I am back again after a long hiatus

@rosekiss (30380)
Eugene, Oregon
March 22, 2023 8:29am CST
I am finally back to stay I think as life has been hectic, as I am now in a different place as I sold my house and now renting a studio apartment. I wanted to come back sooner, but trying to get my house ready to sell took all of my time with no time for anything else. Now that I am settled in my new place, things are better as I don’t have anything to do here like I did there. I have missed being here and I knew I would have to leave for awhile, but I never intended to stay gone for good. I have missed all of you a lot and now that I have nothing to do here, I have a lot of time to give here. I do errands of course and have to take my dogs out as well. I am slowly getting back into the swing of things here so bear with me during that time. I hope everyone has a grear day and happy mylotting.
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@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Mar 23
It's good to see you here again. I wondered what had become of you. You may not even remember me but we were a bit friendly before. Sounds like you've had some positive changes. How are your dogs? Take care.
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@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Mar 23
@rosekiss ..........Sounds like life is going well for you.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
23 Mar 23
@celticeagle Yes it is, much better than before and my family is not too far either. They are taking care of me and paying the bills I can’t. I am thankful to have them.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
My dogs are great, but I can only have 2 so I surrendered the oldest one to the vet and they said they will take good care of her and find her a good home. My dogs are coping really well. I have to take them outside several tubes a day, but getting used to that pretty fast.
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@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
22 Mar 23
@rosekiss You had a lot on your plate selling your home. Now, I hope you can relax and enjoy your new place. Take care of yourself.You really downsized.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
Yes I was really busy with the house. When you said I downsized, you said a mouthful as not only a smaller place but a lot less stuff. I sure did donate a lot of personal things but also threw out a lot too that weren’t all that great. I am getting used to being in a studio apartment as it is really a big change. Not much to take care of now which I like too.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
@Hannihar Being in a studio apartment is really different. The studio apartment where I live was formerly a super 8 motel, that went out of business when Covid hit. A new owner purchased the motel, and decided to convert each room into a studio. It is just right for me and my two dogs. There is plenty of space to take them out to go potty as well, and they can walk around the outside of the motel to get their exercise. It took me a bit to get used to but I am doing fine now.
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@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
22 Mar 23
@rosekiss Believe me I know about moving and downsizing. I had to downsize so much in my last place and now we live in a bigger one but will be moving hopefully soon. It is very hard to move and do stuff. I have not sold a home so do not know that but I do know about moving and it is very exhausting and tiring work. I bet you had to donate stuff and can understand that. I bet it is a very big change. I moved from a bigger apartment to a smaller one and now a bigger one and hopefully we have one more move and that is it and a place for both my cat and I to sit out and her to run around like a yard or a porch where we can relax. We could not live in a studio unless it was very big and we had room to do things and a porch and a place for my mobility scooter.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
22 Mar 23
How long was you gone, Karen? I just recently returned after being gone for about 2 1/2 years.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
I was gone for several months. It seemed a lot longer, believe me. We all know that life gets in the way and we can’t always do the things we have wanted to do. Now that I can, I am definitely coming in hate more now.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
22 Mar 23
@rosekiss I didn't plan to be gone for so long but things kept happening and I just didn't have it in me to be here.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
@velvet53 Life can get in the way, so I can understand you didn’t feel like being in here. I wanted to, but just didn’t have the time as selling a house takes time and it needed to be done. I miss the house, but not all the work that went with it. I am happier now so that is a good thing for sure.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Mar 23
Welcome back to the site!! I am glad to know that you have settled into a new place now and things are better now.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
I am glad as well as it took awhile but hate I am, and so happy to be back.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
@sjvg1976 I do as it is just the right size for me. I can cook but not bake as there is no oven, but that is okay anyway. I am glad I have a stove top to cook on. It is an induction cooktop and took a little getting used to but I finally figured it out. I cook everyday on it.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
22 Mar 23
@rosekiss I hope you like your new home.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
22 Mar 23
Hello and welcome back. Having to take care of non virtual matters take time. I am glad to know you are set in your new place.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
Yes, things do take time. I am also glad I am finally stunned in my new place. Owning a home for 15 years too now renting is a change butte a cause welcome one as I have more time now to do what I have been wanting to do.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
@LadyDuck That is so true. I had no intention of moving either, but I am glad my family suggested to sell as it was overwhelming to take care of. Now I am on easy street so I have a lot of free time to do what I want, so that is great too.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
22 Mar 23
@rosekiss - I know what you mean. We own this home from 24 years and I know I would hate to move, but you never know what life gives you.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Mar 23
Nice to see you. I hope your day goes well. Glad you are settled in your new house.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
27 Mar 23
Me too. It is a roof over my head and I have my easy chair and my bed and I am doing fine. Of course that is t all, but those are the main items I would need.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
27 Mar 23
@CarolDM Yes it is and my family is close y to help me which is great too.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Mar 23
@rosekiss That is excellent news. Enjoy! Life is all about those little things.
