Back From the ER

By DE
@DaddyEvil (170611)
United States
February 6, 2026 3:09pm CST
Okay, we're home and we did find some things out. 1st, I didn't break my nose when I fell a few weeks ago. 2nd, I don't have a concussion from when I fell and hit my head on my dresser three days ago. What they did discover from x-raying my head was that I have hydrocephalus. A buildup of cerebrospinal fluid in the brain... The fluid gets into the folds of the brain and puts pressure where is shouldn't. MAYBE that's the reason I've been having balance issues for several years. I have a referral in to a neurologist. They are supposed to call me to set up an appointment next week. The way it was explained to us, the specialist will do a spinal tap in my lower back and draw off some of the spinal fluid. IF that helps, then they will be making an appointment to do surgery to put a shunt into my head, from there into my abdomen to allow some fluid to drain so there isn't another buildup of fluid in my brain. You all know as much as we do now.
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@JudyEv (375670)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Feb
Oh gosh, that doesn't sound too good but at least now you have some answers.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you. Pretty and I discussed it with my brother on the way home. We shall just have to wait and see what happens.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
@JudyEv Thank you very much. I appreciate that.
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@JudyEv (375670)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Feb
@DaddyEvil Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you.
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@FourWalls (84365)
• United States
6 Feb
Oh I pray they can get that resolved quickly!
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you.
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@AmbiePam (116282)
• United States
6 Feb
I’m glad you found all that out! It’s definitely not something you wanted, but it’s good you know. Did I miss a post where something happened and you decided you needed to go?
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@AmbiePam (116282)
• United States
7 Feb
@DaddyEvil Yes, I remember you falling. I’m really glad you went to the ER.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
@AmbiePam I really wish they had given me different/better news, though.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
I posted about falling and hitting my head. I've been having more balance issues and have gone back to using my cane again. When Pretty called our doctor to make another appointment for me to see her, she said we might as well go to the hospital because that's where she'll send me for an x-ray to make sure there was no bleeding into my brain... So I bit the bullet and agreed to go to the hospital for an x-ray. *shrug*
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@crossbones27 (52428)
• Mojave, California
6 Feb
I think I had that happen to me once when I was 28 or 29. I j was just standing their talking to my friends and became wobbly and almost fell down. It was the only time I almost fell down. I have had always one eye pupil bigger than the other. i Have had that since 18 and doctors always trip, could be just deformed, some told me they always said it is how we look for strokes that could happen in future. Anyway, I glad they know the problem for you. I hope all goes well.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you very much, brother. I appreciate it.
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@LadyDuck (496691)
• Italy
7 Feb
Of course that could be the reason why you have balance issues. I hope the surgery is not too invasive and you can recover quicly and feel better. Take care DE.
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@LadyDuck (496691)
• Italy
7 Feb
@DaddyEvil - Balance issues are a problem, my husband is because of built up liquid in his inner ear.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
@LadyDuck Hyperthyroid can also cause balance issues. Pretty thinks the buildup of the cerebrospinal fluid is another thing caused by my thyroid issues. We'll see what the neurologist thinks when we see him.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you. But we don't know I'll need surgery yet until after the neurosurgeon examines me and sees what he thinks...
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• United States
6 Feb
At least now you know what you're dealing with but im sure not news you wanted to hear. It does sound like there is a solution but im sure you'll get more of an idea when you see the neurologist.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Very true. Thank you.
@velvet53 (24419)
• Palisade, Colorado
7 Feb
I'm glad that you went in and was checked. At least now you know that you didn't break your nose and you have no concussion. I am sure it was a bit of a shock to hear about the fluid on your brain. I wish you the best with the spinal tap.
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@velvet53 (24419)
• Palisade, Colorado
8 Feb
@DaddyEvil You are very welcome. I hope you will get the dizzing events taken care of.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
8 Feb
@velvet53 I really hope so. Feeling like I'm falling is never a fun thing.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
8 Feb
Thank you very much.
