19
@ramapo17 there are only 2 of us here and i could run it twice a day
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• United States
2 Jan 19
I rinse off any residue from a meal and put them in the dishwasher. I do wash the pots and pans by hand. Cookie sheets go into the dishwasher though.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Scribbledadnauseum I miss having one of those!
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• United States
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies Yes, I remember when I didn't have one. I hated doing dishes by hand.
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• United States
2 Jan 19
@moeybags "Cookie sheet" is a relative term. What I mean is just a flat pan. I bake biscuits, cook french fries and veggie tots on mine. I haven't baked a cookie in a long time.
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@LadyDuck (457969)
• Switzerland
2 Jan 19
I wash the dishes like your husband does.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Ladyduck Oh man!
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@LadyDuck (457969)
• Switzerland
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies I think is fine also like you do.
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@LadyDuck (457969)
• Switzerland
3 Jan 19
@moeybags It's better to do as we feel more comfortable.
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• United States
2 Jan 19
Most of mine go in the dishwasher but if I have to hand wash anything I do it the same way you do
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Marilynda1225 I have only had one of those once in my life. I do miss it!
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• United States
3 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies this is the first house I have a dishwasher. I washed dishes by hand most of my life until my kids got old enough and I could make them do it
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
20 Jan 19
@Marilynda1225 I never minded doing dishes by hand but being we have the dishwasher here I use it. Sometimes I might do a few by hand. Whatever mood I am in.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
2 Jan 19
Most get done by the dishwasher. But the ones by hand get done one by one.. so neither of your ways i guess, lol
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Courtlynn Before 5 kids I did them one by one. Now there's too many of us to do it that way. Lol.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies it can take awhile, lol even with 2-3 people.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
2 Jan 19
Great photo! I used to love when I had a kitchen with two sinks. I washed in one with soapy water and then put them in the second sink. When I finished I would rinse them. It made things easier.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
20 Jan 19
@ramapo17 Do you find the double sinks a better arrangement than the one?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@1hopefulman Thank you! =) Yes it does save time.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
20 Jan 19
I have the double sinks now but also a dishwasher. There are many times I just hand wash them.
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@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Jan 19
Most of the cups and plates go in the dishwasher. But all the rest get handwashed like how your husband does it. I will say sometimes there are not a lot of stuff to wash, so I will end up doing it like you do. Happy New Year! No resolutions about dishes . . . they always have to be done no matter what .
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@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies Well, my mom never had a dishwasher - and she will even say that handwashing cleans a lot better. I actually think that's true! Wishing you and your family a fabulous 2019!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@much2say I so miss the dishwasher! That made things easier. Lol. Yeah, dishes will never stop...unfortunately. Happy New Year to you!
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
20 Jan 19
@much2say My parents never had a dishwasher when I was growing up and I always washed them and my sister dried them. I actually liked washing them. I felt like I really accomplished something every night. We had a window in front of the sink and I would just stare out it. To me it was peaceful.
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@jstory07 (134426)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Jan 19
The way you do the dishes is how I do the dishes. So since we are women and perfect. Our way is the right way.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@jstory07 Not many do it our way!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Jan 19
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@jstory07 (134426)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies Not many are perfect like us.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I put mine directly into the dishwasher. I only hand wash good china, crystal, and silver. Those need to be washed with a soapy sponge, then rinsed in clear running water, and dried asap. I always have helpers to help. Another terrific photo!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@DianneN I wish I had a dishwasher! We wouldn't have had that convo at all if I did. Lol. Thank you! =)
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies True, but just think of what a terrific discussion it made.
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@Dena91 (15861)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I do them like you do but when I am at Mike's parents I do them like your husband because that is how his mom wants it to be done.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Dena91 At least someone else does!
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
20 Jan 19
@moeybags I don't think there is a "right way": As long as they are clean at the finish is the right way to me.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Jan 19
I have done dishes both ways! Depends on how dishes to do.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Johnroberts Yeah I understand that. :)
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@Hannihar (129415)
• Israel
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies Nice picture of her. I keep kosher so I have a side for milk things and a side for meat things. I have one sink so have to put something in the sink for meat and one for milk. I have soap in container for milk side and soap in a container for meat. I soak the dishes in the appropriate thing in the sink and put dishwashing soap on the dishes and then rinse off and put away in the proper place.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Hannihar So you do them more like my husband as well. I'm really losing this one! Lol
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Hannihar There isnt really, he just tells me there is.
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@Hannihar (129415)
• Israel
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies I didn't know there was a right or wrong way to do dishes. I just do them.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
2 Jan 19
I do them like your husband does
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Happy2beme Man, I'm losing!
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
2 Jan 19
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@GardenGerty (157546)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I have a portable dishwasher now. Love it. I tend to when washing by hand run hot soapy water, but also load a sponge so that if it is hard to clean I have extra umph. I put them in the second sink, or a dish pan, and rinse several items, putting them on the drainer for a while until dry. It is very slow. I also feel that the dishwasher gets them cleaner and more sanitized.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@Gardengerty I wish we had a dishwasher again! That's what I do as well. :)
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
2 Jan 19
I first filled the sink with water and wash them first then filled again with water but this time with soap then wash them
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• Germany
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies Yes it saves water for me
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@m_audrey6788 So you do them more like my husband does them. =)
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I also am pretty spoiled with having a dishwasher but I do some by hand. Usually one by one.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@maezee I miss having a dishwasher!
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@RasmaSandra (73368)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Jan 19
Lovely photo and lovely girl. At the moment the boiler in the house is on the blink and no hot water. I do the dishes by heating my tea kettle then pouring the hot water in a white plastic tub and adding dish detergent. The water is very hot so I carefully soap up the dishes and then rinse them off with cold water which flows into the hot water. By the time I am done the water is just pleasantly warm and I leave it for any other dishes I might use that day.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
3 Jan 19
@RasmaSandra when my hot water wasn't working for a week I had to heat it on a stove as well and it just made everything take longer and be more tedious.
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@1creekgirl (40506)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I'm glad to have a dishwasher, but sometimes it's just easier to wash them by hand. Then it's like your husband does. Sorry Really cute photo of your daughter!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
@1creekgirl It would be the easiest with a dishwasher! I'm losing bad here. Lol Thank you!
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@JudyEv (325654)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Jan 19
Sorry but I do them like your husband too although I do have a dishwasher too.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Jan 19
@Judyev I guess most people do! Lol
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