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@RebeccasFarm (86769)
• United States
22 Mar 23
Oh hiya welcome back. Glad life is treating you well.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
Life is much better now. My family is closer now and they are taking good care of me as well some of my bills, which takes the burden off me. A lot of responsibilities with bills and such. I still have bills, but only 2 I take care of and my family takes care of the rest. I am so thankful for my family as they are the ones that found the place where I am now living, which is still in Oregon, but a different city.
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• United States
22 Mar 23
@rosekiss So good to hear this
@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
22 Mar 23
Welcome back! It looks like you've been gone over a year. I'm glad you got everything settled with your house and the move to the apartment is finally finished, too. I hope you're having a good day.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
I am glad that I am settled too. It took a little longer than I wanted, but I am all settled now and ready to discuss with everyone.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
22 Mar 23
@rosekiss Being ready to discuss with everyone is always good. I've been up all night and am ready for bed. Have a great day.
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• United States
22 Mar 23
Moving certainly can be time consuming and stressful. Glad you're settled in the new place and have time to spend here on myLot.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
I am glad to as I have missed being here but I just couldn’t come in as I just didn’t have the time.
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@sallypup (57898)
• Centralia, Washington
24 Mar 23
I'm glad to find you here. Eugene is a pretty place to live- you are down the line from me by a state.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Mar 23
I was in Eugene and now I am in Creswell, OR about 12 miles south of Eugene. It is a very small city but I am adjusting just fine to being in a new city.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
22 Mar 23
Welcome back to Mylot. I'm glad you are back. Glad to see you.glad to know that you have settled into a new place now .
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
I am glad I sold my house to. It took less time seeing it than it took to get it ready what with all the painting, new appliances, and new floors. My family helped as they did all the painting and paid for the appliances abcs new floors. They are also paying my rent hate so I don’t know what I would do without them. They have been a real blessing.
@porwest (78761)
• United States
24 Mar 23
Welcome back. I am not sure much has changed around here. Some new faces have come around and some old faces have disappeared. But it's still loads of fun, of course, and that's all that matters.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Mar 23
Yes you are right as it is all about the interaction that we have between other discussions. It isn’t about the money either, but it does help
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@Adie04 (17360)
23 Mar 23
Welcome back to mylot!
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
23 Mar 23
Thank you so much. I am glad to be back.
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@thebos (5779)
• Kisumu, Kenya
22 Mar 23
Hello and welcome back, I never knew that many people actually knew mylot
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
I have been a member of mylot 14 years, on and off. I hope to stay more now that things have changed in my life and I have more time than I had before, which is good.
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@thebos (5779)
• Kisumu, Kenya
23 Mar 23
@rosekiss I hope soo too
@florelway (23141)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Mar 23
Welcome back and glad you're already adjusting to another lifestyle.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Mar 23
Yes I am, as it is quite an adjustment after owning my home for 15 years. It is good though since I don’t the responsibility I had before. I only have to keep my apartment clean and that is easy. Other than that no mowing or pulling weeds of all the other things I had to do when I owned t home. I am glad to be done with it all finally, as it got to be too much and was too big to take care of.
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