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@jstory07 (148019)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Feb
I just said a prayer for you. I hope everything goes good for you.
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@jstory07 (148019)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Feb
@DaddyEvil Take care.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
9 Feb
@jstory07 I'm doing my best, thanks.
@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
9 Feb
Thank you. I appreciate that.
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@noni1959 (12806)
• United States
7 Feb
I haven't been on for a few days and had no idea you fell until you told me in my post. I'm glad you didn't break your nose. They think the fluid build up is from years ago and not a few weeks ago? I'll keep you in my thoughts and please keep us up to date.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
I've had brain scans before and have never been told I have too much fluid in my head before, so yes, it is a fairly recent thing. The nurse didn't know why it was happening. Thanks. I appreciate that. I definitely will let you know when we find out more.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
10 Feb
@noni1959 I have a consultation with the neurologist on Wednesday. We'll see what happens next.
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@noni1959 (12806)
• United States
10 Feb
@DaddyEvil Yes, please let me know how you are and what they find out.
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@DianneN (252271)
• United States
7 Feb
You now have an explanation of what may be affecting your balance. Wait until you see the neurologist to get the whole picture and what he suggests.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
True... I hope I can get an appointment with them soon.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
@DianneN Well, yeah, they wouldn't have gone into the medical field if they didn't want lots of work.
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@DianneN (252271)
• United States
7 Feb
@DaddyEvil I hope you can, too. Specialists are always booked it seems.
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@lovebuglena (50439)
• Staten Island, New York
6 Feb
Good and bad news. Guess you didn’t expect to hear you have hydrocephalus.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
6 Feb
Yeah, I was expecting to hear I broke my nose and that I had a concussion from the fall a few days ago... Possible brain surgery is scary, though.
@lovebuglena (50439)
• Staten Island, New York
6 Feb
@DaddyEvil Is it possible you won’t have to do it?
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@lovebuglena (50439)
• Staten Island, New York
6 Feb
@DaddyEvil It is a good thing you didn’t have a concussion or break your nose.
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@LindaOHio (217402)
• United States
7 Feb
Wow! I'm glad they found this out. I'm sorry you have to go through the procedures; but if it helps your balance issues, that will be worth it. Good luck.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you. I'm glad we found out but wish I didn't have to go through more crap... *shrug*
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
8 Feb
@LindaOHio I hope everything goes well for you.
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@LindaOHio (217402)
• United States
8 Feb
@DaddyEvil You're welcome. I wish I didn't have to have my kidney stones blasted; but it is what it is. Shrug.
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@pitsipeahie (5615)
7 Feb
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. That must have been really scary and unexpected. In a way still, it’s a blessing in disguise that, that fall led you to this discovery rather than not knowing at all something is already happening inside your body. I’ll keep you in my prayers and hope you stay strong through all of this and find healing.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
@pitsipeahie I hope things get better for you soon. I know it isn't fun but we can't give up, either. Other people depend on us so we have to keep doing the best we can. You can always talk to me in the private messages and I'll listen and offer advice if you need it. (Sometimes, just talking and knowing somebody is really listening can make us feel better.)
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you. It was a definite surprise and not in a good way. At least it answers some questions we've been having lately when new things crop up that weren't happening before. I do appreciate that.
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7 Feb
@DaddyEvil We’ll get through this! I’m dealing with some health issues too. I need to undergo an MRI. I have a reversed neck curve and also have moderate scoliosis. I’ve had this condition for over 20 years, and now that I’m getting older, the degeneration is becoming more noticeable. I had X-rays a few weeks ago, and the hardest part is worrying about possible nerve compression. I’m really hoping that doesn’t happen, because that could mean surgery or me not being able to lift my neck anymore... I don't know... I’m seeing my doctor again this coming Monday. I’ll be needing continuous physical therapy, and I already have maintenance medications that I’ll probably be taking for life. I'm in perpetual chronic pain in my shoulders, neck, and back, but I just learned to live with it. That’s just life sometimes. On top of that, finances have been tough. I’m not working like I used to when I was employed, and sometimes that makes everything feel even harder. The financial struggle is real. On the second week of March, I’ll also be following up with my family medicine doctor, and then I still need to see an OB-GYN. So many different doctors to see. Honestly, there are days when my body feels overwhelmed with so many symptoms. I think I’m starting to develop anxiety because of it. I'm scared but life goes on, and I’m doing my best to live one day a time.
