Kindness of a Stranger

@AmbiePam (97690)
United States
April 11, 2025 2:24pm CST
When I was a child I was painfully shy! So selling candy bars for school fundraisers for me was a source of intense anxiety. One of my dad’s pastor friends would buy a whole case of candy bars from me (he’d give them to his grandkids), and that was a big blessing. However, I always wanted to sell enough for a Hooky Pass (an excused absence to skip a day of school). So, I’d go to the local grocery store (the store gave it an OK), stand there, and a classmate and I would ask customers if they wanted to buy a candy bar. I hated it. One day, a man probably in his fifties came by with his teenage daughter (my guess) and I asked if he wanted to buy a candy bar, and he said sure. He gave me the money, but handed me the candy bar back and told me that was just for me, and he hoped I enjoyed it. That lifted my spirit the rest of the week! Just the kindness he showed to a shy little girl. I never forgot that. And every time I’m out and a child is selling a candy bar, if I have cash I buy one from them and hand it back to tell them that’s meant for them or whomever they want to give it to (no adults I’ve run into have had a problem with it). It lifts my spirit, and I remember the kindness a stranger showed to me. What a blessing he was!
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@LeaPea2417 (37782)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Apr
That was so kind of him.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
11 Apr
It sure was.
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@TheHorse (225937)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Apr
Better to pass on kindness than mean-spiritness.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
11 Apr
Amen, brother.
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@TheHorse (225937)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Apr
@AmbiePam It's not that difficult IFF (not a typo) you have something in your cup.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
11 Apr
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@xstitcher (34012)
• Petaluma, California
11 Apr
Aww. So sweet. I absolutely hated going door-to-door selling candy bars when I was a kid. I was so sure I'd mess up my words.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
11 Apr
Oh, I know.
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@wolfgirl569 (115201)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Apr
That was nice of him. I seen a guy do that a couple of years ago when some girls were selling girl scout cookies. He asked her to pick for him and then gave them to her
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
12 Apr
I love hearing that!
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@RasmaSandra (84398)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Apr
That was wonderful that you met such a kind man.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
11 Apr
I can’t imagine how many nice things he did in his every day life.
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@dgobucks226 (36492)
12 Apr
I can relate to your feelings about selling something to strangers. You have to have thick skin, be confident, and accept rejection without it bothering you. There are always some people who can empathize with your situation or are good hearted by nature. Special acts like that bring back good memories.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
12 Apr
They sure do. I teared up as I wrote this post. It still gets me.
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@GardenGerty (163232)
• United States
12 Apr
What a kind act on his part and a great way to commemorate it on your part.
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@kareng (73129)
• United States
12 Apr
That is a great way to pass on that kindness showed to you as a child.
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@kareng (73129)
• United States
12 Apr
@AmbiePam Yes, a lasting impact and a good one too!
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
12 Apr
It meant the world to me.
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@snowy22315 (188563)
• United States
11 Apr
That is really a sweet story. What a nice man! Glad you pay it forward,
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@allknowing (144762)
• India
12 Apr
Tat is a kind gesture more because you too now do it
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@Juliaacv (53188)
• Canada
11 Apr
What a kind interaction, sweet that you still remember it. My husband and I always do that, buy the little item for sale and ask the seller to keep it.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
11 Apr
I love that!
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@DaddyEvil (146785)
• United States
11 Apr
He was very kind...I'm glad he did that for you.
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@1creekgirl (43402)
• United States
17 Apr
Amber, you should write a book about your amazing experiences. They are so uplifting and encouraging.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
17 Apr
I never thought about that, but it would be fun to share.
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@1creekgirl (43402)
• United States
17 Apr
@AmbiePam The company we're working with seems to be an excellent company. We're almost at the stage when we can send the manuscript to be formatted.
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@sallypup (64045)
• Centralia, Washington
11 Apr
I'm glad you had an angel lift you up when you needed him. Hubby had a not so pleasant experience with the Salvation Army one winter. After that every Christmas he gives a bell ringer a candy bar cause he feels for them.
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@AmbiePam (97690)
• United States
11 Apr
That is such a sweet thing to do! If I were the bell ringer that would make my year.
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• United States
14 Apr
I remember those fundraisers too from when my kids and grandkids had to sell candy bars. That was so kind of that man to buy your candy bar and then give it back to you and now you have carried on the pay-it-forward tradition.
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@JudyEv (351953)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Apr
What a lovely kindness from that stranger. I bet he didn't realise it would resonate through the rest of your life.
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@nela13 (58843)
• Portugal
12 Apr
We always keep good memories of those who do us good.
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@LindaOHio (187411)
• United States
12 Apr
That was really nice of him.
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@tom_view (6575)
• Kolkata, India
12 Apr
He was so kind
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@grenery8 (16316)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
14 Apr
wow. you forwarded that, that same happy feeling. so kind of you and of that stranger too!
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