A very different Christmas.

@MarieCoyle (56328)
December 25, 2025 2:39pm CST
It just didn't go as planned. Sometimes, no matter how hard we plan things, they just don't work out, do they? Son was simply not well enough to go to his sister(my daughter) and brother in law's Christmas dinner last night. After a few back and forth calls (they live about 20 miles away) we agreed to call it a wash and hoped to get together soon with them. About an hour later, I got a call saying ''Mom, we will be there shortly, we just brought the dinner with us! '' So, we did share some time and had our somewhat traditional Christmas dinner--homemade soups, homemade breads, and some other things we enjoy eating. We parked the son in the living room and he did pretty well. He was so happy to see them! We ate and watched ''It's a Wonderful Life'' which is a much loved movie in our list of traditions. Subdued and very small, we did get to see some loved ones and that meant everything. I did feel badly for my daughter and son in law. They went to all of that trouble for us, stayed several hours, drove the 20 mile drive back home and OH, we had so much terrible fog. They said the drive was extremely foggy and hard to see. Ugh. Then they got up super early to go to son in law's parents to see them for a few hours, which is about 125 miles one way. His parents are not well at all and very frail, so they can't come here to visit very easily. All in all, we are doing our best and son is doing better today. His brother called, as did one sister, the other sister texted and they are calling later today. The main thing was that son had some family time. It was plain and simple and heartwarming, and that meant so much. So that is our not very exciting Christmas. But, it was still sweet and special. As the day winds down, I hope all who celebrate Christmas here have had a good day and feel blessed and loved.
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@NJChicaa (126760)
• United States
25 Dec
That was sweet of them to bring dinner to you. I'm so happy they did that.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
It was so nice. This is our traditional Christmas Eve dinner. Christmas dinner has varied over the years, depending on time, place, and who was coming and what they wanted to eat, but Christmas Eve has always been the same. We had a good visit and felt very fortunate, thank you.
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@kaylachan (83655)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Dec
You just take it one day at a time. George and I spent time outside now he's watching t.v. I'm hoping that he'll feel better, too.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
I hope you and George both feel better soon.
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@kaylachan (83655)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Dec
@MarieCoyle He's actually doing alright. We did somethis year we hadn't in two years.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
26 Dec
@kaylachan I hope he continues to do well.
@rebelann (116552)
• El Paso, Texas
25 Dec
Merry Christmas, I'm glad your's went well all things considered.
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@rebelann (116552)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Dec
I had a nice one as well, thanks.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
It was so nice and all unexpected, but it worked out so well! I hope you had a nice Christmas.
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@wolfgirl569 (131663)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Dec
That was very sweet of them to pack everything and bring it.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
It really was and perked up the son, too. Thank you!
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@sarik1 (7735)
26 Dec
Nice to know.have a great day merry Christmas
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
26 Dec
Thank you , I hope your day was nice, too.
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@sarik1 (7735)
27 Dec
@MarieCoyle Yes my day was nice.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
27 Dec
@sarik1 I’m so glad it was.
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@Nakitakona (59990)
• Philippines
25 Dec
Family gathering in a simple way especially this Yuletide seasons of the year is enough to make everyone happy and be grateful that they're back together as a family. Thus it makes Christmas is the joyous season of the year.
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@Nakitakona (59990)
• Philippines
26 Dec
@MarieCoyle You're welcome.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
Thank you so much.
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@AmbiePam (116023)
• United States
25 Dec
That IS a very special Christmas. I am so glad you got to be with them!
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
They said it meant a lot to get to see us. It meant the world to us,too. Thank you, Amber.
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@snowy22315 (204998)
• United States
25 Dec
You must have been so happy to see them. I am sure that was one pleasant surprise. Kudos for son in law and daughter to go the extra mile.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
They try so hard. They are spread rather thin at times. Thank you!
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@celticeagle (187035)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Dec
What a nice sentiment. Fog is no fun to drive in. Glad you folks were able to get together though. I don't think that Christmases have to be exciting and have a lot of fancy stuff going on. We don't do gifts and just spend time together. My daughter went to bed and my grandson, and I watched the rest of a movie we had started a few weeks back. It doesn't have to be what the Jone's' are doing and keeping up with them but what warms our heart and makes us feel good as a family. Happy New Year!