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@Shivram59 (48283)
• India
8 Feb
It's so complicated a problem. How long will it take you to be ok??
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
8 Feb
I have no idea until we talk to the neurologist.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
9 Feb
@Shivram59 Thank you very much.
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@Shivram59 (48283)
• India
9 Feb
@DaddyEvil Wish you and early recovery.
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@toniganzon (75561)
• Philippines
6 Feb
That's terrible news. My mom's cousin had hydrocephalus when he was a baby. HIs did grow up to have intellectual disabilities. I wonder how you got it. It really does need immediate attention.
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@toniganzon (75561)
• Philippines
7 Feb
@DaddyEvil That is weird indeed.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
The nurse today wondered why it hadn't been diagnosed before since I have had brain scans before this. We don't know, either.
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@sallypup (68505)
• Centralia, Washington
7 Feb
Open mouth over here. You are overloaded with terrible health news. Your ability to keep on screaming amazes me. Take care and know that I am here if there is anything I could do.......
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Yes, I know that. And thank you very much.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
@sallypup The nurse was amazed we knew so much about it when she was talking with us. I had to explain that one of my nephews had hydrocephalus when he was born. The doctors removed fluid with a spinal tap and, while my nephew is crippled, he has a good mind and is a fun person to interact with. I'm dreading the day she decides to go live with her boyfriend in Georgia.
@sallypup (68505)
• Centralia, Washington
7 Feb
@DaddyEvil I feel powerless. And amazed at your strength and grateful your daughter is there with you.
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@just4him (322492)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Feb
The good thing, is you know what's finally going on. I hope you get that appointment soon.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
8 Feb
Thank you. I really hope so. It's worrisome not knowing what will happen.
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@just4him (322492)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Feb
@DaddyEvil I'm sure it is worrisome.
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@aninditasen (18144)
• Raurkela, India
7 Feb
Wishing you a successful operation. Hope you will be fine after the operation.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you. I'm hoping I won't need an operation.
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@aninditasen (18144)
• Raurkela, India
10 Feb
@DaddyEvil That's something nice to hear.
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• United States
7 Feb
Wow, that is a lot of information to receive in one day. I'm sorry about the surgery, hopefully it's out patient surgery. I hope everything will be better soon for you.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
Thank you... We shall see. After we got home and I'd undressed and gotten into bed, I got a phone call from the garage that has had our car for the last week... The car is done and everything is working correctly on it now. I explained that we'd just gotten in bed from an exhausting day at the ER and asked if somebody was planning on being at the garage tomorrow. She told me they were working from 8am until 2 pm so I asked if it was okay if we got the car and paid them tomorrow. She said that would be fine.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
7 Feb
@misunderstood_zombie I'm just glad they were working a partial day tomorrow or I would have called my brother again to take me down there today. (At least I can see today even if I am having trouble maintaining my balance.)
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• United States
7 Feb
@DaddyEvil How nice you didn't need to get up again. I know what you are talking about finally resting and having to jump up and go. NOT fun!
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@valherma00 (1689)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
7 Feb
that sounds really scary. i'm sorry the news weren't like it's nothing.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
8 Feb
Thanks. I just have to wait and see what the neurologist has to say.
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@DaddyEvil (170611)
• United States
8 Feb
@valherma00 I guess I'll find out.
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
8 Feb
@DaddyEvil if the expert can help you, that would be great but i hope this person will not shock you additionally.
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