Do you blame yourself when you get your feelings hurt?

@AmbiePam (109580)

• United States

5 Jan

Makes sense. Sometimes I can’t tell if I’m being overly sensitive or not.

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@DaddyEvil (165096)

• United States

5 Jan

@AmbiePam I don't worry about things like that. (And you shouldn't either. Your feelings are yours and shouldn't be dependent on anyone else.

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@AmbiePam (109580)

• United States

5 Jan

@DaddyEvil Thank you.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (490241)

• Italy

5 Jan

Only my brother hurt my feelings. I tried to be nice, but he does not seem to care to be friendly again.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (490241)

• Italy

6 Jan

@Laurakemunto - I was kind enough to try to get back in touch with him. He ignored me, I moved on.

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@Laurakemunto (13475)

• Kenya

6 Jan

@LadyDuck yes at least you had clarity of where you stand

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@Laurakemunto (13475)

• Kenya

5 Jan

Family can sometimes put us at crossroads and dilemma but in the end we need to choose ourselves and our inner peace

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snowy

@snowy22315 (201085)

• United States

5 Jan

It happened a few minutes ago when I wanted to have a nice chat with friend, but he was driving his neighbor to the bank. I understand why he couldn't talk, but he could have said I'll you when I get home or something. It's OK though .I am typically not that nice to him anyway.

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@AmbiePam (109580)

• United States

5 Jan

@Laurakemunto I think we can’t always help how we feel. She understood he was busy, but that doesn’t always help.

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snowy

@snowy22315 (201085)

• United States

5 Jan

@Laurakemunto I am not exactly hurt, a bit miffed maybe..It's all good though.

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@Laurakemunto (13475)

• Kenya

5 Jan

Now you feel it's reciprocated? No maybe you wrong and he was genuinely busy and focussed to drive his neighbor to the bank. You shouldn't be hurt

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Fleur

@Fleura (33305)

• United Kingdom

5 Jan

Strangely enough it was a couple of weeks ago. Little One made some funny remark that she has made many times before, and I told her that was a worn out old joke. She responded that my face was a worn out old joke. I was unreasonably hurt by that, I guess because I feel that there is a lot of truth in it!

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@AmbiePam (109580)

• United States

5 Jan

I have to tell you, that would hurt my feelings too. That’s just mean. And I’d bet your face is lovely, just like your heart.

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Fleur

@Fleura (33305)

• United Kingdom

5 Jan

@AmbiePam You're so sweet

Thank you. I know she only meant to be funny and it would have been funny too, probably, if I wasn't feeling bad about my face already!

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@Laurakemunto (13475)

• Kenya

5 Jan

Nope do not let other people's remarks or opinions make you feel bad. You are good no one needs to approve you of your looks

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Marie Coyle

@MarieCoyle (53075)

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5 Jan

I wrote a response to this and it vanished in thin air. Second time today, not sure why it did that. Anyway... No, I don't get annoyed or hurt too much about it anymore. The two people who seemed to specialize in hurting me in any way they could are basically out of my life now. One is deceased (and no one misses this person) and the other one lives far, far away, yay!

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Marie Coyle

@MarieCoyle (53075)

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22h

@Laurakemunto I have learned over the years that there are just a few people out there that seem to find fault with everything and everyone in their path. I try very hard to steer clear of these people. I can't change them...but I can change how I deal with them. I don't need any downers in my life right now.

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@Laurakemunto (13475)

• Kenya

20h

@MarieCoyle wow exactly the slogan I learned and am happy that as I grow older I've learned to protect my peace fiercely no matter the source of pain. I value me above anything else

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@Laurakemunto (13475)

• Kenya

5 Jan

At least you are at peace now I too am happy for shedding off some sources of pain that happened to me sometime ago

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@Laurakemunto (13475)

• Kenya

5 Jan

Even today a colleague we've never interacted another one made coffee for me and this dude just took it when I asked he stretched the cup and I said I can't take it he said if I wanna get angry then it's ,my problem. Gosh it hurt but I had to let it go. Some people are just weird

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