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
27 Dec
We do what works for us. It's not about the gifts...it's about being together, and the reason for the season.
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@celticeagle (187035)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Dec
@MarieCoyle .......The family part of it I certainly agree with.
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@LadyDuck (496393)
• Italy
26 Dec
I am glad that your son feels better and you had some good family time. We had a nice relaxed day, the neighbors visited and we chatted for a while.
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@LadyDuck (496393)
• Italy
27 Dec
@MarieCoyle - Yes, the neighbors who visited are the couple that has been so helpful and kind. She left reminding to me that no matter what I need they are there to help.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
27 Dec
I am sure it did your husband good to have company even though it was probably more work for you. Are the neighbors you had visiting the ones you have spoken of previously, that have been so helpful and kind?
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
28 Dec
@LadyDuck That is just so good to know, very reassuring.
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@RasmaSandra (95682)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Dec
At least you and your son are together, and I'm glad to hear he feel better. I wish you both merry and bright holidays.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
I hope 2026 is better for all of us. Thank you, I wish you the same!
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@sallypup (68451)
• Centralia, Washington
25 Dec
Your Christmas sounds heartfelt and delightful
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
25 Dec
It’s not about the gifts or the fanfare, but I know you know that. Being together for a little while meant everything to us. Thank you so much.
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@nela13 (59228)
• Portugal
26 Dec
They managed to be with you and tour son, that was lovely.
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@nela13 (59228)
• Portugal
27 Dec
@MarieCoyle you are welcome
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
27 Dec
It was wonderful to be with them, it always is. Thank you.
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@LindaOHio (217220)
• United States
26 Dec
That was very gracious of them to bring you the dinner. I'm glad you spent Christmas with family.
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@LindaOHio (217220)
• United States
27 Dec
@MarieCoyle You're very welcome.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
26 Dec
Christmas Eve was simple but very nice. Since he wasn’t well enough to go to their house, it was special when they packed it up and brought it over. Christmas Day, it was just son and myself, but he rested a lot. Thank you, Linda.
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@FourWalls (84269)
• United States
26 Dec
Oh, you got the big gift for Christmas: love.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
26 Dec
And you know that meant more to me than anything. That's what it's all about.
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@1creekgirl (44519)
• United States
26 Dec
I'm so glad you all had that special time together. I know it meant the world to your son.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
26 Dec
He gets discouraged sometimes...you know, a few steps forward, then some steps backwards. I know it's hard for him, he wants to be well. He has always been a social fellow, had lots of friends, volunteered, etc. Now, most of his time is spent with old Mom. I am always glad when he is well enough for company to visit with. Thank you, Vicki.
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@noni1959 (12795)
• United States
26 Dec
That was exciting. Your son perked up enjoying seeing everyone. They came to you! What a beautiful family. Merry Christmas!
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
27 Dec
I am very blessed to have some of the best (adult) children anyone could ever have. They have wonderful hearts. Thank you!!
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@JudyEv (375391)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Dec
Sweet and special (and simple) wins hands down over busy and stressful. I'm sorry plans didn't work out but as you say, you were all able to enjoy some family time.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
28 Dec
We are going to try again in a few weeks. Thanks, Judy.
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@Shiva49 (28042)
• Singapore
26 Dec
It happens that things do not go according to plan despite our best efforts. Your son did turn up to join the festivities in the end. I wish your son better days ahead.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
26 Dec
Thank you so much!
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@Akutza90 (406)
• Semarang, Indonesia
26 Dec
Merry Christmas to all my friends here. I hope you have a happy and healthy Christmas. For me personally, I might be quite tired today because of the weather which often rains.
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@MarieCoyle (56328)
26 Dec
We have had gray skies and drizzly rain for the last 3 days and predicted to have several more days of it. I hope your weather improves and that you enjoyed the day, too.
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@Akutza90 (406)
• Semarang, Indonesia
26 Dec
@MarieCoyle I hope so too because it's been raining continuously for almost 2 days now.
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